6. DOCUMENT ALL OF YOUR SOURCES WHEREVER POSSIBLE.
Give credit to where credit is due. You have nothing to gain by
trying to pretend that you wrote Gerald Gardner's books. Keep
yourself honest and avoid the ego-inflation that comes with
plagiarism. Given time, and effort, you will develop your own rites.
When you do, you don't want to dilute the meaningfulness of the
moment by that nagging little voice that reminds you that you didn't
really do it. Respect your creativity, maintain personal integrity,
and let things develop naturally. You'll be glad you did.
7. REMEMBER THAT DEGREES REFER TO EXPERIENCE, NOT RANK.
Too many readers of books assume that the various degree systems
refer to the rank and level of power of an individual, and so they
strive to get to the top of the ladder as fast as possible. Don't.
The degrees are a system of landmarks to allow us all to identify
those who have undergone similar experiences. When you are working
alone, there's little to be gained by initiating yourself into the
third degree, assuming the title of elder, or even calling yourself a
Witch queen or magus. These things all have very real meanings, and
claiming what is not rightfully yours is the surest way to bar your
ever attaining it for real. Take your time. Learn all you can, and
work with the gods and mighty ones.
8. ONE BIG ADVANTAGE YOU HAVE AS A SOLITARY PRACTITIONER IS THE LACK
OF POLITICS AND DISAGREEMENT.
You decide what to do and just do it. This is impossible in group
situations where you must deliver cues, explain what you are doing,
and accommodate multiple interpretations and viewpoints. As a
solitary you know exactly what you are attempting to do, how you want
to do it, and you are free to do whatever you will -- it's just you
and the gods.
9. SOLITARY WORK IS IDEAL FOR SELF-TRANSFORMATION AND HEALING.
You can focus on building up your self esteem, creating new habits,
and modifying your lifestyle to suit your spiritual outlook. As a
solitary practitioner, you can build your sabbat and esbat rituals
around your goals and needs in ways that a group could never do. As
you progress, as healing occurs, as changes take place, you will find
your practice likewise changing. Consider this a form of sympathetic
magic. As you become more fully integrated and whole, your rituals
will become more balanced and holistic as well. The Craft is a
healing path, so why not approach it as such?
10. WE ALL LEARN AT DIFFERENT RATES AND IN DIFFERENT STYLES.
Working alone makes it possible to modify everything to suit your
schedule, circumstances, and requirements. Creativity and sincerity
can guide you in making your Craft practice a viable and vital part
of your life. No matter what disabilities, hindrances, or
restrictions you may have in your life, you can practice Wicca -- if
you truly, honestly desire to do so.
11. BE YOURSELF.
Don't try to be something you're not. Remember the words of the
Charge Of The Goddess, "...if you do not find it within you, you
shall never find it at all." The established traditions --
Gardnerians, Alexandrians, Algards, Sheba, Georgian, and so on --
have specific rites they have developed. Established traditions have
structures, essential teachings, practices, customs, and shared
history that provides a collective context that cannot be accessed by
the power of your will, no matter how hard you try. You can access
many of the same truths, learn the same secrets, celebrate the same
rituals, and experience the same mysteries, but you cannot initiate
yourself as a Gardnerian or Mason. Think about it. Why on earth waste
your time trying to be something you're not? There's precious little
room on the path to spiritual development for self-deceit. Those who
truly are drawn to the Craft value honesty. It is absolutely required
of you if you have any spiritual aspirations whatsoever.
You can lie to yourself, but you'll never fool the Gods.
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