It's never ugly to take what is rightfully yours.

Dare to take a big piece of life's big choclatecake and just stuff it in. Either it's about going away on that dreamtrip, applying for that beauty-contest, go for that dreamjob you wanted, sing karaoke infront of 5000 people - take a big chunk. Maybe you will get nasty comments from jelous people around you. So what? It can't hurt you. It may hurt your feelings, but it can't hurt you. If you still belive that - read bitch rule #1 over and over and over again.......