Chasing Clouds, Despite the Cliffs.
Ammunition for Social Power
by John Underwood
Table of Contents
Chapter One................................Introduction
Chapter Two...............................Talismans
Chapter Three..............................Tactics
Chapter Four...............................Body Language as Weapons
A book must be designed to be read and not designed to be written.
Here are some writing tips 1. Allow the reader to develop how the thoughts go so give them some leeway 2. Avoid seriously negative ideas
Every word in the English language can be replaced with the word "I" and then all of the I's can be replaced with grunts and growls. Are we communicating yet? That is why human language has the flexibility to make you incredibly happy. How can you turn this status quo into a power strategy for yourself, gain freedom for the things you want to do. This does not mean what you think they want to hear, but when you meet them in your mind ask them what they want to hear and they will answer you.
Do you think that you feel the same way about a piece of art as the artist does, no you don't and so you mislead yourselves into a discovery justifiably but a false one according to Van Gogh's vision. Now if people are all the same, and allot of them aren't painters what are they all doing. Well in a large since they are making a living by misleading you or rather being in the market for you to mislead yourself.
Any thing that is not directly in front of you is a dream. People try to use dreams to empower themselves and in large part they are successful because dreams are so hard to pin point or to absolute meanings from to make use of or to counter attack. If you recognize this you can leap over this deterrent and stack some more permanent successes onto your self. Dreams can be beneficial and so you see how difficult being a human really is there is no gauge for dreams, ah but there is a gauge the gauge that the sovereign entity assigns to that dream, or to the parameters of the dream so that it's end is the same as the means.
Because the present is so interfering with our emotions and our thoughts the end is not the means but the end is the means. We cannot rest until our battles are won. Find a winning battle that can be carried to a new field, preferable a field that knows no losses, or better yet a filed that knows only wins.
People try to justify things by their existence, and so do you, remember the idiom I think therefore I am try I think therefore I am right. People try to give meaning to things because they are alive, beading is a nice and quaint thing to do because such and such.
Make sure that other people are doing more for you than you are doing for them. Getting things done is relative, if you were getting what the other guy is getting make sure that you have two for every one of his. And maintain your rule always. Realize that it will take allot of work to see this through but the possibility is always there always consider what it is that you are getting out of life. NEED VISUAL
You don't have to really get away with anything all that you have to do is to be expecting.
Concentration is difficult to get when things are happening around you. Everyone is being swept away by the imaginary ideas and concepts that each member of the party comes up with. Everyone has already accepted the sucking of themselves into the black hole with out consideration. Power is always a sovereign element, it never crosses from one person to another. Even the idea of power cannot be shared between two people; the illusion can be shared and the perception but never the living force of any two.
The ideas and habits that may really help you may be weak and faint in your practice or understanding. Observing people is like observing yourself and building the combinations together quickly to see if there is any thing available for you in even random seemingly unimportant events. Vigilance is the answer to much of what goes unnoticed, and it's insight is nothing more than observing, possibly reluctantly, but maneuvering yourself
The seeds of comfort, you are powerful and capable of helping yourself to allot that the world has to offer. So be aware that you will get what it is that you want and still further aware that by the nature of your power you will make yourself comfortable in all aspects of life with all of your ideas it will take time but remember you are never "safe" when you are comfortable, their are no limits to being comfortable and no limits to the amount of magic that can escape you while you are being way laid in the lap of comfort. Think of it as evil think of it as a weapon you use against other people and take as little of it's offering's as possible. Be aware when luxuries are in the minds of other people and use their preoccupations against them. They will be looking in the direction that most of the other's are looking, they will be looking towards the almighty dollar, the gold or the treasures of life, they will not be looking to make sure that they get what they see. They will believe things that are not useful to themselves. Watch at parties how long some one looks at the liquor that is being poured. What do they see in the drink? What do they intend to gain.
No one ever totally believes what they say. And no one actually means what they say. However what they say, or what is being said is the stage where the illusion takes place. Because the lack of their own power they purport rules or beliefs. The requirement that they use is that you believe what it is that they are saying. They don't have enough power enough magic to get what it is what they are after, so they try to put as much to their advantage as they can. What do they do they pull down from the virgin clouds the rules that they hope you will follow. This immediately puts you at a disadvantage. They don't know what it is that they want from you, they may not know what they want in general, but if they can use ideas such as "society" or "everybody" or general statements, they can. The actual stage where this takes place doesn't exist which is why it is such a great weapon you can't create a defense to it.
Physically what you look at is what you believe you will gain from. This isn't subject to alterations, it is a fact of living as sure as sex and breathing. Some people look at other's some people look at diamond rings some people look at their decrepit old cars. You want to well for yourself but you don't have a clue into what or how? That is part of the reason you are looking. You could walk around with your eyes shut all the time. People by their nature aren't clever animals. They only have life, cleverness unlike life has to be built and maintained, this is an extra something that we did not agree to when we signed our birth contracts. We can't plan our lives, we aren't in control and we can not plan our cleverness either.
We are so much not in control that our habits carry us much of the way, we don't like to think and rethink and we don't like to make guesses about things that we don't have information on. We could get slammed, permanently. So habits reserve our energy so we can build the better life we desire. Now some people don't like being human, they do not take time to think where ultimately they are going to be so never design the habits that could carry them there.
Our Talismans An object marked with magic signs and believed to confer on its bearer supernatural powers or protection. Something that apparently has magic power
The particular talisman isn't important what is important is that it allows you to see as far into the unforeseeable parts of life as you cannot on your own (a tool). Notice that those parts are unforeseeable they are not hidden in any manner of speaking. And what is important is that you can remember them in order to adopt their skills they try to uncover for humans. All of the talismans are going to be alike in that they are about your life your power and your happiness.
The pendulum talisman. A pendulum has the greatest potential for movement when at rest. You have the greatest ability to create something for yourself when you are at rest. The pendulum allows gravity to do most of it's work it only swings along.
The energy ball talisman, peoples emotions operate in a sea of current, feelings, non-absolute. And they sap one another of their strength. The reason this happens is that relations are being made because there are so many clouds.
Because the human psyche is limited in it's scope of experience we on a task by task basis try to make our worlds small, a manageable size. What sorts of ideas are workable for most of our tasks and desires.
The kneel and beg syndrome, If you become a victim of the kneel and beg syndrome, immediately copy the intimidator body position, if there is a raised counter step away from it so they don not reap the full reward of it's position.
Bar Bell Talisman
It is fact that physical exertion produces chemical changes in our bodies, including adrenaline, and dopamine. There are emotional reactions to these chemicals. When you have something stressful to endure adrenaline and dopamine can alleviate stress and make the difference between a successful experience and a tragic one. Exercise empowers our bodies into a state of natural defense and aggression. It makes one powerful, when they were weak. However this strategy is almost never used. Use this strategy during your next job interview, public speaking, or date. Remove yourself from lower class by being proactive in getting your mind to work with your body.
The Pendulum Talisman
Pendulum definition: A body suspended from a fixed support so that it swings freely back and forth under the influence of gravity, commonly used to regulate various devices, especially clocks.
A pendulum is at its greatest potential for action when at rest. So those moments when you are fatigued with routine are the moments that have the greatest potential to finish the message that you have designed for yourself. This also illustrates that when absolutely nothing is going on is exactly the moment where the greatest achievements can be gained.
As you are deciding what your message is going to be keep in mind your limitations. Allot of little tiny messages are just as worthless to you as no message at all. Why? You are just one person just one part of the vast world. If you try to get many small messages to relate to one message then that isn't defining the one. To have an impacting message everything you do must relate directly to your goal. When you sit down and think about all the projects that you have or all the things that you have done it is possible that you can redefine there meaning to aid the one message. Besides your theme "I, I, I, will not ever change so the message that you choose will be a recurring theme in your life.
Picture that dull things that you will do for the next several days.
Scheduling, always over schedule, and then call and cancel if you feel that what you have written down is no longer an opportunity. The idea is to get a grasp on the really good opportunities and extend them for all they are worth while maintaining your options in case a few of them dont pull through.
The only thing worth living for is the experience of living.
Avoid details as much as possible. Allow the weak of mind or the neophytes handle the mundane things that will not communicate your message
Time Line Talisman
Allot of people are so limited in their scope so limited in their person that they so not consider solving their problems with something as removed as sunshine. It is going to be something as removed as sunshine that will solve problems, exactly because there aren't any such things, people get sick of themselves, their experiences.
Eliminate Ultimatum type words from your vocabulary
Remain stationary with some good ideas you have developed on your own, until you know as much as possible and more slowly in a single "set" of directions.
Everyone misses "A" on the solution line because humans have a tendency to think they start at point "B" when instant solution rests at "a"
a-----------------------b------------------------c-----------------------d-----------------e---------f-----g------------>
Where does instant gratification fit into the electricity flow tailsman, it is d, or e, or maybe f, but each of the letters was missed. During the persuit of our goals (what we really want for ourselves) we have the habit of satisfying our fustration with instant gradification. What we are doing is making a second, easier goal to achieve, but it only serves as a distraction, and we never get to where we want to go.
Perception Triangle Talisman
Slaves Build Pyramids Also known as six degrees of separation.
A. In the world there is allot going on,
B. We don't know everything that is going on.
C. If we knew allot more than we do we might be able to take advantage of more.
D. There is so much going on that things are related.
the basic principle behind the perception triangle is to use all the things that are going on and relate them to a message of your life. Entity A, performs and action and also entity B performs an action at the same time or about the same time.
Line e represents the relationship between a and b, whatever it might be and however small. The vertical lines represent the effort exerted by both a and b. Next to this relationship triangle is another triangle and another and so on, until there is a circle. Entity b may have a relationship with another entity in the circle or not, it isn't significant. The real point is to find yourself in the middle exactly in the middle of where you want to be with exerting as little energy as possible.
Finding the effort lines and matching them up. Several things to keep in mind, all the effort lines already exist, and all the possible targets already exist. So there isn't very much work to do in those respects. To begin you must have a message, that you personally design. The center of the circle has no definition and can be anything in the material world. etc. the message cannot be vague. The tools you use to manipulate your history, can be vague and the tools you use to manipulate people can be vague but never the message. You need something clear to lock into your past.
The effort lines represent, the effort of others that will be of value in achieving the target. Does not represent their efforts to acquire the target. You barrow from other's lives, other's directions, in order to more fully develop your own.
The Lock Box Talisman
birth---------------------------------[information]--------------------------------death
Everything your hear has taken a life time of interaction to produce. To let it fall freely from our mouths is to spite the experience of our lives. Often, when asked questions we simply recall what we were told, mindless of any beneficial stances or the aid we are giving to another. Keep the intellectual box locked, and acquire skills to guard against intrusion.
Everyone has a mind and in some form or manner interacts with those around them. When someone recognizes that we have a box and that the information inside the box is needed or wanted, and that they accept that in order to get inside the box they have to give something valuable or needed. In small conversation this may mean a certain complement, a little respect.
Never revel the contents of your intellectual box no matter what logical or moral tools are used. People will pry people may even call you at all hours of the night or follow you home. Disclose the contents only when others dissolve the box. That is they recognize that you have a box, and they know that a huge amount of exertion is required to get what is in the box. Have you noticed that so many women shop in the isles of so many store without the men they hop to attract. Do you know why and where the homeless sleep? This and all other information comes to you through effort if nothing other than your living and thinking. It is valuable. You find relaxed opinion after relaxed plan after relaxed experiment after relaxed adventure.
Chapter One Dense Clouds
Exactly the point, respect, love, and hundreds of other myths do not exist if you are to get what you want out of life but they do it exist and are in the way of the people who will aide you in your quest. The odds are more strongly stacked on your side. People will believe in things that are not helpful to them that act as extra beliefs, extra things to worry about.
Target 95% of the target is total frustration, but the very center is relaxation, tranquility. Why is it like this? Simple people miscalculate what they have to do to get their dreams or objectives accomplished. Our span of perception is limited, and rarely will it discriminate incoming perceptions. Also people have separate dreams separate consciousness and that simple little fact that people are separated creates allot of friction, interferences. Imagine an archer who shoots at this target, likely yourself, when you add time to the scenario what happens. Every time he misses the target he gets frustrated. But when he hits the target he quickly forgets his success and continues to live his life. In fact it is even possible that he hit the target by accident. The point being that to approach a bulls eye is only.
Many folks read an entire book go through all that concentration. Get people to concentrate on you unaware that they are doing it.
Their are only negative words because, of the lack of perspectives, our inabilitys to grasp our positions our growth. If there was just one more ounce of understanding, one step backwards in the perception circle then things become clear.
The fact remains that picturing the future is extremely hard even for people who have experience and, the surroundings that help them. Why is this so, why do humans persist to refuse to make use of their tools? Why is altering reality hard? The more in touch with ourselves we become the greater we see that the world is made from our perception. the known universe is that same entity that has your first name. they are one and the same, it is when you see a difference between yourself and the know universe that things become distant. Focusing on differences, is a state of mind that only exists when a human does not see themselves worthy of being that which they are. The jump to the clouds, and hope to see the land on which they are standing. When in reality all the clouds, all the land, all the people all have the same name, a good name.
Sit and picture yourself tomorrow, what will happen that will cause an expense, emotionally or otherwise. Consider your alternative, what are you missing that would make the day flow easily. When you picture the future the immediate things that come to mind are the dreams the really wonderful dreams that you would like to come true. That isn't accomplishing anything. What must be done is to look down at your feet and slowly eliminate one by one the all the problems that will occur. Slowly rename the universe and as you do so, imagine what could be replaced by an even greater opportunity.
You want to know what is the real unbeatable skill? What the to discover what the universe is really made of? The finest thing in the world is to imagine yourself as someone else, another creature. And laugh at all that he or she does, exactly perfectly the same as you would do under the same situations. The greatest rewards and the greatest weapon that can be wielded is the self as another. Living your own life has so many limitations, you only have the use of your own money, your own experiences your own personality, just you. But to live exactly as another is to live two lives. Their wisdom becomes yours their skills their very essence becomes you.
Look at a dog and see how you would act at the very same moments, look at your children and recognize that you behave the same way, the very same way as they do. Practicing this skill automatically draws others lives into your own. You have the benefit of living your own life with it's possibilities and opportunities and you live so many other peoples lives. You will see them act like a character in order to get the attention they want, you will see them try to gain authority where there isn't any to be had. You will see something you haven't ever completely seen yet . . . yourself.
When people's minds go meandering into the clouds that is where they expect to operate. They hold out there hands for other member's of the cloud clan.
Because the way your successes have to be organized one right after another, if you aren't doing what it is that you want to be doing then your progress will not lead to something that you want to do.
Part of the reason of other people's existence is to make use of their needs allow them to take care of some of the details of your life.
The Guillotine Talisman
Everyone of us, at any time could just blurt out anything at anytime and look like a total fool to ourselves and to others. We have a tendency to be too frivolous, to greedy, to open, to flamboyant Guillotines is that they are designed so that tier victims never see the blade before it cuts. Effectively we have stuck our heads into a guillotine with our mouths holding the cord. Humans like to explain the things that they have done. Humans like to execute authority. Humans love to be included. Resulting in carrying around ideas that are not applicable to situations to their lives.
There is always the supreme villain, who appears every so often to see if he can't add a victim to his title.
People have the peculiar habit of saying what is on their minds even when their isn't any benefit to be had. If you listen to people all of a sudden they become right.
People do not understand how to maneuver themselves in a position of power of a position of comfort in certain areas or situations.
People have a tendency to focus on details of their lives without the consideration of where those details will get them in the future or how those efforts will eventfully be utilized again without further effort they don't prepare for the unknown future.
People live out of curiosity, without deciding for themselves how that will be of aid.
People loose entire weeks days or years because of there miscalculations because of they do not value themselves enough.
To accomplish an action quickly and with confidence it has to be thought about ahead of time it has to be thought of twice once in your head and again in real life.
Watching people with binoculars.
People have the peculiar habit of talking to themselves. And since they must they do not even consider what some of the better things to say are.
In the process of deciding why you were born you also decide how you will die.
Because no matter how old or experienced you may be your a virgin is some areas so this book is written for the clue less, for the gullible, for the naive and for the ones who know the value of being so and the value of using such people.
One little saying is that if you listen to people all of a sudden they become right. Another little saying is that the more you do the more you can do. Third little saying is that the more you do the more you can do. A third little saying is that the world revolves around emotions and the only real commodity is the experience. The experience is the only real commodity.
Love is like chasing a cloud.
Anytime you have a negative feeling something is wrong, you are wrong. Your perspective has gotten limited again. You need to once again shift you feeling patterns and thought to some thing in which there is a gain. or a good feeling. The sun will change colors again very soon.
You hardly notice what it is that you are doing. 100% of people don't have a clue to what they are doing. How can this be so with so many intelligent folks? Well why were you born? What are your plans tomorrow, what are you doing on this planet. Those are the questions that don't have a verbal answer they are answered in terms of you message and what you do on a day to day basis. Very likely you don't know , and there are feeling that are strange to you and feelings you will have that will change your mind about what you do know. So nobody really knows anything, or do they, actions, forethought using other people. What they do know is verified only by the attention of other's. Practice you perception of people be able to feel many different kinds of people and many different kinds of uses. This increases your ability to grow by leaps and bounds you will not be able to experience every thing in your life, so how do you beat the situation, by observing the sum total of other peoples skills, and how they deal with their emotional turmoil. You can adopt their skills draw from their knowledge. Life is brief the more a person is aware of the fact the better they live . . . why?
How to create little successes to get you on your way,
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There are more naive people than there are experienced, why? All ears have a tendency to follow what is said. Experiences rarely match completely and many needs are similar, similar in their effect on people's ears. You have a monopoly on what you have to say. and in some respects the paths that others will lead to your door step. Folks are powerless to their own desire, it's the one thing they can't accurately monitor, even if they have felt those terrible emotions before they fall prey time and time again to their own awareness. . because by the time they attempt an emotional count they are already swept away. They remain attentive to the world around them only in certain ways, a world that feeds them information, and impossible environment to remain completely coherent.
Ideas like respect, all you need to do is violate their bubbles only so much as they like to see. With your mind do what ever is necessary to keep the pace up to your direction.
When you talk to someone don't fool yourself into believing that you're talking to them, your talking to your ability to talk to them, ability to recognize their bubbles their changing moods, your talking to yourself. You cannot go building Egyptian pyramids for people you meet no matter how easy it may seem to make their lives. When you talk to another person you aren't talking to them you are talking to your ability for them to accept you. Every tone of voice and every movement of every living body is "I" or it depends on whose more keen in accepting the unwritten conditions. Every minute is a life and death situation you either get what you want in whatever scope that involves weather it be in terms of sex, powerful ideas, money, perception or in terms of building an over message from time.
Nothing is ever given.
Why is there value in this thinking? It's the one place that people won't of if they fear, fear isn't anything but a stepping stone to discovery and possibly recovery. they fear the most unknown about themselves, the terrible pain they can't see but soon will, and all of it keeps them locked away from cognition on a constant basis. This makes whatever knowledge or skills you can develop deadly and terribly difficult for other's to deal with contend to. You can develop a monopoly on what is your right to live exactly as you would like to, your adventure and meeting the highest means to your end.
Mask Talisman
It is sometimes easier to perform underneath a mask, on stage in real life and figuratively speaking.
The Unicorn Philosophy is a world of perfect happiness, where it's laws don't hold together it improvises and continues along it's way it isn't trying to do anything necessarily but accomplish the rare quality of happiness. It's icon is change and the independence of any law. For the sake of the next time of enjoyment and new things to enjoy. Their aren't any prices to be paid and if their where the appearances they would quickly be eliminate with a new happy perspective.
Social Laws
1. Never draw attention to yourself with out an idea of what you will do with it once you have it, and where it will go after that.
2. The unknown universe outside of your body is you, now say the known universe is you. If you don't come up with it of what use is it to you. Remember experience touches how?
3. Because you are everything that happens even the notion of question isn't totally correct. Your sovereign journey will prove both you and others wrong.
4. Their are occurrences where the road leads in a direction where what you want is a sure bet. Some people think of this in tens of there being winners and looser and sides to be taken.
5. The people you know and the ones you do not know are an army and they wield much power, they take orders from places they cannot see and cannot verify accurately and they are willing to sever these sources of power.
6. You as a living growing creature will constantly grow to love the things you hate, to become curious of the things that bore you any step is a treacherous one.
7. You radiate what you feel so you become what you feel.
8. So you will think defiantly about what you know what you just thought, we are so much alike that nothing can be hidden and nothing needs necessary to be explained.
9. Whatever is emotionally painful will draw you towards it in a pleasant way until you can walk away from it with all the strings in one hand for most people this becomes life it's self.
Love show me where it is it doesn't exist. Where is it, can you pull it out of your pocket to get me to work on time? Maybe? But it only exists because people are fatigued and scared of what little there is.
People are their separate ways because they've had problems they either ran away from something or ran towards it which its self says allot about the person, to escape worse what they perceived worse circumstance. What they failed to do was to create things to say to themselves when they were talking to themselves that would aid them if they had time to think in comfort.
Ideally you want people's attention drawn away from yourself and ideally keep them occupied with themselves. It isn't the prison cell that is painful but the reality that you could be free.
Likewise you want to avoid locking yourself into a position that you can't do anything with. By drawing attention to your self you draw bars around your feelings and without their manipulation you are useless to yourself, in the process of making the next step..
Most suffering is the focusing on one's self to much, exactly for this reason. Originality does come form frankness of one's feelings. But one has to be aware of what these feelings are and what they could be and how they might be manipulated. When we have what we think we want our message stops. The hard stuff is having the backing after getting what you want right behind your push that ensures the furthering of the outcome never loosing touch. If your going to drop a penny into the metro turn styles while riding Metro Train make sure you have the tokens that "ahem" look like pennies, and do it as an accomplishment and so no one not even yourself notices what your doing.
Can you separate yourself from your desires enough to make them happen? Tour life is your life and a big moment in it is just a moment, you go on afterwards ad everything will appear normal. It's the hearty moments that build your life into the achievement that it will become. You can never afford for emotional set backs to keep you stagnant. Take the difficult feelings and put them in perspective of what happens next. After all you gotten over harder more embarrassing and more destructive things before this only seems impossible because it sits before you n the here and now, just a moment.
What was once a stormy and volatile night passes into calmness. The thunder is temporary, sparse and deadly it might strike.
Revealing another's curtain, what ever is done in the course of a lifetime is done because it was done from a very basic desire the desire for survival. The element to match is
1. What was so terrible an element to be deemed fearful.
2. What can be said to influence in the here and now in reference to what was so terrible.
3. What steps were taken to solve or other wise ameliorate the situation.
Has the result been successful and how volatile were the things that the person discovered about themselves if anything that are visible today. The latter can lead to further investigation and or tell of how limited his/her scope has been and in what direction is widened. If a detection can be ascertained a weakness has been found.
Masks
Pseudo-Accommodator: being a pseudo accommodator is pretending to go along with an opponents point of view moment for moment until he unveils one of his soft spots. Directly afterwards you spite him saying the nastiest thing about him that you can, very likely about what he has just revealed. Follow his words carefully, he is letting a rope slowly out of his mouth when the length is right you yank at his jaw and rip out his teeth that he was showing off moments ago. Effects Produced: silence, foreboding doubt, secret contempt, resentments, private reservations. Takes the reality that your opponent was building for him self with his own energy and crashes it upon him while you steal the energy and possibly the reality.
Double Binder: setting up expectation building reliability, confidence, playing charm to all or most questions, challenging natural enthusiasm and coaxing until the goods are worn out and then maintaining a rebuke instead of a reward making no attempt to fulfill your part of the bargain. You can make your initial commitment known or unknown it does not matter. Effect Produced: devastating irrevocable loss, worthlessness, inadequacy, shock.
Character Analysis: Explaining what the other person's feelings are. Maintaining contact and initiative until the limits of your contract have expounded. Distortion of explaining what another's feelings are there by justifying your more self-interested view of the situation and causing no doubt what so ever of your forthright and
Salvation Stance: Demanding more- "" nothing is ever enough. Maintaining throughout that it is their duty to reach salvation unto you through what they give to you and insisting that their score is negative 10,000 no matter what.
Withholding: withholding approval, affection, recognition, material things or other wise anything that your opponent has a right to expect from you. Thereby causing him to be slightly off balance and unable to get a clear view of the situation. Produced effects: stress, self doubt, loss, indifference. Application is much broader than realized, next time someone asks something of you withhold it and it will cause damage, paper pencils, information, remove the security that your opponent is counting and it won't effect you but will cause a feeling of loss on his side.
Humiliation: using intimate carefully selected or acquired knowledge to "hit below the belt." Using vantage points such as position in financial, or marital life, habits, unusual body functions, a recent display of stupidity, personality anything close and permanent of your opponents where he would rather not suffer an attack.
Refusal: Refusing to take a fight or emotional bend seriously. Laughing in the face of the person upset, refusing to acknowledge their position as real or unusual. Reasonably hard for some people to so but if acted well enough can be extremely painful and effective.
Benedict Arnold: not only failing to defend your the partner, but encouraging attacks form outsiders , appealing to the lessor values of others as ammunition. Benedict Arnold are successful in part because the willingness of his other allies and his urge to change sides depending on which way the wind is blowing. He attacks with a conscious intent to disarm and alienate, thereby leading his quarry to muster strength from exactly where he is being attacked from.
Undermining: deliberately arousing or intensifying emotional insecurities, anxiety or depression keeping an opponent on edge, involved beyond their awareness and possibly slightly off balance, threatening disaster. Extends another persons balance, threatening disaster. Extends another persons contract with you. Taking insecurities and what the person believes them selves to be and building on it.
Formatting: Apologizing prematurely, creating a need within your opponent to accept you, a condition you purport or your stance creates instantly an acceptable format, where by you by seemingly extending your reality or presence cut off his and often do so with a far removed yet seemingly justified element. Your opponent is awed or mildly stunned by his new poise which holds substantially less clout.
Pivot Talisman
A strength and or a weakness is a pivot point. A fixation that can be taken advantage of. First a weakness, for one thing being aware of a weakness is a boost to the ego, this allows a resting point from which you can avoid unwanted emotional turmoil and concentrate on observation and or perception of other more telling things. As well being aware of the condition allows the seeking to be established, and the adept person will choose an approach either firm and aggressive, or compassionate and passive without risking detection or investing too much of themselves. Without recognition and consideration however, neither standpoint can be adopted. If your going to use the person allow for a recovery time period, maintain a position that you can justify and remember it isn't you that will push the buttons, someone else is always more than willing, and being aware of what is likely to happen next is the same as owning the buttons.
Duration of the Manipulative Poise
You have been exploited , how so? Well you've found the best alternative for yourself haven't you? An individual permits exploitation because he believes it's the best alternative available to him. He doesn't know of any other alternatives he either assumes this is the only one or fatigue get to him and he stays where he is.
A person who hasn't a mental picture of what the end result of his week will be is an individual without a week. The effort or 'work" transpired during the week isn't of consequence because until you have a week you haven't any bargaining power for the month year or decade. We make serious wagers of our lives based on educated guesses without doing the little bit of work that makes things assure bet. Every morning we have not idea why we rise to the day, we're used to accepting that we do. If you can picture the events and especially the frustrations then you have something form which to base your actions from. Most of us are mostly random and mostly lost and we still worry about it. Our level or seriousness of our emotions remain the same with a strong base a sure thing or a weak base an educated guess, we can't do anything about the commitment of our emotions but we can keep them focused on sure bets. The unearned element is as pointless as the random life. A huge part of the complexity of life is the illusion that these things we are doing are important when in fact they are just a larger picture of the randomness we haven't considered. People got to college design a major without ever considering where they will apply for their first jobs. Picture the element and then redefine it's meaning and or it's progress. How use to you intend to content with the unknown future. we all have a progressive disability of perspective in a large arena with out rules. Where people fail they place blame and accusations outside of their bodies just as sure as the sun changes color for the rest of us.
Fear is the greatest human threat. Fear and doubt waste more time than anything. Being unsure or even uninformed is just another form of fear. Let others see the feelings that you deem to be shallow or embarrassing.
Tell people what they want to hear. Be exactly honest in your reactions to bad things. We all want the exact same things from life. in this area there is no variety. No one's special among us we all want to be the emotional leader. We all want greatness and fame and riches and above all for a minute everyone to see us as we are, our short comings and great skills and succession perusing lave that. With out realizing that everyone else is second and you are the only thing in existence you are lost, and you have fear.
Ambition is the hidden and most destructive feeling of all, your dreams must materialize and to dream them from thin air is like jumping off a cliff praying that just the thin air will hold you up. To succeed there is a price to be paid, you must do something, and to dream of far off places and
The Elimination Principle
Find a group of goals that are well researched and somehow related to each other maybe that are all financial oriented, or maybe they are all education related. When you consider what your goals are this is probably the hardest part. They have to be some thing that will progress you spiritually, financially or in whatever other ways you are interested in, if this step isn't done with deep patience and forethought into anxiety and experience then your life wastes away. Single them out as the only thins that you want out of life right now and for six months and attach them eliminating one after the other the things your really want to do then instead of no satisfaction you can cope with brief days of satisfaction and relief. Then create another group of goals that relates to the first group to help you keep your zest for the first group of goals, and give s since of direction that will over time provide a kind of stability, not a staunch rock hard stability, because that kind or decision making just isn't suited to human nature. But a stability that isn't random that gives you a since of confidence when others approach you or question your advocacy. Review and consider your goals, this won't be hard because they were designed to make you happy and give you the artistic edge you've lacked before.
Make it easy, hang up the really big outlined goals on your wall, when their visible you've got some productive reminders to come hoe to when life fosters nothing else.
Don't spread yourself out. It is never impressive to have allot of nothing. But to be the best of certain thing gives you a character you don't have to work for, you get a monopoly of emotions right there to carry around with you in your pocket.
The best people in life to have around are those people that cause good problems. Why? because your going to have problems to deal with anyway and being up front about life is more enjoyable and ends with a more successful momentum. Find people that add to your life if you feel nothing, no change or no hope run.
Affirmations, highly underestimated tool, on of the really rare tools that you can use on yourself, you do it weather you are conscious of it or not. When you day dream you are talking to yourself, telling yourself things you would like to do, the problem occurs when people go out on a ledge. You may be programming yourself right out of your ability to deal with a situation, you get caught on the drama of the intensity of a situation and fail to see it though.
To use affirmations decide what it is you need to do for yourself and create a saying that takes you there. Simply repeat the saying for about twenty minutes, it becomes you an it becomes unavoidable that you pass into that chore or duty you needed to pass over. We do this subconsciously every time we do something that people believed was impossible or the really impressive things we do. Test yourself, find a date pay that bill when you can't afford it. Prepare yourself for the tricky situations tomorrow. Their is no equal of magic, and that is what affirmations are, the magic of the mind, with tangible results serving as a track record and attesting to our successful use of time while reversing situations or creating new abilities.
You can trick you mind, into accepting bazaar doctrines, or create attitudes that are difficult for others to find a weakness. You can adopt a mind set that is the only one that will work when the mind set is the farthest thing form your mind.
Every idea that is yours is myth, why choose this way of thinking because it keeps you consciousness moving you don't get locked into the idea that you must have a car, that extra money is the only way or that the general way that you third is the best way for all decisions. Affirmations help to build strong character motives, will help discover where it is your trying to and why, they make the world temporarily clear and defined. Affirmations eliminate the variables that keep us meandering. Say them out loud and concerning times keep one week in you head and it's like being able to control or foretell the future.
When making decisions adopt the perspective of looking into an old picture book. What would seem to have made sense and what would be cherished forever. Then you can see yourself redemption prices. Your life is an emotional one, and your trying to fight to growth, especially when you that fear face of yourself, or when you are having problems. A problem only seems to exist, but it is only in your head, it isn't tangible or useable, and remember you become what you think, is if despair is present you become it, which is impossible, you are a living loving creature. Se we see pare of how myth distracts us from what we are, the frustrations area process of coming back into ourselves.
We as human invent problems to become and occupy the void of something. We don't choose what would rally allow us o grow to feel because if we haven't taken those steps we do not see them as us, we miscalculate our growth and sacrifice satisfaction in the process. Grown emotions must have a reinforcement, they must be developed through our new experiences constant reinforcement if we are to continue to recover their goods.
All a contender need do is wait for the others to cease contending. In life no one really knows what they are about, it rally isn't important what you want but, what is crucial is how you go about getting it and that you do get it with as much of a comfort zone as possible. We come up with ideas which could also be called dreams on a daily basis that's how we of up an elevator in the morning, we dream it up and begin walking towards the elevator, no one tells us that's it's there every morning, we are intuitive creatures and we use whatever methods we can to meet our ends. It's the breath of this skill that is hailed everywhere behind tresses or guises of another.
Redefine the way you think, redefine the meanings of word and really experience the journey of life, instead of as a spectator. Like wise to win all you need do is operate form a position that you may win with, keeping a steady nerve focused on where you really want of be. Picture ourselves lining the dream you need, picture yourself on a certain date moving into your new condominiums, and then daily as a matter of personality and personal love, picture yourself moving from that point to where you are standing to day. In must come about in a form of personal love fore own perspective, one's self and thus daily learned skills, refined skills, and personal decisions along the way, Do this picturing for more than you big dreams use it to solve you daily frustration, you dissatisfactions. You must get to the point of constantly picturing the direct and present future and combining it with what you have grown to love about yourself. Your qualities when your with other people, you diligence when times are hard your will power over extremely embarrassing or vexing situations. It is these things that we all have in some measure and completely over load on a constant basis we try to love our selves but the exterior world rarely gives us so much reassurance as we would like to have.
It is one of the very greatest achievements to be able to walk comfortable in most places in the world and to approach with assurance the most sticky of circumstances with a planned grin.
To become favored is to become useless to yourself no one approached their superiors well. Superiority , the way the concept was designed is a myth. Words as they are rarely understood are the tools of the emotionally developed, to save time in their manipulations of helpful ideas that was and stays their purpose. It has been the power plays all along that have crated the world as it can be seen.
You think one thing and instantly I think another our power of reasoning are matched, our needs are not. The listener finds as adeptness that the speaker cannot feel and react upon, the speaker is constantly reiterating "I,I,I,I,I,I" with no room for the other guy to do the work. The listener has maneuverability to come up with a strategy. The keen of mind uses any and all means to meet a practical and forthright end, to be all knowing is self defeating.
Tell people what to say by not saying it yourself. People have a habit of talking, usually about themselves. While their speaking you can imagine that they are saying, I am willing to do these certain things for you.
Emotions reign supreme in our lives, and in this world it is easy enough to develop a new perspective to talk about based on what the guy has just said about himself. Even though you may be bored out of your mind, let the other guy know you are learning from him, let the fact slip unnoticed, that you may be learning how to better get you way from him. If he is good enough to you may even picture him holding a dagger to his throat begging that you ask of him what he wants you to. And so again we reinforce the real medium of exchange our experiences.
When we speak we kill, and when we usually kill things we are unaware of those things uniqueness, or willing qualities. Yes animals are one of god's greatest tools, and they mesh perfectly with another of God's grand inventions....time.
In a world where your emotions can validate you as dead for your entire life in a single minute what else could be of more value. We are in the height of our involvement in our lives when we are calm. . . or satisfied, we have experience with what is happening to us their isn't a need to move, have sex, or even breathe heavily.
Words carry only the meaning you draw from them, do you have the experiences that match some of the word you do not know.
An incredible tool for living is to remember that you won't win. After every trial you'll learn t grow to love the things you hated, only to discover that you hated and your not really sure why. We die everyone of us. We loose, but on the way we can enjoy ourselves, if we don't defeat ourselves in the processes of the scramble after birth.
You cannot afford to believe or even listen to another person, Why is a simple answer, they have their own interests and programs to follow to focus on and so they will create their own little universe to make them happy is your expense trying to figure out what they mean, when they talk from those little universes. And how they go about getting what they thing they need you are much stronger if you focus your personality on yourself, you stability and ability to enjoy life greatly enhanced.
Social Intercourse
We have a problem we can learn to make our selves happy but we cannot keep it up for very long, that the key value in other people or living creatures.
One tactic to use is to ask people questions they cannot answer, that they dare not answer for fear that they might purge themselves. Or to ask a question that cannot be answered in the allotted amount of time. This seems like a vague tactic and it is, but it can be very handy if you are following your opponents words very carefully and ask your loaded question on some of the premises that he has designed and relating to what he is likely to say next. Your opponents marking tools become fumbled. His balance is thrown, and he hasn't a sure footing from which to recover.
You may if you wish continue, with a designed point if you are that prepared.
Because of it's wide applicability there should be something said about trying to recover from a loaded question....don't bother. If you get hit with one it has been because your opponents reasoning or timing was sharper at the moment and you cannot recover successfully from a position of inferiority, with draw. Design immediately a position strength for yourself. How? obviously make his position one of inferiority. If he has really got you in a corner remain silent and hint that the conversation or debate has been sided and it really isn't worth your time. If dodge is falling get the hell out.
The Conversational Wedge
Hammers an idea, into being. Because of the human consciousness, and it's wide maneuver ability. We can take what would have been a mistake if we were not aware of it and intentionally use it as a beneficial tool. Make a demand that is unreasonable; but seemingly reasonable. In other words we want someone to do something and we basically present it to them and support it with feeling, compassion, or viciousness instead of a real reason. Get them to shut up and consider their own limitations, their own circumstances. The good and the bad intentions are equally armed. It is the functionality the proper steps that will create the success. Make it a point in conversation that the other guy is talking about what you want him to talk about; either his own sacrifice to you, or how his message overlaps your own and what steps he is taking on your behalf.
How to do this. Each of us has a an ability to match
A huge part of success has to do with doing things before they have to be done. If you know what it is that you want, and have made an accurate guess. You can easily continue to have things ready before they need be, your conversation becomes one of a position of power. Your attitude becomes one of benevolence. Your pare time becomes a time to work the reassurance techniques.
These clouds rule and control countries, they create babies, they do it all. The last you saw the Constitution of the U.S. you probably don't see your signature did you?
Probably one of your more serious problems goes something like 'you have a real hard time getting people to recognize you position of authority strength."
Is a successful spider really worth all of the bugs it devours? Is a successful squire worth the thousands of acorns it eats. Is a successful human really worth all of the ideas it manipulates, all of the products it uses, some young children in third world countries could probably enlighten you a bit about this. Are you even worth the time you waste, or the trips you take?
The physical world reminds us of our position in the business world or what we say reminds us of how stupid we may appear to others designed universes. Therefore it is paramount to tell people what they want to hear. In doing this you may have to lie a little but it is simply amassing at how quickly we believe what comes out of our mouths. Tell them what you think they want to hear by listening for what they are already saying and simply take the next step. If you have to look between their eyes into the back of their heads the places were even they haven't encountered yet and see what is written there. You will find everything that is written in your own head plus you will become more aware of what is going on in their that may be of aid to you.
Once a person has what they want from you, your attention then you become more that useless, you become apart of their past egos you have helped them live their lives, helped them to grow and feel bigger, new, and healthier, when you do this saying what the other guy wants to hear make sure you know what you want out of it, ad where it will lead you in the scheme of things, otherwise your just practicing for crumbs and you can find crumbs anywhere. You must be able to design their worlds lead them on a journey of discovery and reach your destination. If this kind of thinking is unfamiliar to you or sounds evil, you might want to consider what it is you are contending for and look into who you aren't and what you do not know. You will become who you want to be but only if you take practice at your desires, and swallow a whole lot of disappointment nothing comes to those who don't see what is going on and where they are expected to jump into the game and for whom.
What people want to hear, they want to hear the very same things that you want to hear.
You can surprise yourself, by feeling yourself and telling others what you feel. To acquire this skill is a never ending process and takes allot humiliation, you must speak what you feel and be humiliated at your immaturity of what you want or how you went about the pursuit. The world is dangerous not because you are weak but because you will at times refuse to relinquish what you know quick enough to be on top of what is happening. Your ability to deal with is will never be up to par and so we discover just how much emotions rule our worlds and thus everyone else. To have a better way of feeling yourself successfully remember that everything we do has both though and feeling in it but that isn't what matters or is going on.
We like what we like so we have a pleasure bond with what fells good to us we protect it, flaunt it, and use it. If you can sense what are a person is thinking make your self the pleasure bond they can see their greatness through, you become someone they can count one for good feelings. The real trick is to weave your listening skills into your everyday life without it causing much effort to be expended. Remember you will die long before you reach your full potential.
You will not win, the minute you get their you'll be standing dumbly in front of the situation you've been perusing, you've been driving yourself crazy over and it will be the hard-core reality not a fanciful dream. The dreamers and the lover are as imprisoned as they always have been. The point is that the dream is unlivable but life is livable and life isn't easy to manipulate.
What do you want? Do you know? No you do not; and you never will, the unicorn philosophy. How do you account for the many different perspectives of life. You do know that your circumstance will change, and you can use that to your advantage, to remain stable in time of emotional turmoil.
When listening to how people speak their is a reoccurring theme, "I" the overwhelming consciousness of life, people know they exist it is foremost in their minds. But they aren't always aware of what to make of their dreams or of themselves. They know if they are overly winning or loosing or if they have just given up and they stay your equal your mirror throughout. Within this limited world people create meanings from which they draw meanings from life, why include this in a book?
Never on the price of death draw attention to your self never speak on something unless you will be able to create a feeling within another and then only speak when you have ascertained a gain.
If you desire it to be so life can be more work than you can ever handle. Or it can be as pleasant as ever.
All a contender need do to win is wait for the other contenders to cease contending. Another way is to simply leave the presence of the other contenders and go contend on your own. Their is a market in all rare things, and where your perspective is rare or your services are rare you win and contain a monopoly on results.
Everyone is exactly the same, you might have people say pay attention to peoples differences, boy/girl differences, republican/democrat differences, etc. Eventually they are all version of the supreme concept of "I" do they have your interests in mind. Every living creature is a myth, when you meet them on the street you have no idea from where they hail from, when speaking to your boss you don't know what marital problems are in the making. All of it is pure myth, concepts that are put into the world, they have no purpose other than to get you to follow a cloud or clearly disclose where another person wishes you to operate from a position of inferiority so you seem to have no other options but to do what is put in front of you.
When another human being speaks you are being sucked into a designed reality a reality you did not create and a reality that follows rules and goals possibly detrimental to your own.
If you tell people things then they always can come back and talk about you or your performance was not good or less the expected. If your performance is very good then they will either be jealous or busy trying to catch up so your talking does little good, it only makes you vulnerable. Once you've got that track record, then you've go it and it is conversation piece that will save you time in explaining your self you merely point and it becomes assumed that they are operating from a position inferior your own and that they must step up to be noticed.
Rumor Talisman
They are as good and they say bad, how can this be of advantage to you. Accept this as a fact. One way is to create a conversation piece out of your self create a track record just for the sake of having one people can talk about, something unique something rare, and your effort it create publicity about yourself become less needed and less difficult, you become a beckoning subject and a valuable person to know or a valuable person to be familiar with. Not that it is an end in it's self but that the more you focus on yourself and only your conversation pieces the more social circles will take notice of you and that is to your advantage. You remember only when their is a need to remember someone create that need.
You will have problems, as a serious obstacle is just a delay in getting what you can from life before you die. If any problem can be labeled as catastrophic it is the fact that you will die, everything else is just the dressing up of the fact. The death factor adds to the understanding of asking others to sacrifice for you, and in your place. It is paramount that you get what you can while you can. Plans and rules must be thought out before hand to be effective on the firing line of life. Picture yourself doing your plan over and over, and continue to build it up from the point from which you are standing, only then you can have hope in not being lost. Picture the serious problems an they are likely to occur, stay with to problems first, then work you way around them so you can avoid them as much as possible when they arrive.
Don't write a list, you won't go to your grave with paper of much value. Let your self hear your problems out loud, so you believe them and they will be locked into where they will be of use your subconsciouss. Create a story that you will know tomorrow, repeat the story adding more problem that you discover will be their, devise solutions out loud. When your story is about ten minutes long end it by repeating once more "living is as easy skill, discovering and conquering desire is never ending."
Inside any group of people their is a leader, even in group of less than two and there is even an opportunity to be a leader when it is only you because you can lead yourself on. If you aren't the leader what are you?
People Will Make Guesses About You
Their guesses are going to be accurate allot of the time. And you cannot keep them from guessing.
Responsibility doesn't exist just a messed up way of thinking that is designed because of previous failures to make other's live easier to live and more stable at your expense. There's no point in believing in it and no point in concentrating on it. While you didn't keep your promises. Get what you want get it on your own if you can but if you can't that's when you should watch out for what others are likely to say about you and that's when you get what you can do it on your own if you can but if you can't there really isn't a problem with getting it as someone else's expense. Responsibility is another troublesome and fruitless myth. Your not responsible for most of what you think you are. Other people will in fact create problems for you if you begin to act in a way that is unsatisfactory to them, they aren't putting a premium on your life they aren't doing anything to see that you enjoy your involvement with them their simply trying to reinforce their position of their lives matter more to them than yours does to them. Very straight forward but most often missed point, so why all this focus on responsibility, because it usually works the other way around, the other guy usually recognizes his position as one of potential gain and so he sees and works at making out positions position of weakness instead of a position of strength. And so the ridiculous idea of responsibility continues and catches many in it's mythical web. Remains a technique where obligations rule and not you!
With the more clouds made into fixed hard ideas on which people are basing their emotional edges if your obligations aren't held to them it rather silly to know that if you don't pay you bills to someone that you won't pay your bills to anyone. Paying the bills really isn't the issue, getting what you want out of life is the issue and others once they detect some form of intelligence of strength of character use their will and influence to somehow bend your actions. Get what you want if it's easier to pay for it then do, if not steal it, but calculate the penalties if your caught estimate your experience in theft, and weigh the prices.
The list the worst thing that you could do for yourself is write a list, at best it gives you a bad example of what you could do with yourself in you had already accomplished the list and it will not hold and keep you snug about your performance.
Each new day is as renewing as so remember you don't break upon the day a complete virgin, you need to go deep within yourself to heal the pain caused before when you weren't so feeling so adroit or so content with your performance./ Confront what happened to you when you were feeling bad about yourself, approach the day not as a healing day but a day that will help create some of that track record that you need so badly.
Remember you cannot win you will most certainly loose it becomes a question of how greatly you will loose. You will die so keep yourself from overdoing anything that you don't know all the facts about keep a monopoly on your actions. Ask yourself how much do I really know about what Im getting into and then ask what about what do I know about the results of this thing that I haven't done yet, how valuable and how much of a sure thing are they. Usually these questions remain un-addressed and if you can find the answers it takes a lot of energy out of developing that track record.
Remember how often kings were kneeled and begged to.
Does it surprise you, it shouldn't remember you were the one who was jealous of someone's looks your were envious of another's job or possessions, you didn't go to college of time, and you've been late getting to work or other wise performing the way you were expected to.
People are your terrain, and the weather, you cannot fend them off collectively they are more powerful. Develop tools as quickly as you can that tell your story quickly easily and with little effort.
Because humans have clouds look to other examples of living that are not so disturbed with clouds to study technique. The animal kingdom, with more kings than animals.
The overwhelming thing that life teaches us and that we can use to out advantage is always the problems seems to lay outside of ourselves never within, and that's exactly where they are most comfortable to us outside of ourselves. We take a problem that has everything to do with us and we somehow using different ideas project it on another. To see this happening is much easier that
to feel this happening when we feel it we realize that our ability to deal with what is around us is very limited. We don't have control over what is said to us, what skills we lack, so feelings particularly unsatisfied ones have a way of going from host to host without ever finding a home. The positive feelings end quickly, when you are satisfied, you stop, their isn't a need to work really hard there isn't a need to concentrate, even your breathing lightens up.
Why tell people what they want to hear because people will believe anything you have to say.
Some people hear and others do not it is the art of the subject matter that discerns. the less of an ear a person has the more influence you have with your mouth. If someone is inexperienced in having the opposite sex come onto them make sexual advances, they hear only certain things in some very bad cases they hear only very selected things. This isn't reserved for sexual matters, the fact is that people hear pretty much what they want o anyway no matter what you have to say to them. It becomes totally a matter of experience. That's why you major advantage comes in just by proceeding in a certain way.
Just the opposite is true the less a person know of their mouth the more power you have with your ears. Listen for the pain in their lives, find it and you have a customer willing to pay the largest price, the price of redemption.
Likewise the less a person has with their body movements the more you have with your detection. If some one clears their throat when you make a sexual advance, instead of playfully turning you down then you have discovered their limit of knowledge about such matters. If someone always raises an eye or an eyebrow to the mention of money, etc. Go watch people with a set of binoculars and see if you can't see who means what and what they mean. After a few hours go talk to someone.
Affirmations Talisman
An experiment, sit with you legs crossed than repeat "I am a strong and worthy man/woman, I am a strong and worthy man/woman, I am a strong and worthy man/woman." Then take the subjects arm and have him extend his hand, fingers extended.
Now repeat "I am a weak and worthless man, I am a weak and worthless man, I am a weak and worthless man." The effect you should notice is the hands will open at different speeds. Now you have got something you do before every audition, every job interview, every academic test, and every social encounter, now you have the tool of affirmation to command yourself. At the same time it is the most peaceful disiplined magic.
More on lists, the only thing you have to remember how dissatisfied it was to think up all these things, get frustrated at all your options and fumble with only half results. Lists, don't make them, even if you've got to remember something remember it.
Never Try Harder
If your trying pretty hard then good but don't try harder. Just the thought of someone reprimanding you try harder, doesn't it make your stomach turn. Try harder with what the new super human brain you'll develop in the next ten seconds. No it's ridiculous and all the people in your life that said to you "try harder" only accomplished one thing to turn a reasonably good chance of succeeding into a complete dumbfounded strategy of hatred. In order to try harder you must either use an affirmation, or .
Body language, if you don't already hold you head up, always do if someone is going to try to slap you in the face at least this way you can see it coming, you can deal with the pain if you have to but you can never get use to seeing it coming, with out your head up though you won't ever recognize what id coming and you'll never be able to escape the slap.
Preying Mantis Talisman
You effect people and it is the most fearful weapon you can wield. All people who are likely to advocate this piece of advice can appreciate the weak for what they are, inexperienced at getting what they want. The hypertensive, the neophytes, the gullible. They are gold in the eyes of experience, why? In your life not a one of your ideas will be original. Pain and effort are uniquely original to you. Your suffering is the direct result of your inability to deal with yourself. But alas their are so many similarities among us, we all hammer a nail in the same way we can all sell merchandise, we can all try. Here pain acts much like a commodity,we trade our adversity for someone s opportunities resulting in gain. Our culture thinks of this transaction as monetary. It is purely mental. that is why it is so hard for young singles and newlyweds they lack the experience and they cannot do it over, they will fail at some aspect of their endeavors.
The one thing that people will never do is let up. Even rational people who have highly developed emotional success, have an idea of what feels good to them and they will not budge from that picture.
How to design a thought process that lets they other guy fight his own battles only to let you win, it's all in the perspective. Their concepts ramble, they are prone to think narrowly because having to much breadth is like walking on thin clouds.
Honesty
Here are the facts, honesty hurts individuals, it hurts relationships, it damages governments, and it hurts orgainizations: but most importantly it hurts you. Your life will never be fullfilled if you do not have secrets you do not share with others. Honesty is an endearing quality when shared in the right way, but it is also an internal tool that is frequently mismanaged. Honesty has been a quality judgment for over 30,000 years. This is not to say that you should not be honest but circumstances will dictate its use and as a means to an end should be your quality judgment.
See the Eternal Shelf
The Subject of Secrets
Are they good, can they provide you with an edge? Secrets are curious things that sprout from curious people. And they can give you a substantial startle when we take a look at them. A secret is something that you don't know, and because someone else knows you seemingly suffer a loss. Of course the unknown is all around us and if you meet someone on the street their income, name, or address, are potential secrets.
One of the most political skills you can develop is to recognize when you are afraid, pay attention when you feel fear the capacities of these emotions are both very small and large. The more you pay attention the farther you will get in eliminating their interference with what you desire. If you do not attend to your fear how will you recognize it and when will you take steps towards helping yourself.
If you randomly choose several people to put in a room together you would find that occasionally two people are struck dead with fear at the sight of each other.
People will hear and tell themselves almost anything but what they really need to hear, really want to know and really would like to say. You can stop this pattern for yourself if you use affirmations to broaden your ability to cope.
Relieve people of themselves when they are over occupied and get them interested in themselves when the are under-powered.
Should mention at some point not to associate to much with, with the people that you already know because they are wearing their contracts out. They have the proven the limitations of their worth.
Where in the hell does discipline come from? -death-
the more you train yourself to be inhuman the more human you become.
Some people treat happiness as a resolution but if they don't already have the resolution what is it that they intend to gain? Everything we do we secretly do for relationships with others and with the world, it's physical objects it's mysteries.
Electricity Flow Talisman
Though no human often claims it's truth we all follow the path of least resistance. That is always the best thing to do. The problems occur because there isn't any direction, up down, left right, sideways. But there needn't be. Energy allays flows to other sources of energy. So they come to us.
No ones perspective is really healthy for them. Our universe is limited in that way. Only the brief suggestion of the current direction becomes our universe, only five minutes at a time.
Human universe operates according to this. So how does one account for the unknowns, for the future. They can't they may only make use of these mini-universes with the intention of creating a strong message simultaneously to themselves and thus to all living society. So it isn't the individual or his talents or his history that exists, products there of combinations combined, . . .his message. The insurmountable value of this message is where all humanity derives it's frustrations, it's ambitions everything. So the universe as a brain will see it becomes structured. People move in accordance with their message they can be read. For brief intervals they can be rewritten. Because of there value they repeat, which makes them open to observation.
The message isn't ever communicated. It cannot be communicated. Time sweeps it away forever. The uniqueness of the individuals message makes it invaluable to another and so it is also useless, in it's whole. Fortunately, time breaks things down for us. and many folks are unaware of their messages. The fumble over them blind to their meanings and potential uses.
If ever someone is in need of something from you. Create a situation where it is their inadequacy that keeps them getting what they want and has very little to so with you. Again unless they kneel and beg they don't really want it.
When you try to convince someone to do what you want them to do.
a. don't push, don't be direst
b. lightly suggest indirectly what you want in terms of what the other guy has currently going on.
c. if he doesn't eventually kneel and beg to do what you want him to do you have failed to allow him to rewrite his message.
Try to avoid putting yourself in the kneel and beg scenario unless you are doing it as a designed technique. The superior people around you do not deserve their positions. They have been able to acquire an intimidation poise.
Wherever you are try to get into a position where you can offer a quarter only in exchange for a dollar and the supreme governor of fairness shakes his head, "OK."
King Rich businessmen, are created in the clouds, and so are all other positions of clout.
Ways to avoid the kneel and beg scenario
operate as much as possible on a commitment basis. That is others commitment to you. Now who are these candidates? Well they can be almost anyone what must be known is as much as possible about their games their messages as possible.
Dagger Talisman
When ever you come to the negotiations table of life. You will eventually enter the Council of Desires, Courtroom, where after establishing yourself as a hero you may stab as many daggers into the table as you have; (you have succeeded , you have met your goal) followed by the stabbing of the Council member's daggers. If each of the council members outnumber your daggers you get stabbed in the back without warning. If you equal or surpass each of your contenders you join the council. Two tricks ask a dying man how many daggers the others showed and however many daggers you have conceal the sharpest, forever.
Before visiting the courtroom be aware that council members are resented for their seemingly harsh rule and so others seek to disband the council by killing members one or all at any given moment and without getting to the table.
Ultimately you will go through the trial to realize that is a place is designed not from your own imagination but was created by someone else. And if you aren't the council chief it isn't a place for you. Then realize that the real position of strength is where the equilibrium of skill is such that chance is more equally on everyone's side, in the streets, where the better challenges are and more interesting weapons.
Remember the purpose of the Council of Desire. Because the world is a dangerous world, and so you should see that once you join the council may still be stabbed.
If you can reenact the thoughts of your partners- then you should be able to speak theirs minds. their own sweet poison will make them delirious enough for you to withdraw from the encounter pulling your wants or desires directly from their innards. You use their eyes their faces =, the bodies their mounts and their voices against them. Don't exactly say what they are saying to themselves; say what they would like someone standing in your shoes to say, allowing the words to flow from their heads through your mouth back into their heads.
Kneel and Beg Syndrome
If you become a victim of the kneel and beg syndrome immediately copy the intimidator poise as much as possible. If there is a raised counter- step away from it remove yourself form any physical tool he may be using t that may be subconsciously effecting your poise. If he is standing, raise yourself. Space equally belongs to us all. Remain aware of the contest turf. If it is you against his company or other allies, he may have more than you. He may have a monopoly of meanings A winner or a person who will get what they want out of life knows and how to contend.
reach to the clouds, Heroes, kings got there positions form the clouds, the bestowing of enormous power comes form the clouds and it can be invisibly bestowed to you.
See the esteem builder tactic
See the Inverse Tactic
Marionette Talisman
We are all marionette dolls driven and controlled by our desires. learn to read where and in what ways a marionette dolls strings are attached. Rather than be in only the physical world fighting the mental world create an image of where you are. Then feel you way up the strings to the paddle in the clouds. He only knows he is stringed and barely aware that, the string holder could be anybody as far as his perception allows. Too often the string is a persons most valued concept. When you walk into a museum where are you, if you walk into
If you need something form somebody you are in real serious trouble. Imagine marionette stings up to the clouds. Clouds are the reason for every move. The silent clouds do everything- if you can manipulate just a few of the clouds or at least seem like you wield a little of their power.
See the Advice Device Tactic
See the Investigation Tactic
See Guillotine Talisman
Flash Card Talisman
Your playing pool with someone he shoots as he does you imagine the words can't shoot somewhere on his person
You see someone, attractive physically you imagine words flowing from their mouths. . . . . I love you.
This talisman is only a mental image to use, instead of dreaming about all your plans this talisman makes your wants and desires in the here and present. I aligns long term goals with, your current mental and physical position while at the same time, giving you comfort. Desperation, the desperate are not at all to be pitied. Like everything else they are to be made into useful contributing factors.
Your message starts what are people doing today that I might be able to take advantage of.
the bull crap giver, every thing that everybody, is bull crap.
It can never be emphasized enough the emotional rewards are to great, grow to be able to talk what you feel and then grow again to be able to talk in the way that you feel and then, grow again to be able to talk with the talent that you feel. And then grow again to be able to talk with the confidence that you feel. The one undeniable fact is that you will grow as long as you live.
War Among Warring Parties
It has been said that their was a great man who said a whole bunch of things that seemed at the moment to be really brilliant and well he just wasn't ever around to tell me how to use such great ideas. To win at whatever game is to be played for you to get your way and in human nature there is the thing called the war, which is highly underestimated. War is the most fantastic thing in the world. As long as you aren't in it. Why is it great? Because everyone is chasing a cloud so closely that they can't recognize the weather or the treacherous terrain around them. They don't stay open to what their best option is and amidst all of this their limited efforts which they control come to a peak on war. The beauty is unmatched. only someone ignorant of his own nature would not distance himself from such a position. But where you come in he is exactly ignorant of his ways that is why he won't realize that what he want or needs is already present? And so whatever the circumstances are in the war only piece of information need is what can you get out of it? Those who refuse to live out of fear fuck it up for the rest of us, but if you've listened with desire and a properly humiliated ear you might stand to gain.
Rather than avoid wars we should run to them, their is an emotional edge in a war.
You are the sole determinant of the value of the information that you accept. Is it all relevant, one thing at a time I'm willing to sacrifice a little.
Every time you look at another individual what are you doing you are saying to them and to yourself that their lives are more interesting that your own. Their journey is more valuable, you are tempted to place your efforts in their hands. It is a temporary condition and enjoyable but still the fact remains be wary of where your attention is placed. You forget that you worked you ass off yesterday but you won't forget the authorities, the needy children, and your principle that you value yourself above circumstance, above conditions. This very minute their is a older, people just do not understand that what they value is the self and because another is so much like them it isn't necessarily themselves, but the experience living.
Naked Talisman
The more of an onslaught of things that you cannot handle that become manageable through growth the more exposure you have. Exposure, is the ability to handle yourself, the more experiences you have the more exposure you have the more emotional exposure. Use yourself to investigate human nature, what do you fear and why. What aggravates you and when. The more exposure the better equipped you are to fight discouragement.
If you've got to do something remember that things will come out as they always have before nothing on the face changes will have taken place.
The sovereign entity plays host to world, to ensure that what he is after is what he needs and what he will get. It requires to give up what isn't working, and since when does everything work perfectly. To do this isn't a pleasant thing to do, it's painful to realize things about yourself you weren't aware of or spent most of your time avoiding thinking about. It is difficult to accept things in a world you did not create, but it has given you an opportunity to live and what there is what we all have to make do with.
Personality of the Person
To feel good something good is happening to you. To have momentum is to have choice of design.
Minds Eye
Things are difficult, but if you picture them in your mind they have for mental and emotional purposes happened. What other power could you hope to bestow on yourself.
At some point it might be wise to decide what you will hide and what you won't. You will make mistakes and people will hold them against you. But hidden mistakes are like a covered soul.
He more people like you the less you have to do for yourself.
Contrary to the "American Dream" work isn't in your best interest. Generally the harder you work the less money you will make. The less you do the more money you can make. That's the social network at work, not you. If you work, you cannot play, if you play you cannot work, myth and one that becomes deadly right around the collective feelings of other do the talking for you do the publicity for you, the almost everything. Work is frustration and we've already established that it doesn't exist. It's the collective good will of others that you seek not wealth, not ability, their are men who can claim the appreciation of work others have done with them. People can speak positively of you, without your army you are censored and without a voice of depth for every friend you have your voice carries that much more weight.
Success is a spiritual accomplishment of perspective. You don't actually go anywhere your heart doesn't jump out of your body and etc., You appear exactly the way you did before.
Marriage, relationships have good aspects and bad aspects. People hope to foresee the future and lock in the results. Well if your a good enough fortune teller this might be the strategy for you. Remember however that life is change, continual and non-stop change whatever you are prepared for it or not. Locking in a result isn't possible completely, and may not be your safest bet. How many married people do you know, how do they see themselves? If a relationship turns sour, you locked in for the duration. If a relationship turns sour, your locked in for the duration. If one spouse decides to choose productivity and responsibility then the other is obliged to choose productivity and responsibility then the other is obliged to comply, the alternative is even more stressful, being alone, getting a divorce, etc., so the path of least resistance is taken but the resistance may have been increased, two people never grow into one, regardless of how many married people say they do they are still separate individuals.
To live a dream really isn't all that spectacular- but for other people looking on and feeling the loss of possibility anxiety sets in this becomes a really nice situation because you no longer have to take advantage of people they take advantage of themselves for you. Since they deem it valuable to look at you they deem it valuable to see you they sacrifice sovereignty at least to
Every day you sit down to write a story what will the pages say.
People hand you a broken slate, weather they might imagine is a made of a unique substance black and smooth, they might imagine it will explode anyhow they hand you a slate. What is to be done about such a circumstance? It cannot be written an lengthy because it is so small a piece. Draw an arrow on it.
If you aren't hurting anyone, then you are getting nowhere. We like to imagine that the beautiful people in the world are doing much good and we as inhabitants of the planer benefit. Then also the nasty thins exist too. Stop putting you genitals in the passing of others. They have a war going on in themselves.
To know yourself what a human is , is to accurately prophesies what a human will be.
Treat a large section of time as a deeply centered warm and snuggle feeling such that you have experienced with the gifts of friends or intimate cuddling of some one you know. If you challenge the future in this way you are know longer a servant but the master.
The concept of the eternal [I] believes that it knows what it is, and what it will be. When confronted with another eternal [I] one of the two or possibly more will make an accusation. Such is the limited scope of human perception. When this test occurs refuse authority do not attempt a decision- harness your opponent by appearing to be his lave or servant, it isn't he but his eternal [I] that is blinded and the way to do yourself good is to coerce the eternal [I] you do this with malice, possibly revenge but definitely with self interest and the tools are universal - imagine yourself a small person 3 feet or one foot high in front of your opponent suggesting ways he may crush you. The intent your opponent has for you distracts him from his thrust, his insecurity. Finally recognize that you aren't one foot high person but that you stand closer to satisfying yourself and so are very distant from him. Far off things often look smaller.(draw picture)
The pursuit of wealth is a sovereign and righteous cause it provides smile for ones whose intimate company you enjoy. Yes, spare time for acquisitions as much as possible as you can get.
Must at all times answer a question with a question the question is a probe for power, power they take directly from your gut, they must be disillusioned allow them to feel an answer but never get anything in return rephrase the question into an answer.
remember as you grew up that the things you learned would have been helpful earlier, everyone exists in this position and they don't have a whole lot of practice time; the acute angle is where you want to avoid. Capitalize of the presence of fear.
Hardy are the hearts of men whose mind is gold
They cry with the women
Selling compassion until it is sold
They shake with the cowards
and hide their acts behind the emotions of others.
the best way to get what you want is to get it without notice.
So be wary of those who are more cleaver than you are
they will be the ones with less questions
and no complaints, their actions will read with their company but their eyes will remain unread, blank and as wide as all expanse as you or your most dreadful enemy could imagine.
Be wary of the symbolic response, on your terms it will be he that encapsulates the trance.
For they will never trespass and so will be hard to discover but in the end they shall walk away with all that is heavily guarded, unseen unheard, and unwarned you will invite them in, so peasant is the man whom you shall deliver his every desire, no mind trick could save you from his skill and helplessly fallen, into remorse you only glimpse at a few trifle trophies of the expert talisman. It is never a issue, working hard? What is suspect is how aware you are of the hard work that is being done. For those people there wasn't ever a question and troubles have an innate tendency to pop up where they aren't needed. Be sure that the next disaster carries the only worthy title, your title, vagabond of the deep.
The treasure chests of yesteryear were easy to define, they were loaded with gold and silver and jewels of all kinds, with wretches and obvious scoundrels surrounding them. Today, much of the signals such as bloody daggers are camouflaged through entities such as the press or whole bodies of people misinterpreting and misreporting the facts. They do this in part because they like everyone has no idea of who they are sure they do in comparison to the other criminals of love and justice, as in as far as what it is to be human no one has a clue, and you can count on that like dollars. Who stabbed who and who was the most delicate talker could quickly be known. Today we get lucky finding the right man's name, let alone specking with him ourselves and finding out what mental tools and personality aid him in life.
To save ourselves the illusions we can say that every living creature is a vagabond and a scoundrel and as a matter of daily living they busy themselves into stabbing and murdering, of course only to defend the stability of their universes where love and art takes place but none the more they stab and murder.
The best of life's artisans consider changing sides almost on every move. If it can be had it will, be it a little or allot it isn't their until it is heaped out of the caves and the chest opened, whomever side breaks the lock is the winning side and of course you value yourself as a winner don't you?
Marshaling talent is equaling and beyond having the talent. The people you know are gods and you depending on your skill can call upon them from the heavens to deliver, at some point they will come of their own awareness to you knowing the brilliant and unprecedented deeds you attend.
Anyone who truly knows his position will never disclose it to you. He will hold a knotted tongue, and feed you only so much as you let on that you are willing to bow to his presence. These persons are not quick talkers, at least not genuinely. They have seen more gold, more booty lost than gained and have learned that if quickness is needed it will come from those around him, choosing himself a position of noncommittal.
Life from the perspective of others is one way to achieve the unexpected and attack with the broadest angle unchallenged.
Prejudices against you are your strongest alley. They get ever closer and closer smelling prey beneath their noses, and at that insist up with what ever you intended up with your dagger into their faces so that they may remember you through their own scars. Befriend them if you can take their side without forming any contract if you dare to create a harmless image. An image they can trust thoroughly, and with little attention. the less folks you have sniffing up your butt the better. And always don't claim your winnings, have them safely shipped to the land of anonymity. Where forever your trials amount not just to the end of an adventure but again aid you as a weapon attacking from the broadest angle.
Booty is the education. If your mind does not have a single and only one target then you may endeavor an education always with no avail what so ever. Make no mistake, booty is the education.
You will convince no one at any point in your life of anything other than their own existence so make that your point of manipulation. Remind them of the trueness of their stance, assure them that maintaining is the proper thing to do, the useless ideas that they hold in their heads are their defenses and so are they yours to defend against loosing an alley. Having it to be a known fact that you have only so many friends and only allowed to speak with them on frank terms one by one. Use those useless and menial ideas that they refuse to disregard and they shall amount to being not so meaningless but a valued trait of your army. Slowly and slowly they will volunteer themselves into your service through your popularity and well seemingly . . . luck.
Reaffirm your position of superiority. Remind the men of their positions, the women of their consciousness, and through their own weakness to fail to see that their isn't any truth, they will bow their heads to whom they know to be their commander. Establish again the relationship when danger prevails, anticipate the trouble so it is the weak who fall into it, so you may lay claim justly to your own cause. Never of course remind them of their failures, that is only to cause rebuke and mutiny, but see to it that they fail and make only so much of it as a better man would.
Always boast of another man's will, his drive to severe, his triumphs unsurpassed. Among those who listen will be recruited into your service, and only prolongs loyalty.
Recognition is what it is, not a proper end to it's self. You may be captain of a ship only if you don't adopt the restricted view of the captain, disregard his duty and likewise his commitments to the crew. Any man who heads an expedition can loose his head, and quite expectantly this is always what happens regardless of the relative safety of the voyage. Assume a better role, one of less signal but equal weight.
Remember whatever your intentions are never speak or elude to them. Speak and elude only to the others intentions. That way they will be blinded by friendship to see that you are not their friend. This is also true of expectations but one who utilizes this skill is saved from this failure because speaking of other's intentions and is automatically a premise of pessimism, where one doesn't expect but takes whatever becomes available, this also eliminates distractions of ambition and anxiety. When they are comfortable and snug with you at their side you can continue with what they believe the contract is or you can gut them clean, and depending on the cleverness of your allies might be the safest course.
Do not think of your own course in life. Examine very closely what is going on around you, you are part of that. To find your own way is to fight blindly against opponents you have no idea of their final powers. Vigilance saves you ultimately from your own death weather you choose to absolve and employ this at the outset or not is your own choice and might ultimately determine your position, and will very definitely determine whom you will die with.
The commanders are stern men, they have the ability to bring forces to work the details, they attract people wildly, never with the intention to enlighten them but knowing that happiness isn't in booty but in the work, and the occupation of one's own mind. They work within their established clans mustering glory whenever they can manage, choosing to be lower in the ranks where equally the detail and the booty is a firm thing. Reaffirming the cause by allowing the fake notions of their workers to find an existence as solid as ground. And this is how all things get done. The walls of consciousness are impervious but not so strong when wielded against themselves. You must be observant of changes within the consciousness of weak links both in their minds and with in the whole group. You needn't ever lift a finger, only know where and how they will tumble eventually of their own and stir things up a to progress the reality.
The Realities
1. Limited Life Span
2. Comparatively Low Level of Intelligence (compared to all others)
3. Unwillingness to work with out Assurance of Production, or Satisfaction and so without 20-20 hind sight, a general unwillingness to work.
4. No such thing as control, so if it is attempted then realize your fighting against reality an unlikely wager.
5. Best thing that you can do is when bad things happen swing with them as if they were designed to happen for a greater achievement.
A gold coin if killed to obtain is as bad as you can get.
On the other side of the coin is hard work and righteous earnings.
So the gold coin can be flipped, when necessary.
For anything to be accomplished the ship has to be run tightly.
If people are ambivalent, insist that they have too much information. Always play it up wards never that their information is worthless but that they have so much good than can be made sense of.
How beneficial for tomorrow are your efforts today? Remember that the more important differences between individuals is what they can pull off a book shelf so to speak, something of use in a instants notice. The main differences are what is being pulled off an how universally applicable they are. Money is well mentioned here because of it's wide applicability, people skills are another worthy of mention, and well past achievements in tricky situations.
If you are a living creature, the minute you begin thinking you are at a loss, for where you shall go others cannot find you. The supreme sacrifice is the place where you are, give it up and you will see what sacrifice is, and with that new knowledge you will see what has perplexed mankind for eons, only being able to approach from his angle alone.
A road to doom begins when self interest replaces interest in well being.
The hallmark of a leader is his ability to marshal talent which can be restated as ignoring those of a lessor degree than someone standing next to them.
The finest warriors are fearless in choosing sides. An ignored alley becomes indifferent or hostile, the best chieftains nourish even well-established relationships.
Making tests on people is a way knights and kings grew cause to recruit the finest and likewise to practice what were supposedly the finest warriors in the kingdom. They refined their own skill while increasing their number. Make tests on people, have sex with naive ones, take from the weak if you can justify your position through an action or product. Insult those smaller persons who ask for your time challenge people who get on your nerves, and you will be doing yourself well, honing your awareness and practice. You should be able to do this calmly yet sufficiently wicked, and be sure you are not practicing frustration. If ever life was a question to anybody it was "what can I get away with, what can I talk my way into, and where can I run when I've got the goods." No matter what your wants are or the estranged way you have of looking at the world these are the rules and suffice to make them into a positive or go back to where you came from, likely six feet under, towing the burdens of the world on your back . . . ah, lucky you.
Another talent is to insist that people are lucky no matter what, they love the mystical experience.
Embrace peoples weird beliefs and their heart becomes yours they will wish you all the better for it because if your heart stops theirs surely will.
The Duel
All of the people you will need to speak with know conversation by another name the duel. Each with a point to make driven through the heart to his opponent. Each branding heavy swords or light stabbing weapons. When ever two or more individuals speak they engage to the death. If you do not die you cannot be resurrected. If you parry you only make your opponent more aware of the position you stand on. If you win you have only killed another or your solders. If you commit suicide from terror you are dead. If you trip you will be stabbed through the hart. If you refuse the duel you become a powerless coward. How to make it work. If you get close to him you can't say for sure where a concealed weapon may be! Any wise person always carries a concealed weapon of the nastiest variety. If you fight vigorously you can not win a drawn out battle, or he quickly learns your favored strokes and you will lose prematurely. In this game death is determined by very delicate skills.
1. Create Terror in your victim maybe he will commit suicide.
2. Use all the tactics above carefully.
3. Try to get him to back up over something.
4. Tell him I wish not to fight you and so you will have to do some incredible fighting to kill me, and you will only be fatiguing yourself into your doom. I will remind you that you are very intelligent man (hopping around hoping he will make a mistake) While conversing stretch his mind to throw him off balance. If you are going to kill, an experienced sword fighter then count on that you will do it only when he is off balance. (throe things at him).
5. The nature of the engagement is partial key. Remember to the death and dueling is a very straight forward business. The one and only one thing you must create within from where ever you can manage is the reality that eventually you will win. Special talents do come in very handy and are good cause to create fame, but likewise many a sword fighter has similar skills. So it will be unique perspective you have unlike any other sword fighter that will give you the win.
6. Pull from your opponents their identity, their exotic fighting styles, of preferences for weapons. "Oh where did you learn that,"
7. Backing over the log trick, pull a social fighter far enough towards you to become unaware of where the log is and then back him over the log so that he falls to your next piece of mercy.
8. Run at him full force creating shock so that he must fall down.
9. understand your opponent neither of you wish to loose so what is he counting on and is he giving any tell signs. If he isn't he is comfortable totally and you are in trouble. After you have gotten comfortable with some of your new skills, take them further into the battle field.
The Reflexology of Peoples Minds
If you can sum up the other, sufficiently them you can account for his reaction to your next question or position. Use your entire social army as a testing grounds. Anticipate the human element, and you have become extremely dangerous, in control of yourself beyond subsidence. A person reaction can only be positive or negative hopefully you are able to find and extreme of the two. Those are the most interesting, and potentially rewarding.
Accept that freedom is a composition of things that you just don't understand. That the new level of discovery is something that you don't understand. But you will grow into these things, and others will follow your lead, possibly stabbing you in the back at the first hint of discovery. It is better to be talented in discovery than intend harm to one of your allies however the unfortunate ones have learned things beyond science and understand that the back stabbor must be contended with and that he posses a common urge of the rest of our allies. So here are his tools and as well your defenses and finally your devices of . . . pay back.
All real strength and power come from relaxation about a personally held belief. You may not know what that belief is in it's entirety but it's there, providing strength. As you know yourself more that strength becomes less restrained, and freer to all your endeavors. What is a tool to utilize this strength? When you think to yourself, you may be over synthesizing your power trying to bring it out rather than freeing it openly. Stop thinking the way you do. Everyone is almost exactly alike in that they have had the same thoughts or though patterns instead catch yourself thinking and speak out loud something that would be beneficial if true. Being true isn't important or necessary if you speak it you will believe it partly just because your human.
The very same power that provides the blowing leaves to blow enables your mouth and mind to take advantage of their known and permanent weaknesses.
Likewise to grow vastly beyond your current potential all you need do is read or think on dramatically dangerous or trying situations of others that you come across if you can put yourself there you will reap some of the same benefits as the others. Some people are seriously lacking in the experience department because they don't get any useful skills out of this tool. The problems are not that you are weak or inexperienced only that you don't have the perspective of some of the others who use those perspectives to survive, or achieve.
Vigilance
Getting into peoples minds. If you discover what is there in that other humans brain you may expound you abilities. Your universe is limited in it's own observations. This condition is permanent, and a liability; by imagining just what the other people see you can develop eyes in the back of your head. Just focusing here on the fundamental beginnings; the next time someone walks past you imagine what his eyes are seeing it is likely where you have just come from. Being aware of other peoples sight on a regular basis allows the formation of a supreme defense and weapon. By thinking you can become comfortable in any situation. How many people work on this skill and what does it do form them how do they employ it and how many others are caught off guard. Remember attacking from the broadest angle will also be the place people will try to get to though they don't know how to escape their skins. If this perspective can be practiced and developed into personality then it will never fail you if nothing else it gives you a sure why to remain comfortable always. Why, because their line of vision isn't seeing the whole world just it's limited scope of vision, just human eyes and so the other guy has lost all the effort put into making his impression and using intimidation to manipulate you. If ever there was a liability is was age. More time to be locked into a stable nothingness.
Everyone is willing to give you the time of day, all you need know now is whom to ask, and how to piece it all together, and ultimately to be able to feel why you are doing all this.
When some one asks you a question they are throwing a stone at you. Think about it, life isn't a question, without their insecurities questions don't exist. And if they did we would be as pointless to understand them as we are in understanding the existence of the universe. When they ask you a question they have gotten fed up with their own negativity and decide that they don't want it anymore so they forge it into a stone and being crafty little humans make use of what they don't want. Now if you feel that you know what the stone is made of and have an idea of where it is aimed then not only will the stone miss it's target but it isn't feared but welcomed very much even appreciated. Why? Well stones can be useful things, you can throw them back or they can be used to build a castle. Don't discard the awkwardly shaped stones either, a castle made of interesting stones is an interesting castle.
Experiencing a person is not so much what it is as much as what it isn't. Remember it is to peoples advantage that you see them the way that they purport themselves to be. It is more comfortable to them. Likewise it is more comfortable for them if you are what they expected. However depending on your perspective or natural experience they are all actors grasping desperately to what they see as the end of the tunnel, or the answer. Yes accept it or not when people are seriously offended they are just acting. At first this may seem an annoying idea but it isn't you willingly experience your adaptation to the others, their weakness their stagnant ideas because that is what makes them feel good as senseless as it seems, and well it makes you feel good to. All couples act the same when together and all individuals become dramatically different from everyone else when they are confronted off their own terms. So see deep into life, and when it feels good change your outlook for the others, get onto their turf where they are cozy. Accept the parameters of the person so that they will naturally do what feels good to them and be off and working directly for you, adding to your ever growing portfolio of talent.
Reading Reality
It is said and is true that the way it is the way it is. People are the way they are and you are the way you are. And all things leading to failure or lack of comforts are the result of refusing to acknowledge reality. So how do we read reality and what can we do about the way it is?
Find the negatives, you have a tendency to loose perspective and faith in yourself around the negatives aspects. Find them and work them, by altering their meanings. Yes you will have to do things that you don't want to but you don't have to think of those things in the terms seem as if you were suffering. Choose a good perspective, one that isn't damaging and one that does not have to be a sacrifice. After you increase your level of knowledge, your net worth, . . . whatever the situation will totally have changed, which is why this skill is important and not long term planning. Long term planning just allows you to hang over a cliff after having walked the plank you designed for yourself. As much since as it made then the plank was to short.
Yielding Life
Yield only when they want it most, a mother tries to create this need within her brood on a continual basis so that the younger less experienced will feel comfortable attempting the things that will enable them to survive, and so that she builds up a bind of trust in times of fear and danger, she is after all more likely to be able to take of herself than her brood is. She creates the need from no need sometimes. The lesson for the sovereign individual is never yield until they need it most, and then allow them to feel that they are getting a life saving suckle when in fact they are relieving you of your swelling breasts. If you don't have breasts then improvise.
The Bridge to Power
picture suggested (mind-bridge,-mind,bridge, mind bridge)
when ever you speak you are building a bridge for you listener they will believe in limited terms what you have to say at some point they always over extent themselves, or else they aren't paying attention and woe to the ones who haven't keen observation skills.
Bridges, collapse of their own weight bridges also allow you to get, to unique places. If you keep on giving to people at some point they can't take you anymore they love you to death that they can't stand it. They will fall of their own weight, if you say something to get someone going they will come at you with a bridge. They will actually change their reality from just them to them and you because the alternative seems so much better to them. They've accepted you- then after you say more pleasant things to them, they extend the bridge further at some point they either recoil or become your entertainer one and the some, with that you have sucked their life from them and you may feel refreshed. With it you may do whatever you fancy. Remember that though they begin to accept you as themselves and the two form into one, yes at every conversation this happens, that two sovereign individuals cannot successfully exist as one and so someone has to fold. if you can get people to extend themselves to you then at some point they will fall of their own weight.
If you can swap a useless idea that you have for one that yields immediate results and paramountly serious comfort then the world becomes only your kingdom that much more, and when you decide recognize that the mental pain you are feeling is because you have just out grown your own skin. Also recognize that your new perspective is much more useful than a hammer is.
The Wise Gladiator
Ancient gladiators of old grew cause for fame by sharing the intimate experience of death. They learned through many years of scars the way to behave and so shall you, hopefully with as few permanent wounds as possible. In their fear of humans they also learned the comforts of flesh, but the danger never subsided. There was no difference between cutting someone's throat and intercourse only differences in the victims peoples minds. In their journeys, they found people who had trouble cutting someone's throat and they found those who is resilient to sex. The first bestowed his right to have his throat cut himself being freed of his fear exactly before his blood rushed out, and the latter was freed from their bodies former inconsequent.
The gladiators were not unusually smart men, in fact they were often said to be dumb, robust vulgar creatures. And whenever they were confronted as such they would reply "Take and it shall be yours, tremble and it shall be yours. Revel in your glory and they both shall be your." Which was often met with obedient silence and fortitude. For though the gladiators were seen as defending themselves the were in fact giving the towns people their philosophy out right so that they may have a means to defend themselves. For though every one will be handicapped in one way they will excel in the other.
What the gladiators knew to be true is that every fantastical challenge that they would ever be compelled to experience had already happened in their minds. It was the others who stood to loose, it would be the towns people unwillingness to part with their fake security build over the years of town living, that would put them to a disadvantage against anything not of the town.
and so you already have the gladiator's champion's throat in your grasp if you have already imagined all of the hard times and prepared your perspective for the torture of skill, and so the choice is yours.
As you stand with your very real gauntlet around his very real neck you understand that this was a moment that you could not have shared with anyone. We cannot share out pain, our suffering as it were, it is our master to learn from, our dear and only teacher. You will have understood that the glory of the crowd is not your glory, that any suffering you endure cannot be shared and there too illusions are the cause of this ridiculous sport. Humans attempt to bind themselves to one another to avoid the pain of discovery and so they do not discover any of them. If you release your grip the servants of the illusion, the guards of the arena will kill you quickly. So the process of discovery becomes a love affair with wisdom and you are willing to break the gladiators neck knowing at that he has taught you. Doing this you realize that wisdom has always been a crystal clear and available experience and so your trek of discovery and lonely opposition ends with the company of wisdom.
All is your friend that you could learn from and the more closed to the experience they are, the more fearful the more your achievement becomes.
, tears you shed in the process are tears that hesitate your success and are only more so the gates to power. The limp body in your hands a heated reminder of what hesitation means. And as well the mirror image of humanity in it's predicament.
Your chest will now heave to the concubine you have won and tear into her you will seeking appreciation of her own kind of wisdom learned deep in her chambers of her dowry and wonder what treachery must bring the two of you together in illusion finding you only faithful resource broken against her might. Tearing from her heart her burning desire to learn of your wisdom.
Jostling it her weakness, playing with her every universe, to challenge her flesh against your single desire to expound on your wisdom.
She is there nude and fancied, the death of her quake, raped of her skill and gouged of her envy, trembling. alone in her new wisdom the harness of discovery. Eye of the unknown looks in upon the two of you. Knowing her vigor has calmed you and the expression at piece she cries a tear but does not run to you. She sits content of what ever wisdom she has gleaned. Wisdom cannot be absorbed or separated from it's mater, only used to sustain discovery and glean again from those who have survived. Both of you succumb to the labor that unison is one and wisdom not two. And even if the wisdom of the other could be given and received then what is the other to think of it and what could they do with it . . nothing. All of the real power both within and from outside lies in the merging of one perspective to another. It is only time and experience that teaches us that there is not a thing in the world you could have, even complete and total control over, to own and dispose of as you see fit that you do not already have. If anything troubles you, you can be sure it is the lack of your perspective, the lack of skill in your own thinking that disable you to see that. Just imagine, a king is king because he knows who the pilgrims are, he knows the names and positions of his servants, his generals, the whole picture comes to him because he is king not because some mystical power he has, no he thinks as the king. If you desire to ascend then listen well, the thoughts of the King are no different than any other thoughts of any man. All his decisions and all of his consequences he brings upon himself only because the others around him accept not his authority as is so common a mistake; they accept the meaningless concepts from his brain. And so they carry out his order. Whose responsibility falls on another who also accepts the meaningless concepts from translating brain on until the peasants see not the fantastical brain of their king but awe themselves into believing that so much power was wielded. On the contrary no power was wielded at all. The King merely spoke and thought just as he had done earlier that morning when he was on the toilet. What made the difference was that his thought was accepted without opposition by so many. Ah, the real talent becomes visible . . . people accepting your ideas as their own.
You will never carry your own idea without changes and reworking into reality. The reason is simple, you needn't to, take what you can get when it is presented to you. If you listen to what having a wife means and what financial trouble is, and what drug addiction is like and what the major hurdles are then you needn't pass them. You can use all of these things that seem to pose a threat and use them to vastly increase your over all position is all comes down to how well you observe you are and how well you learn from your own mistakes. If in your kingdom one day you decide that for the best way for the kingdom to grow is to have a road built between two of the greatest towns. Whom will do it? No one currently having marital affairs and so you know what to look for. Certainly no one who is happy where they are. You will find that with enough consideration very rarely will an expenditure of finances be necessary or at least you can 10 or 12 good projects with the payment of only one or two. People do not want to be rich they want to be comfortable, so discover what irritates them. Matching the people is key. They have all different needs all different backgrounds, fighting styles, quirks, and levels they will be satisfied with.
First picture their eyes, what are they seeing right now? Perhaps you need to ask them a few harmless questions like what are your hobbies or interests. When you can get a picture of them find what is discomforting to them. Be wary of folks who have few discomforts. Once you know what discomforts them then perhaps you could find someone to fulfill the deed. Now, that guy probably needs money or something. So find another person who can provide that service successfully. Somewhere in the middle you can come up with more than you had originally and be only less on time. You can be a manager without expending money or investing very much of yourself and do right by it the only real skill is relaxing about the process and keeping your commitment as low as possible. Every one will want you to commit 1 so that they may commit 1 but only on the terms that you commit 2. So the score goes something like 3-1. Then to get their 2 you have to commit 4 more. And so 7-3. Yes eventually they put up the same commitment that you do but he, the score would never show it. The score is what matters, and so trust is built on a loosing strategy for the one who supposedly is going to end up trust worthy. Try to order your superiors around especially if you don't work for them.
Jumping the Painful Element
Do what you are going to do at the end of your life right now. Cage time, Don't create problems for yourself but a good thing to remember is to do things before they really need to be done. People are lagging behind in the way they view things, when ever you confront them directly you because you are there ahead of time with the spirit of doing good things for your self become the center of their attention and in some cases their lives. So keep pushing that little guy in the cage and though his talents aren't your own you will get the full benefit of them.
Ask people to do things for you long before you will need them done, that way when you approach them, that service will be the device that takes them to the land of feeling bad about themselves and just sitting around. And what's more you look like the star having put forth no more effort than the others only half their efforts led them into depression of mild sorts. If you push it you will be on the edge of magic, don't ever push yourself only change your perspective so it becomes easier to look at some thing.
The better you get at this perspective game the more and more items you will be able to store on your self some of them very rare experiences and knowledge, and some of them priceless.
If you get good then you can ask several people at once to do a certain
Claim as much for yourself as possible, if you are going to express your feelings don't quote someone else's work, yea there's is better and they were better people maybe, but take their work and learn form it so you can learn what they knew to create the work in the first place, then make your version.
If everyone is equally bad and equally wonderful, and equally talented then at some point they stop bickering and get on with the sensations that life is all about. Needn't explain your views in fact you will seem more powerful if you don't have a parable to back up the shocking thing you just said.
Why is the broadest perspective the rarest perspective? When it comes down to daggers and rape people see the fear, the unexpected instead of insisting that they don't know what is out there and what it's all about, yes again and again they would rather feel safe. After all their are dangerous gladiators out there who would like to practice on them.
Why the mention of the shelf? Well there is a crime going on right now. Forgetfulness, a person to maintain the highest use of himself must keep a record of what it is that he does and possibly why he does it. We forget our first loves, we forget things that we care about. There are many realities, all with different rules and different values and different objectives, in fact any one truth will suffer in that exactly the opposite holds true. So we are actors and we alter realities and all of us live in different realities, there must be a record somewhere so that we can make sense of it all, and that record is your self don't write it down if you dare but concentrate often on it's importance. A man on a journey often knows when he is a new man better of his experiences, but he won't always remember exactly where he went, and there is plenty of time to get lost while we are here on this planet.
As a shepherd watches his flock to learn the nature of lambs so to must you watch humans to learn the nature of humans. Pubs, or outdoor events are excellent places and employ as much practice in these places as you can.
The good part about all of these virgin clouds is that if anyone comes to you with an offering you can make them walk through the virgin clouds. Make them believe that they need some kind of right to get something. You audition these people putting them trough an ordeal, why well first of all the come at you ready with expectations and those soon become a bother because as you know anyone with an expectation will try to get what he thinks he can get. If he is relaxed about it then your even more trouble. Promptly kill any expectations people have. Then you can draw out the long term process of getting the person to qualify for what he wants. This will put him at doubt.
If anyone does basically what he can about a situation and doesn't live up to the ludicrous idea of deadlines or project contingencies then you can scream breach of trust etc. Because our culture believes in these silly ideas you can allow their beliefs to work against them.
Well peoples perspectives are naturally narrow and by further employing other techniques you can keep them basically otherwise emotionally occupied so that they don't have the energy to try to figure out what it is that you are doing. The way to success rarely if ever requires your labor it only requires that people of any name work hard.
All you really have to do is call the shots, it doesn't matter that no one is heeding you because the minute one of the shots you called seems to have been a good call but now it is too late then it is them that begin to feel the draw of negativity and that is the road to their loss of control influence and ultimately their loss what you what and your gain.
Ascending The Past
Recognize that the game ascends. Always. If the angle of the game is up then the whole game moves up not just the players. At some point the tools change. They become more interested in weeding out competitors than in growing themselves. They understand how difficult it is to rise to this level and so they begin to depend on the system of ascending to reduce their competitors. It makes allot of since because people who have ascended know what they have been through and so are willing to use that knowledge as their primary weapon.
This is a source of many permanent frustrations, many of whom are blind. If it hard in the world be as sure as paint that it is because those who have command, know exactly how hard it is. It is not so much that they are out to get you as much as they have become familiar to how many ways they are destructive to themselves, and so they ask as much from you as possible.
Employ yourself with the broadest perspective, any warrior knows that if he is attacked from more then one direction that he is in trouble. Don't take a narrow approach, and if you can manage it don't fight yourself but employ others into your services.
The great game of perspective, throws out the rules, and has no meanings, the one and only one thing that remains is desire. And that is the tool and the approach. Practice the approach and you will learn to avoid paying the small prices. Remember that this universe isn't really meaningful, and hasn't a rule book, it is basically fill in the blank, good life, better life, better than before life.
The only thing that you have to sacrifice in this world is the ideas that no longer have value, either you have ascended or they aren't good ideas in the first place, and those make no mistake are the most painful ones. Being impoverished is child's play to throwing your whole perspective out the window and starting from scratch. Why, because if feels like death to understand that you cling to useless ideas, and to remake them you must accept yourself as useless and inferior to your new idea.
The Pendulum Talisman
The pendulum talisman. A pendulum has the greatest potential for movement when at rest. You have the greatest ability to create something for yourself when you are at rest. The pendulum allows gravity to do most of it's work it only swings along.
The energy ball talisman, peoples emotions operate in a sea of current, feelings, non-absolutes. and they sap one another of their strength. The reason this happens is their relations are being made because their are so many clouds.
Because the human psyche is limited in it's scope of experience we on a task by task basis try to make our worlds small and of a manageable size. What sorts of ideas are workable for most of our tasks and desires.
The kneel and beg syndrome, immediately cope the intimidator's body position, if there is a raised counter step away from it so they do not reap the full reward of it's position.
Slaves Build Pyramids
Perception Pyramid
A. In the world their is allot going on
B. We don't know what that allot of going on are, we can't see into peoples heads and we have on average only 190 degrees of vision.
C. If we knew allot more than we do we might be able to take advantage of more.
D. There is so much going on that things are related, how well there kind of all in the same pot, the present, or you might say the planet.
If you want something done then it is best to find someone who is happy. Happy in general. Finding someone who is especially happy to perform your service is not rare but unlikely to happen on a regular basis.
Use the crowd, why because if you don't then you aren't using something that you can make use of.
The discounting principle: taken from modern psychology; the principle that when there is a plausible explanation for an action, people discount (give less weight, or substance too) other explanations. When you tell people what they want to hear you are at the same time shadowing or camouflage what is in your head, therefore because it isn't in the open and visible it cannot be rejected.
Folks are purporting their realities, their views, and they treat these perspectives just as they treat other people. They are themselves aware that these views are what make them people. Let people sing their own songs and keep broadening your perspective until one or two or all of those perspectives cross your view. What is your view, well, what would you like to permanently place on your shelf of history? Because of the similarity of people the interests will and do mess, exactly how so is up to your breadth of what you see.
There is basically nothing people do but miss-communicate.
Getting people to take actions that are against their attitudes is a powerful way of changing their attitudes. Notice that you are fighting peoples wills when you undertake this idea. Recognized where style is important.
Unless it can be put on your self it is worthless. Unless it is the preparation of putting something on your self.
Allow others to be your parents.
People see you mostly for the benefit that you offer them in the present, they may try to stretch it out into the future, anyhow they adopt this as their reality. Never under estimate a persons expectations. Who knows where the hell they get those expectations but you'd better believe that they are there and they are coming out of your pocket so to think.
In psychology there is a term affiliation which basically refers to a persons social motives and fear reduction. Understand that one of the really important factors in life is that whatever you say whatever someone else says or whatever gets done, you will want a set of values that you have researched or developed on your own, some people attempting to communicate this idea to you will call them principles. But they really aren't because will all want different things, and some of us are naturally more cocky or gregarious and so those values or mind ideas will differ from some of the others.
Why, is this helpful? Well remembering other things in this book no matter what is going on you always have a since of self, you always aware of where physically and mentally you are so you can manipulate yourself into an advantageous position. With these mind values or mind notes, very basic and probably very broad you will be able to say things from perspectives other than your own. Basically there is one thing going on in your head one thing you are conveying to another and the one thing the other guy is doing. This creates real strength, and the real possibility that you can and will get what it is that you want. Remember, your bowels aren't to be shared and if you tried to share them it would do no good to anyone around you or to yourself. So you will get a feel for what it actually takes to develop some of these skills accurately, real sacrifice, sacrificing your body movements because you know they are from the discomfort of the differences in the two negotiating realities, in a since hiding them and in a since letting yourself get in touch with what you want and not the frustrations of not having it leads to.
The assumption, the killer assumption is that the one you are talking too believes that he or she that you are part of his tribe that you are actually him. Think on it. How else could he believe, what other experiences does he have to allow him to believe otherwise? Absolutely none. Remember the concealed dagger, well that very last thing that the other guy ever expects is the concealed dagger, even if he is a smart person, even if he is experienced it will be the last thing that he expects from himself, to pull out a dagger and stab himself in his moment of glory, he sees himself as you and the likely hood is on most civilized transactions among people is that you will see the same. . .arm yourselves.
Picture of man's head down cast with certain goods he has happened upon by chance, and above his head allot of goods he may or may not ever see.
Why the other guy's perspective first? Well though you have been through allot and learned allot, and have had allot of good things happen to you just aren't aware of all the goodies that can be had. You only know a very limited section of all the goods that are to be had and that eventfully translates into not being aware of all the good things that could happen to you. Yes those other bothersome people are in touch with some of those possibilities, some of them are the decoders of fait regarding some of those experiences. Some of them are just occupied deeply in experiencing themselves through a certain activity, not at first something that you would be interested in or could gain from. But of course by now you should be aware that the game is played to know yourself well enough make limited commitments to seek some of the gain the others are experiencing, weather it be money, travel, intellectual details that are enlightening, or just simply practicing forgetting about most of life and living very simply. But yes again they are doing these things and are existing for your benefit. It is to their advantage to have their mirror images around them, so that they to can learn and practice meanings, practice what it is to live successfully, uniquely, comfortably and of course with friends who will without doubt fill their part of the contract.
If you think that you cannot reach those people remember that no matter how many friends or helpers they have they are eventually alone to the broad perspective and that puts you not only into their nest but possibly becoming the mother or father as well.
When do you have a good grasp on the broad perspective? Well in as far as putting directly to use and to your advantage you will never be at par, but while conquering the frustrations and limitations of your body and mind, you will become at rest somewhat bewildered at even the slightest movements you make. Why? Well you can't think ahead of everything and attempting to make better and better decisions you get to the point where you can actually feel the presence of the acute and broad angles working. When you can feel them you can use them.
Why the broad angle, because it makes something productive and hard and frustrating that you want to do seem like cuddling with your spouse on a couch. By simplifying your inner feelings and restraining yourself at jumping into other details you harness the broad perspective, or rather it harnesses you and carries you where ever it was heading when you jumped on. The broad perspective is the unmentionable, the unusable, the ideal weapon, the unfathomable way to successful living and unless you are in it, it is pure torment, that is how powerful it is, so much so that you may eventually learn to understand it as a physical thing. . . maybe . . . possibly as your sovereign self.
People are excellent at naming things that they have done, you probably heard allot of these kinds of stories at work about what was done over the holidays, or in bars about stories of bravery or guts. What people aren't so apt at doing is naming things that they haven't done. Make yourself a unique person don't speak of what is or has been done. Make sure that the people who will aide you in your next endeavor are close at hand and monitor the details of their attention which of course is subject to change. After maintaining this see if you can't get paid to do some of those things.
An acceptable way to view the world is that people don't work the settle for the easy way for themselves, this may seem to be impressive depending on the person, it may in fact be one of the hardest things in the world to do, but they designed the concept the designed the ideas that allows them to get where they think they are going. Where are they going, to their death beds. So if you see a success, and you see what is purported to be the interests of the people around you also see the giant holes they leave behind. Those holes are your ticket to allot of goods, people cannot maintain the front, they cannot fight on all sides at once, and if you have the right broad angle the one that seems to mesh their giant holes with their giant arrows you have a way of getting what it is that you want, again your ability to see and use is directly correlated to your vigilance. Basically the smarter you become the more and more you cannot quite place where your fears are coming from but be sure they are equally present as they have always been. It is the escape of all virgin ideas that will broaden the way for you to chose what it will be that you will be scared of.
Again people's greatest assets are their ideas and likewise their greatest liabilities are as well their ideas. The broad perspective is lost so easily, and what was once joyous and great with you sitting in a perfect position, becomes the largest of agonies to deal with be wary of what good you bring to people because they can only take, what it is that you have, it must be designed that they take what you have designed they will eventually reject you for, and be prepared. It will happen. Always smile knowing that the other guy just has another target to shoot at.
If people don't get what they want from you they distrust you and if they get what they want from you they will mistrust you. The mechanism to rely on is to constantly bring trust to the table as an issue, actually state that you trust them and that is a hidden way of saying that you expect from them. And when circumstance merits don't actually rely on any of that trust, you are putting as much of your own weight onto them as you know you don't have to watch yourself.
When you go along with other people understand that their expectations are going to always be a bit higher than what reality is willing to distribute to them. Yes go along with them conscious that the level will drop somewhat possibly allot but at least you have someone who is moving somewhere besides sideways.
Understand that you are in a box trap all of the time, and when you dispel the box their is only another enclosing you. If you get excited it is because you have gotten rid of that box, but not the only box, they are all equally difficult to consider and all exciting to dispel but don't lead yourself into the illusion of freedom.
Unless some thing has already been done, don't speak of it, remember you have a tendency to believe in what you say if you exaggerate unwisely you will only limit the opportunities to put things permanently on your self.
Time isn't a wrench remember that, there are allot of physical tools that have sophisticated uses, and might require instructions before you could use them properly. Time is further difficult because you can't see or touch it, but it is a tool none the less the medium that all tasks get properly done. Take a course in time, not to manage it, or take advantage of it but to recognize what it is to you. 100 blocks of time, every time a block expires you are closer to your death, these blocks are tradable for certain goods. Once traded for no refunds or exchanges the sale is final.
Eternal Self Talisman
The eternal shelf says who you are who you were and who you didnt want to be. It is good that in your life you could play the pauper, the baker, the sex pot. As you gain experience these things come in useful again. As time wares on you realize that some of the things you have done are not as rare as once you believed them to be, and because of this simple truth they become useful again. The eternal shelf is there so you can become whole in an act, record it, know that you where successful in what you want. Don't base your acts on randomness consider what your eternal shelf says about you, figure out what it does not say about you that you would like it to say. And above all record exactly what it is that you are doing and have done. The major advantage is being able to consider more deeply with more meaning and more foresight what it is that you are doing. You will be able to predict how successfully your next endeavor will be in part because you can physically consider what elements need more attention. With the eternal shelf you will understand more what your angle is. It will also serve the ego when you haven't the energy. It will provide depth understanding where others are shallow.
By not using daily affirmation everything is covered in a shroud of miss-identity, because people have emotional limitations. You can enhance fixed emotional characteristics. It is the virginity of man that keeps us huddled together so tightly. The lesson is basic people will accept ideas that they haven't considered themselves, why well they just never stopped to consider the idea which makes it all the more reliable to them.
As long as a narrow mind is in a marrow environment everything works fine, be aware however that you cannot approach such a circumstance unless you are willing to act narrowly, to act that you are controlled by the narrow energy in the room, by the flimsy ideas that hold everyone there. Only then can you get inside the enemies camp, after you see what is going on, all of the details of how the whole construction is pieced together, who is leader who is jester who suggests or who is most aware. You can only state your name it takes allot more concentration and tact to actually become adopted by the tribe. When there guards lessen up against you and time has given you the necessary tools make no mistake about you mission. You are there to cut everyone's throat, probably in the dark and probably people whom you have come to know and like, your new friends. This isn't of course a life hobby, just your original plan part of the necessary elements you have decided for your eternal shelf.
You cannot talk about things that you have done, because that will not really help you and you cannot talk about things that you might do or will do in the future because that is to spite you. The only thing that you can do is work about and in the present.
See Affirmation Tactic
The Broad Angle Talisman
If you are actually involved in what is going on then you are not taking advantage of the broad angle. Keep your distance from all involvement's, get ready to jump on them
We are more defined by what we do not know than what we do know, this will be true no matter how much we decide to learn.
The mind is the most magnetic thing tin the universe, it needs no prodding or poking to activate. It naturally latches on to what it believe . . . believes it needs, believes it should listen to or will harm it. You don't ever have th get a person's attention all you have to do is talk about what the person what to hear most. When ever you meet or speak with someone make it an absolute point that the other person does more talking than you do, what is more make sure that the other person conveys more complete thoughts and makes more informative body gesture that you do and you will be assured to prosper in one exact and definite way their success is more subject to inspection that is yours. They have committed to failure farm more deeply that you have success isn't as much a search as much as it is a delicate capture. Catch their right people saying the right things and be prepared to know what your quotient it.
Your intelligence quotient, tell yourself the truth, repeat over and over what the actual truth is. If you cannot afford a private jet than say to yourself thousands of times you cannot afford a private Jet. If you do not you will be likely to believe that you can very well afford a private jet and well there goes the rent check
Phraseology
Often you will see people that seem to have done more than you in their life times. Or people that do things that are very hard, say a very hard subject matter. You feel these things not as a loss, but from. It is all in the perspective, of view. Perhaps the most difficult of things is redesigning the way that you see something into a perspective that is pleasant. Because you have almost no control over the world this is one of the constant things that you can do for yourself and if you are cleaver about you friends something that you can do for each other all the time without knowing it. Practicing new view points can empower you, recognize skills, escape the natural tendency towards paranoia and it allows you to in a natural form to absorb the sums that is to say the character of people you admire.
The Calm of the Storm
One huge illusion is a calm in a storm, we naturally preserve energy, and during a calm that is when we don't immediately recognize a threat and so we do less, less preparation. If you can learn to observe the calm you can use it to throw other people off and at the same time use it to improve your comfort, growing strength.
Youth
Read into it use it if you can, can you see what your youth has been can you see that if you have something impenetrable to say that there will be few who have even to small amount of strength to Challenge you let alone the idea or following other human characteristics that follow right along. What is an impenetrable, well use youth and age for example.
The Man of Value is Always Taken Care of...
In a desert the person whom knows how to retrieve water from the ground is always valuable. If he shares his knowledge then he will be as thirsty for influence has his comrades were for water. Leave the secrets deep and with them your future. Share just enough to service and barter your secrets for other difficulties.
Serving the Illusion
There is so much emphasis on communication in todays world and the reason is simple, the fact is humans cannot communicate wholly to anyone, and only rarely do the communicate appreciably to themselves.
Become the Pseudo-Accommodator: being a pseudo accommodator is pretending to go along with an opponents point of view moment for moment until he builds up an expectation.
Tell people the smallest slightest details about yourself they will assume it is your entire universe. When times get desperate they will use whatever means they can against you. A fine policy to keep is one of confidentiality. for smart people this truth becomes disturbing. Spouses, and friends are included in this group, you cannot maintain two lives, you cannot stay far enough away from your ambitions to play a safe sport. You are involved and so you are vulnerable. Because you are vulnerable there aren't too many strategies you can employ other than being aware of the fact. Maintain long periods of self fulfilling silence reinforced with comforts of living and never speak exactly on your intents. This will create a hole of desire; what everyone is using to fill their voids and they will more naturally fall into your plans, don't operate allow everyone else to call the shots just get ready to commit when their shots your aim match.
After everything you go through you will wish very badly to receive recognition in person face to face with our adversaries. But we must not ever, because is us who is dangerous to ourselves and the present is ever revealing. Your skills will become so powerful that you will remain anonymous, likewise.
The future is dangerous, in the future you are dead. In the future there are allot of problems that will surface. You can compact them all and experience them at once, in the form of anxiety allot of us choose this option. And we learn far more about suffering tan we should.
People have a very unusual habit of building up people that they haven't conceptualized. They even fear them. Imagine some one like your boss at your new job picking his nose on his way home, or imagine something that brings your imagination back down to earth and you will see that you are allot more harmful to your self than you have realized. It is the same force that keeps you brilliant and creatively alive that sinks you destroys your ability to move ahead and accomplish important things.
You will see that you spend most of your time, doing things not oriented towards what you believe will make you happy. You will see that you don't work as much as you think you do and that about some things thinking is a bad thing to do. Ferocity of the human spirit enables you from doing the things that you want to do. Thinking is a killer of many things.
Against Odds
We humans play a dangerous game to the death, the game is called "Life and it's Limitations." People and their desires. What we see and what we can touch. These things create the world that we are familiar with, and likewise forge the arena we live in. Friction of any kink isn't natural. Can all of be as blind as to play by rules we don't know?
A Key Question
What are the things that people can say about you? How can you use those images of theirs that come so freely to you, what benefits can be made material. What are the tools for actually using these myths they have of you. These are the boundaries.
The rare and unique: look at local news papers, and in general look for unique opportunities to get involved permanently in what is going on that will be some of the things people have to talk about you. Instead of talking to all of people about allot of different kind of things, set up a list of things that they can talk to each other about on your behalf.
Way out ever, but you dont need a way out you only need to be aware enough to situate yourself snugly.
There is no such thing as temptation it has been used to often as a tool and excuse and a way of communication amoung humans for a long time and never has it amounted to any good at all, oh dont fall tin o temptation, and if curiosity doesnt get you then what you become interested in temps you strong enough. Temptation is the building block of all things that dont rightly have building blocks.
You have your value placed into things just as you attempt take the responsibility of your life and place it outside of yourself you take the value you have of yourself and place into things, ideas, objects such as dares private jets, historical experiences near death experiences, future events. How wise is this and how should the value judgments be managed for yourself. First the mistake is always to grow this area which is the largest and most attended area of your life without consideration what your doing to yourself in the process. We try new things to keep these definitions and meanings we have for ourselves to try to put them into perspective to try to limit their influence on us. Think about why you do the thins that you do, the recreational things and literally you do them to escape what you are? What kind of since does that really make? If is good to place your value into other things it simplifies life and allows you to make judgments quickly and confidently but ultimately you will be much stringer if you record your successes and create small mini-successes a ND store your value permanently in them. Why they are small they take up less space than and ego and you can more readily muster strength with apse successes. Putting your value in objects isnt bad at all infuse it is the reverse, with mire of objects leading you along your life if you ever need to do anything you have a perfect reason not to fully commit seeing that already you are pledging more that you bargained for did you ever sit at a table and dices your obligations of birth?
Point in true where ever your value is stored make sure that it is useful to you and see to it that its creation or its materialization want too expensive on you, you should have allot of successes but not allot of frustrations.
Talismans are things that you hold onto because they have proven their worth.
The One Who Knows
Their is only one you, there is only one life to account for, and so you can Olli do successfully one thing at a time, the other things that you want to do or know you can accomplish is why you have friends, employees, associates, parents, children, you can only do one impressive thing at a time, the others can do what they thing they like to do and if you are clever enough they will do exactly what will Bering fame to your name and you may put one or two more permanent trophies on you shelf. Remember that the shelf is a general preppies type of storage are in your mid or in your resume or in your journal it culmination when you add.
Gladiator Talisman
Ancient gladiators of old grew cause for fame by sharing the intimate experience of death. They learned through many years of scars the way to behave and so shall you, hopefully with as few permanent wounds as possible. In their wake they learn to fear humans but they also learned of many glories, together they learned the two are inseparable. Their is no difference in cutting someones throat and walking plainly done a street, and their is no difference in experiencing the glory of fame and walking down the street.
The gladiators were not unusually smart men, in fact they were often said to be dumb, robust, vulgar creatures. And whenever they were confronted as such they would grumble "Take and is shall be yours, tremble and it shall be yours. Revel in your glory and they both shall be yours." Which was often met with jovial cheers, and triumphant hollers. Though the gladiators were seen as a celebration they were in fact giving the towns people their philosophy out right so that they could defend themselves. If perchance any of the townspeople had the misfortune of finding themselves in an arena the fight could be acknowledged as a fair one. Where ever
Ascending
A word or two on ascension, every few minute the world is a better place to live. The citizens of the nation built the place up years ago. What there is to experience is vast and bountiful. Their treasures lie in their wake, which out their creators to guide there development. Do you think that people today really know how to The road to acceding into greatness is fast and only requires small thoughts of covert to keep you inside the broad perspective. Recognize that the game ascends. Always. If the angle Os the game broadens the whole perspective of the game moves up, possibly the younger members of the game enter. Perhaps even the younger members support the structure that the older members operate from. It may seem that the opportunity for gain of rank dissolves, but you can never loose if you maintain humans as the base of study, they are a constant. The better you know of yourself the better you will recognize the game, and its seemingly anonymous players. Possibly at some point the players become more interested in weeding out their competitors. The player understand what perspective it took to rise to their level and so they another perspective the perspective of discouragement and difficulty to fortitude their own perspective which becomes rarer. People who have ascended know what they have been through and so they are willing it use that knowledge as their primary weapon.
This angled perspective is a source of many permanent frustrations, frustrations is a decease of blindness. It is not so much that they are out to get you as much as they have become familiar to how many ways they are that you are destructive to yourself.
Our Discussion leads us to investigate the task, a tool of Association
something that has to be worked out, they work you out while they work out how their accention is going. If you know enough about what has been going on then you know enough to teach. Teaching requires a pupil, or more realistically someone who is either interested or needs something.
People see you mostly for the benefit that you offer them in the present, they may try to stretch your usefulness into the future . . . never underestimate a persons expectations of you. There is basically nothing that anyone does during the day better than miscomunicate. Unless it can directly be applied to the principles of sovereignty consider it useless.
Scheduling, always over schedule, and then call and cancel if you feel that what you have written down is no longer an opportunity. The idea is to get a grasp on the really good opportunities and extend them for all they are worth while maintaining your options.
Social antiquity, since time began we humans have mismanaged it. We treat our lives as something that we get to keep.
Tactics We Practice
Tactic 1 The Discounting Principle: taken form modern psychology, the principle that when there is a plausible explanation for an action, people discount (give less weight, or substance to) other explanations. This aspect of living can be used like a tool by getting others to give less weight or substance to (other people, other ideas) and focus on your agenda. Much of life is guesswork, one thing that people try to do is get answers (concrete evidence). Skillful phraseology counts for everything, and will create a real feeling of need for you in the conversation. By then following the persons feelings you can control the conversation without appearing to. When you tell people what they want to hear you are at the same time shadowing or camouflaging what is in your head, therefore because it isnt in the open and visible it cannot be rejected. Bluntly stare them in the face and rephrase what they have just said to you
see page 18 affirmations
Tactic 2 Mirror Image: Copy your opponent exactly with body language, attitude, goal. It is a great way to implement all kinds of strategies and has so many different variations that make it almost limitless.
Tactic 3 Refusal: The refusal to partake in opponents, proposal. Opponent makes a statement it isnt a direct insult, it could be a loaded question, or a set up. Ignore the opponent and insist they play your game not visa versa. Many people successfully employ this tactic, but it sometimes can be viewed as weak. On a sovereignty basis this is an excellent tactic, surround yourself with people similar to yourself, and ignore others. Why try to change the world. Different views reflect different goals why should you entertain ideas that dont appeal to you. There is one downfall to this tactic and that is the loner syndrome, or hideout symptom. Over practicing of the refusal tactic leads to the acute angle, the narrow perspective and though strong in purpose effect, and usefulness it does not take advantage of who we all really are.
Tactic 4 Character Analysis: Explaining what the other persons feelings are. Maintaining contact and initiative until the expectations of your contract have been expound. This works amazingly well with people who are
Example: You were probably looking forward to going on vacation, but it is just horrible that you can't. (Youre going to have to work for me and make me money in stead of having fun or taking rest.)
Example: I know you love (Alice, Amanda, Susan) but she just isnt interested in you. Better to find someone else.(I want Alice get out of here you loser)
Example: I know you want to be (great, rich, the leader) but it is just too difficult.
Tactic 5 Attack Indirectly: attacking instead of your opponent give him a case of mistaken identity attacking what he associates himself with. A person, an idea, a vocation she is active in. When attacking a one legged woman attack not what your opponent values which may be strong and true but instead attack what they most resent about themselves (where they are least prepared). If you attack her lost leg you focus what she appreciates about herself, her strength as a cripple. Attack instead her remaining leg, without which she will fall. This will infuriated, your opponent removing her logical reasoning. Attack your opponent by not attacking them directly but instead their company, their bad habits, their looks, their poverty, their education, their leg.
Example: Why do you still have that xxxxxx leg.
Example: A young man is looking for a night out, maybe some conversation, and was invited to a birthday party, there are several other people. He obviously is intelligent because of some of the things you have heard him say. You could make an insult about intelligence if he were to cross you. I am sorry you wouldnt understand Its an intelligence test.
See flash card talisman
Tactic 6 The Advise Device: In a time of need ask advice from potential or actual opponents. When the time of trial has passed. Use the information of advice of the people you asked to refute or humiliate them.
Tactic 7 Sympathy: apologize prematurely, when ever you know that someone is right and you are working to inhibit their influence apologize prematurely. Cut them off. And do it visibly, around as many people as possible. Something as natural as perception to cut someone off everyone around interprets it your strength as a motive to become chief. Apologize bluntly and turn your head away. To the weak audience you are chief.
Tactic 8 Double Binder: setting up expectations but making no attempt to fulfill them; giving a rebuke instead of a reward. This tactic works well with someone who is already in an inferior position, low self esteem, or bad at fighting.
See Sudo-Accomidator Mask
Tactic 9 Mercenary Obligation: having more supporters, friends, than the enemy. The support your opponents seek can be eliminated by the sheer number of people whom owe you. Once executed your influence balloons from the influence of others. This strategy capitalizes on the fact that those around you depend on chance for opportunity and that people no matter how influential will take the responsibility for themselves and place it outside of themselves where they cannot see or utilize their position.
This particular skill has been used to tremendous success throughout History famous examples from History .. ..as well and without doubt your friends and neighbors are being subject to it now.
11. The Loaded Question: Ask a question that cannot be answered or the opponent has no defense.
12. The inverse: Most verbal attacks are based on a moral image, verbally they attack that image in place of a physical attack. There is more to gain in a verbal attack and with no bloodshed it is safer. Make a pre-calculated posture. All vested interests can be destroyed if need be. The verbal attack isnt really successful as measured in our ultimate goal (getting what we want it is either a hindrance or our goal)so why not carefully craft our havoc with a goal than to attack what your opponent values most. Notice that it isnt necessary to destroy but only successfully attack.
13. Protection: Springs is destroying your friends fears. Anything that they come up with that may be potentially harmful to themselves. This strategy can be implemented while listening to others inside your mind. Recognize that in some things you are not alone. The good of the one also usually equates to the good of the many. If you consider one of your friends to part of your army, providing for you protect them and it will bring comfort and enhance the relationship. Even enhance talents or income potential.
14. Investigation: Humans simply dont know all of the perimeters surrounding any particular decision. Dont employ this one yourself. But do employ an investigator, someone who can answer the questions you have about details involving other methods. You your other skill to acquire an adequate amount of this tactic.
15. The Esteem Builder: First time play innocent, second time divulge the truth and admit to everything under the sun. The only way your opponent can nourish their self esteem is to be merciful. Remember that a self confession is much easier to swallow that an accusation.
Tactic #16 Criticize the Clouds: Always allow your opponent to be right the more forceful he becomes allow him to be that much right. Execute a point, during your opponents forcefulness he will forget his objective. And while you can effortlessly admit to everything under the sun you can also come up with something reflective enough to further your view or plan. Play him for the idiot he is. Be wrong and confess as much as many times as. It is far easier to listen to self criticism than to listen to anothers condemnation.
Tactic #17 Reenact the search: All humans have a gushing hunger, weather it be productive or not. They soon forget. Reenact the search. Find what an individual will remember most about the day and see if your resources match. We come on so strong that we fail to realize that. In part this strategy is barter with someones emotions. If someone particularly hates
Tactic #18 Reflective Imaging: Explain your feelings to validate another. Estimate what another persons feelings may be. This technique is especially effective when your opponent is doubtful, pensive, or skeptical. By validating their feelings and presenting them as your own. You open the relationship with your opponent so that the relationship may move on. In effect they can see their own reflection in you and are more comfortable around you and more open to your ideas. More ready to accept a view or listen to you further.
Tactic #19 Convict and Release: In order to test a persons personal conviction drop something out of the blue. People have a certain harmony about themselves they also in their subconscious minds esteem themselves, by maintaining fairness in their dealings with people. they are methodical creatures. Slow to change themes slow to get to their feet. Call them up and ask a question out of the blue, surprize them.
Reaffirm the Insult:
Bribe: 1.Something, such as money or a favor, offered or given to a person in a position of trust to influence that person's views or conduct. 2. Something serving to influence or persuade.
While dinning out in a fancy restaurant what are you doing when you tip the waiter or waitress? Paying their electric bill? No you are attempting to persuade better service, perhaps more food, or courtesy. Does it make an academic difference that you are doing this in conjunction with the public at large, absolutely not. That was the purpose of its invention.
Challenge: Apply for a loan, or credit card, include in your application a large bribe. See what happens.
The Dirt:
Blackmail: I dont mean extortion to gain in money, but a different kind of blackmail the legal type of blackmail.
Disguise: Completely disguise your intent as something else.
Effective Statements:
The most important tool to maintain for powerful enduring statements is yourself. It is when our concentration on our own reliability is broken that we become weak and exposed to others. Hear what another person is saying but dont let the information sink all the way in take all information at face value. Increase the value of what another person says by using the above techniques. After the all important time has elapsed. Remember that people are simple reflections of yourself.
Common sense for those beginning, the physical world has obvious limitations; and to address them one cannot simply adapt a different perspective or manipulate them. For individuals who are just getting started there are several common sense approaches. But first what are phyiscal limitations that poses hinderence. First language, it does you absolutely no good to attempt self mastery if those around you have mastered adapt communication. During any tatic or mask you must know what was just said, and you must know it better than your opponent.
Secondly geography, it will be impossible to gain a powerful edge without making a concerted effort at understanding geography, especially the city you dwell. You must know where individuals are going (in a general sense), what is there and why. Geography is the place where all minds dwell, both strong and weak. As well you should know your city or area better than your opponent. Geography has always been a military tool and there is reason, feelings manifest as a component of geography.
Pop Culture, you must know what is new and happening.
Best Selling Lists for 1996
1 The Clestine Prophecy
2. When Elephants Weep by Jeffery Moussaieff Masson; about the Emotional Lives of animals
3. Care of the Soul by Thomas Morre Daily Spirituality
4. The Road Less Traveled by M. Scott Peck - Inspiration
5. Spontaneous Healing by Andrew Weil; how the body heals it's self
Best Selling Books for 1994
1. Soul Mates by Thomas Moore - a psychotherapist discusses love and relationships.
2. Man are from mars, Women are from venus- by John Gray- Communicating
3. Embraced by the Light - by Betty J Eadie with Curtis Taylor; a women's near death experience.
Best Selling Books for 1992
1. Life's Little Instruction Book by H. Jackson Brown Jr.; some 500 hundred tips for achieving a self fulfilling life.
2. A return to Love- by Marianne Willamson- Inspirational
3. You Just don't Understand by Deboeah Tannen; Advice to replace feelings of fear with feelings of love, in daily life.
Best Selling list for 1989
1. All I really Needed to know I learned in Kindergarten by Robert Fulghum.
2. Peace Love and Healing by Bernie A. Siegel- a phyicicans counsel about healing
3. The Temple of my Familiar- by Alice Walker
Best Selling Lists for 1988
1. You can heal Your life by Louise L. Hay
2. Necessary Losses by Judith Viorst life as a series of losses
3. The Bridge across Forever by Richard Bach a search for true love.
4. Felling Good by David Burns a physicians treatment for depression with out the use of drugs.
5. Women who love too Much.
Best Selling List for 1987
1. Bus 9 to Paradise by Leo Buscaglia
2. Book of Questions by Gregory Stock provocative an challenging questions to ask yourself in order to learn more about yourself.
1. You Can Negotiate Anything by Herb Cohen way to avoid conflict and get what you want. sound available.
Best selling list for 1979
1. Aunt Erma's Cope Book by Erma BomBeck