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~ WHY CAN'T YOU TRUST ME??? ~
Power Of Love by Celine Dion
"I have NEVER lied", "Ask me anything, I have NOTHING to hide", "I send you a picture to PROVE who I am", "I LOVE YOU so much", "I have NEVER met anyone that was able to make me feel as special as you make me feel", "I want to grow old with you", "We are "Soul Mates" etc...
Ever heard these words before while you were in a chat? Ever had someone lie to you about their age, being single or divorce??? About catching them into a lie why they were not able to meet with you??? Have you ever gotten the one about the spouse hugging the computer? Or about the one that the spouse found a text? Anyone ever got injured and could not e-mailed you and you waited and waited and waited? You even thought they had an accident and died... Suddenly they pop back on after a week, a month, 3 months... and say "I LOVE YOU BABE, I MISSED YOU SO MUCH.. BUT..."
I am sure you might have heard a few... I have been "ONLINE" for a couple of years now, and YES... I have been thru a few of these myself.. I have been hurt more than my share. I have hurt people more than I want to admit. I did my share of "playing around" "flirted" while in a "Net-Love" relationship.
Why do we do it? Hmmmmm...... Oh yes... I know... It is permitted on here... people have been warned about the net.... they should be aware that a very BIG % of the people come on here because they want to fufill a fantasy, or because it is easier on the net than it is in real time, oh yes.... also the one about doing it on here is NOT cheating... or "I am sooo lonely" or "I haven't had sex in 10, 20, 30 years" beside... on the net it is safe sex..
I am sure there are a % of the people that are honest on "The net"... but who are they???
One would say... but the same thing is happening in "real time"
Today I came across a text I wrote a few years back abbout "TRUST"
PEOPLE AND TRUST (1986)
How many of us can honestly say they trust someone completely? What does that five letter word actually mean? Many of us said "I trust until the person show otherwise."
Should we allow ourselves to have trust in someone completely? What could it do to us, if we did? Depending of our understanding, the word trust can have a different turning point in our behavior... if that trust is broken by someone we love.
There are also many words that have close signification of the word trust. Each of those words have their own meaning.
Trust, faith, confidence, reliance all denote the feeling that a person will not fail in duty, service or the like.
Trust implies that the feeling has no reservation and that it rest upon an estimate of character more than evidence.
Faith suggest that this feeling is more emotional to a large degree. Faith doesn't seeks evidence and so many verge of credulity.
Confidence is more rational trust based on good evidence. Reliance is distinguished from the others. It is more often used for the act of giving trust.
The opposite of trust is suspicious and doubts.
Trust is a confidant reliance on the integrity, honesty, veracity and justice of another without careful investigation. To trust is to rely or allow without fear of the consequences. To believe with confidence into somebody.
Is the word trust properly used in our daily language? Has the word been used to put faith in anyone... just to have that person believe... that would LIKE to believe in them?
I read somewhere that "the only way to make anyone trustworthy is to say you trust them. The surest way to make them untrustworthy is to distrust them and show your mistrust."
If we have trust in someone, will it have a power on their behavior? Will it enable that person to be near of where we want them to be???
The word trust is based on perfectionist and doesn't allow for human errors. Should we allow ourselves to have complete trust?
Let say that you are the person that is being trusted. At one point.. for some reasons... trust is broken. Depending of how the other perceive the word ... it could have a disastrous effect. The trust that once was... could be broken forever.
Should the word forgiveness be side to side with the word trust? Should we allow the other person to be human? For some people, it is hard or impossible to have complete trust.
We all know we can be trusted at some level. What if we are the one that broke that trust? Should the other person allow for mistakes and grant forgiveness. We can't judge others for their behaviors or don;t like being judge. Is forgiveness a healthy attitude??? How many times should forgiveness be the route to take when someone has broken our trust???
I find the "WWW or net" is a very hard place for me to trust someone... a LOT harder than "Real Time" Why??? Because "body language" is NON-EXISTANT and VERY important
So... to all my "DEAR ROMANTIC SOULS" out there... BE CAREFUL.. BE AWARE... LOTS of wolves out there..... and "Little Red Riding Hood" will be eaten RAW if he/she is too naive..
More coming soon... Would love to have feedback....
