I am sure some of you have seen my old " what I have to say" link . This is about the same thing you are gonna read again but in a lil different version, just simply because I lost that file .:) so some of you may already know what this is gonna be about and I hope that will not drive you away from finish reading after have a lil quick glance " ouch, so long this page is!" hehe BUT keep reading, well, if u can and hope u wont fall asleep from this! hehe.. okie, switching to my serious face, if u can picture me, that is :P! as you all know, Lady Di has passed away not so long ago in a very tragic accident and we all mourned for her. No, this is not a link dedicated to Lady Di, as much as I like her, I am not so big of a fan for all those big name celebrities, yes, no matter how great they are. They do not have any impact on my daily life as much as all my loved ones, friends and families do. Let me see if I can still keep u reading this if u aint already bored heehe, well my point here is...like Princess Di, we will die one day and leave each other behind. That is one painful truth we all try to avoid and even to think, but we all know we can not avoid happening to all of us one day.
what I am trying to say here is, when it finally happens, no Elton John will be singing at our funerals and no whole world will be in grief . But keep in mind that all your friends and families will . Life is short and we all do not have any clue when we will leave this world. Knowing this life has no meaning and is a "never ending vicious circle," to make it blissful with love and happiness is upto us, and you and me. Would you rather say in regret that you did not have a chance to spend time with the person who do not exist anymore and that you did not have the chance to let that person know how much you liked/loved/respected that person only when it is too late? We all do not have to be famous like Di to be loved and respected and to be known that we are loved, don't you agree? Yes, even well known and well much loved person like royalty Lady Di disappeared from this earth, not to mention Buddha, we all will too eventually.
People are mistaking showing appreciation toward somebody as being soft and vulnerable to be taken advantage of. I am not saying you should be walking around telling everybody how much you like everybody and how much you love and respect everybody. It is not so bad a thing to do, but let us just all be realistic, we can not like, love and respect just anybody. I do not see how letting somebody know how much he/she is appreciated will hurt the other party. Yet, somebody might argue that sometimes it is good not to know and let know and not to talk about it, but my opinion is why swallow it and keep it to yourself? No matter how we argue, I believe we all agree that love and respect can actually bring joy to your heart and soul. Is it worth it? Absolutely! Nothing is more valuable than having a healthy heart and a happy soul! think of it, u too like to be appreciated, rite?
Life is short! There will not be so many people you will be meeting and have met that you really like and love and respect as you live your life. Why pass the chance and be silent about how you feel? You can have friends all over the world but good friends , best friends that you love to be with, to spend time with, to talk with are rare to come by. Poverty and wealth, we can work our whole life to make it better, but if you do not have ur loved ones around u, life will be a lot more meaninglessly MeaningLess no matter how rich or poor you are, how beautiful and famous u r. Oh, of cos, we owe our lives to mommy and daddy! Remember they do not get to live forever unfortunately enough even though they are heros to alot of us sons and daughters! and have we shown them our appreciation lately? have we remembered to say " hey, mom and dad, I love u " lately? have we said a word of " thanks mom and dad!" lately?? THAT, my dear, u should not forget AT ALL.. :) And yes, all of us do not live forever to wait around to be told how much we are liked, loved and respected.
Grab the chance while you live to enjoy ur life to the fullest with ur loved ones. We all have a chance to make it filled with happiness and love, so why don't we grab the chance and make our lives better while we can with love and appreciation?? oh yeah, hey, btw, I do like you and respect you as much as you do! @|@ so there, peace? hehe so here is one last line from me => " dont let your love pass you by!" and no, it aint b.s!
k, one last word and I promise I will stop :P! We only live once and there are only so many we all can love this life, and if u think of it carefully, u will see wut I am saying here! :)
and here's a good Story and something really cute to print out and read. Enjoy!