Swimming
Reading
Doing new things
Attending Live Theatre
Movies - mystery, comedy, romance, historical
Travel
Work
Politics
Christianity
I enjoy growing roses and other beautiful flowers but it is not my life
Some people might ask me to define my philosophy. That is so hard to do for someone like myself who for years buried any true feelings about likes and dislikes and about my emotions. I guess my birth family was not very emotional. I am thus going to try to rectify all that by expressing some feelings about my interests listed here.
I think the first thing to realize is that I have always tended towards religion. I taught Sunday School, was on a Chruch building committee and official board before I was out of secondary school. In the first church I was a member of after marrying, I served as a deacon and Chair of the CE Committee. When my oldest boy was 12, his Sunday School teacher asked us not to bring our son back to Sunday School. That was a turning point for me. For a year I did not attend a Church but I needed a local congregation to connect with and so started attending the Missionary Church, a bible-believing but tiny denomination.
The denomination does not matter - what I learned in the subsequent 19 years is that there are two types of Christians - those who believe in judgement and are willing to condemn both the sin and the sinner, and those who believe in love no matter the appropriateness. It is not for us to judge. Only God is our judge! I believe in a righteous and loving God who will love me particularly if I confess to Him my sins, but He holds me accountable. Just as He will condemn those who like the Pharisees, live by a bunch of rules and fail to display the Love of God. I am not condemming those who behave that way but there are days when I feel that those who live rigif lives like that create more problems for the Church than they help win souls.
It is my firmly held belief that our strength as Christians is in numbers and support. I have belonged to a men's prayer and study group (two in my present church and one while I lived in the U.S.). Whether those have been connected with Promise Keepers does not matter. What does matter is that men ought to be helping each other by being caring and loving and supportive in the struggles we face as men in the workplace and in family life. I recently learned the hard way how a man who lied could hurt my career and how being truthful can be harmful to career but with prayer, I have been able to avoid retaliation and I admit it took prayer to stop me from wanting blood.
My other interests are more self-explanatory. I have to say that I enjoy some physical, some non-physical activity but I have a need (and I have only recently recognized it) to be doing things all the time. I realize that some people can sit and contemplate. For me there is nothing I hate worse than to sit and contemplate - I contemplate when driving, or as I drift off to sleep BUT I prefer to have a computer, a book, or the TV going if I am going to sit down and get the weight off my feet. Mind you, a lively discussion of politics fits the bill but going over what others have said just does not cut it with me.