In Memoriam

Sgt. Richard James Asten
1951-1998

The family of Sgt. Asten would like to extend their deepest gratitude to members of the Kansas City, Kansas Police Department for the assistance they have provided the family in this difficult time. There are no words to express how much your help is appreciated. -Hope Asten



On June 11th, 1998, tragedy struck for the Asten family and the Kansas City, Kansas Police Department. Sgt. Richard (Rick) Asten was preparing to throw out stop-sticks to end the pursuit of a stolen Blazer when the suspect driving intentionally swerved and hit Sgt. Asten, killing him. He lost his life just doing his job.

On June 16th, I attended the funeral for Sgt. Asten at the Trinity United Methodist Church in Kansas City, Kansas. I am not a member of any law enforcement agency, rather, I just wanted to stand up and show my support. There were about 1,000 members of surrounding departments, some from as far away as Omaha, standing as brothers and sisters to honor one of their own. The pain was real, but so was the strength.

At the conclusion of the church service, officers formed two columns down the driveway, stood at attention, and saluted as the hearse and family limousines passed. The procession to the cemetery was long. As I was driving in it, I can only guess that it was at least two miles in length. Maybe more. As I drove down the road, I was struck by the numbers of people lining the streets to pay their respects. One couple was holding a large American flag up for all to see.

The interrment occurred at the Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens. As I walked down the path through the cool shade of the giant oaks lining the road, I became aware of the beauty of the area. A small lake reflected the afternoon sun while cicadas squealed, bees buzzed, and dragonflies hovered around those assembled at the graveside. An Honor Guard stood at attention as the casket was escorted to the site. As the bagpiper played, the flag draping the casket was removed, folded, and presented to Margie Asten, Rick Asten's wife. A 21 gun salute shattered the quiet surroundings as the piper played Amazing Grace and four police helicopters flew overhead. Then, just as quickly and quietly as it started, it was over.

Unfortunately, there was another tragedy that day. Sgt. David Slade of the Leawood, Kansas Police Department passed away. Sgt Slade was at Trinity United Methodist Church helping to prepare for the funeral service when he had a heart attack. He was transported to a hospital where he later passed on. My deepest condolences go out to Sgt. Slade's family. As far as I am concerned, Sgt. Slade died in the line of duty, and will be placed on my memorial page.

If you have a comment or story you would like to tell about Sgt. Aston or Sgt. Slade, please send me e-mail and I will post it here.

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