The Art of Picking Up Women

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Picking up women is an Art and learning to do it successfully takes lots
of practice. Here are a few HOT TIPS to empower you and make you more
effective. Use these tips to pick up women more easily and have more fun
doing it. Please be sure to bookmark this site and return to it because
I will be writing new articles and adding new photos of women to The
Picture Gallery from time to time.

Sometimes knowing what NOT TO DO or NOT TO SAY when picking up a woman
is even more important than knowing what you should be doing or saying
to get the results you desire. You have approximately The First Three
Minutes (my previous Hot Tips! article) to make a positive impression on
a woman when you first meet her. Picking her up successfully depends on
what you do and say during those first few minutes. It's like stepping
into the batters box in a game of baseball. It takes guts and know-how
to hit a home run. Some guys barely even get the bat off their shoulder
before they strike out (much less get to first base) because they
unwittingly make some fatal mistake when trying to pick up a woman they
find attractive. Here are some tips that will tell you what mistakes to
avoid so you can be more effective whenever you step up to the plate.

	Don't stare at a woman's breasts, especially when you're talking to her. Talk to a woman from the neck up. Maintain eye contact with her at all times. Of course, if you're a guy, you're going to love looking at a woman's breasts, especially if she is wearing a V-neck sweater with a push-up bra. Just don't let her catch you doing it.
	Don't use any of the following pick-up lines:

What's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this?
Do you come here often?
Do you want to have my baby?
What a pretty dress you're wearing; I bet it would look even better on
my bedroom floor.

	Don't call a woman sweetheart, baby, honey, babe, or any other familiar or endearing name until after you have established an intimate relationship with her. The only thing you should call her is her own name.
	Don't give her a limp fish handshake. When you first meet a woman you should introduce yourself and shake hands with her. When you shake hands, grip her hand firmly but not too hard.
	Don't have bad breath, body odor, or long hairs growing out of your nose or ears. Be well groomed.
	Don't swear or curse or use any four-letter words until you know it's safe to do so. You'll know it's safe to use foul-mouthed language if she starts talking that way around you.
	Don't belch or fart in public. Show your best manners at all times.
	Don't mumble or speak too softly. These are sure signs that you lack self-confidence and self-esteem.
	Don't look at other women while you're with the woman you're picking up. Give the woman you're with your undivided attention. Again, maintain eye contact with her at a all times.
	Don't talk about other women or old girlfriends when you're picking up a woman. Talk about and find out about the most important woman in the world � the one you happen to be with at the moment.
	Don't talk about her body parts when you first meet her. This is a good thing to talk about later, as a prelude to getting her into bed, when you want to let her know that you are a sexual person and that you think of her as a sexy woman. But it's not for first time meetings and casual conversations.
	Don't interrupt her or hog the conversation. Practice your listening skills.
	Don't criticize her or call attention to her weaknesses or shortcomings. Point out her strong points, build her up, make her feel wonderful about herself.
	Don't drink too much. Women detest drunks. It also shows disrespect for her and implies that you're trying to get her drunk too so you can get her into bed more easily.
	Don't be too macho, or talk about sports too much, or be too focused on traditional male perspectives.
	Don't spend a lot of money on a woman on the first date. She will feel that you are trying to buy her or make her feel obligated to you to 'put out' as soon as possible.
	Don't come on to a woman too strong or too fast; in other words, don't be too sexually aggressive. Women complain universally about this one. Wait at least until the second date before you make your move.
	Don't brag and don't talk about yourself too much. Don't let her know all about your achievements and how great and successful you are during your first meeting. Let her know a little about your successes, but always steer the conversation away from yourself and back to her --her likes, her desires, her challenges, her needs.
	Don't be too serious. Loosen up, have fun, and be funny whenever possible.
	Don't be condescending, conceited, or a know it all. Respect women and their opinions.
	Don't beat around the bush or try and trick her into giving you her phone number. Ask her for phone number squarely and without hesitation when you know you're about to part company.

Knowing what not to do and not to say will increase your chances of getting on base or hitting a home run.

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