Sex

On this night of sacred time,

look in the mist to find the sign.

You will know when he comes for you,

lite a fire to guide him through.

When you see his shadow and he pulls you near,

thank the Goddess and have no fear.

Offer yourself in full desire,

let your body feel the fire.

Lie down for him in offering you wait,

for him to take you as his mate.

As he takes you feel the power,

open yourself as the Lotus flower.

Taste his skin, and touch him there,

please him long and with great care.

For on this night you sew the seed,

to make this bond that you both need.

As you lay there two as one,

say these words when you are done.

" North, South, East, West "

Mother great Goddess hear my quest.

As we have joined on your sacred ground,

let are spirits be one and with magic be bound.

We shared this connection with exchange of seed,

let our souls now be filled with each others need.

For on this night we shared our power,

in your light as the Lotus flower.

The Magic in Sex

There is so much magic in the act of sex, bursting with energy waiting to be drawn on, acted on, and held magical. In our world we live in today the subject is still even among Witches almost taboo. We are taught early on to ignore such things as sexual feelings that are outside of normal married life. What I am talking about here is pure magic, pure power, pure energy in a true form.

Have you ever seen someone that you felt a pull to? Maybe it was just in passing, or maybe it is someone you know also on a magical path. You feel pulled to this person, not on a love forever or marriage level, but a different level, a magical level. When two people that are on magical paths meet there is a level of energy there, a yearning to connect energies. One the oldest and most sacred ways of doing this is through a sexual ritual.

The coming together of two ( or more ) magical people bringing their energy together for a magical bonding and purpose. It could be to raise power for a certain purpose, or it could be to make a magical exchange of energies, a magical connection that can not be broken. There are many ways in which to do this. Here are some links to start with, go through them, and then if you wish go to my next page.

When something stirs deep inside you, a yearning for desire. To be at one with someone out there, someone who you feel will get it right. Take your passion turn it round, turn it into something found, take you darkness, take your light, show them how to feel the night. Taste their juices magical taste, taste their fear and taste their fright. Take their soul and make it yours, let me share with you tonight, this magic burning deep inside, this feeling of desire, let me show you mine tonight, on this journey of delight.

Chant the invocation of your chosen God. Close your eyes, and while your partner begins touching you, imagine the Diety caressing you, stimulating you, and eventualy making love to you. Feel and sense the Dieties energy course through you with his touch, and kiss. Accept this energy as the Great gift it is.

When you have reached your peak level of excitiment, join with your partner. As he/she enters you feel and sense the Dieties energy plunging into you with each thrust of the Gods penis. Contemplate this incredible gift, feel the energy enter you, as if it is focused in the Dieties genitals. Absorb all the energy being give you as the great gift it is.

Simply absorb the energy until you explode, both with orgasm and conciousness. In some cases this will allow the Witch to reach the state known as the Divine or Nirvana. Focus the energy you are recieving and channel it out through you, visualize it leaving you in healing energy, protective energy, etc., send it toward the goal decided on before the ritual.

Thank the Diety, and your partner. Close the Circle.

Solitary Sex Magick

I have combined Sex Magick and Candle Magick in this form of Solitary Sex Magick for those of you giggling at the Solitary part yes that means masturbation and yes its just as effective.

Use your fingers to trace the various letters of the alphabet across the clitoris. This is an excellent technique to determine the precise strokes that send you into orbit. For some women, W may be the perfect letter, for others, a straight L will do the trick.

Fingering Your Vagina

Using your fingers to masturbate yourself or your partner can be a wonderful experience, if you do it right. Simply thrusting your fingers into and out of a vagina looks like fun if you're watching a porno movie, but is unlikey to produce any real pleasure for the woman. We've outlined several useful techniques below.

The first thing to remember is to keep the vagina properly lubricated. Even if you're using some sort of lubricant on the area, it's best to start slow and let her natural lubricating juices develop. Light clitoral stimulation along with some sexy talk or fantasy foreplay will usually get the job done.

You can do a wonderful job stimulating the clitoris with your fingers. Use one or two fingers to stroke the clitoris from bottom to top in each direction. You'll feel the little nub get harder and harder as you go. Most women can achieve orgasm using this simple technique alone.

Add a little fun by inserting one or two fingers into the vagina. Again, start slowy and rather than thrusting your fingers in and out, use a "come here" motion. You're likely to hit the g-spot and the clitoris over and over doing this and may very well send yourself into a screaming orgasm as a result.

G-Spot Stimulation

Often described as the female equivilent of the male prostate, the g-spot (Grafenberg Spot) is a small mass of tissue about the size of a small pea that is located approximately two inches from the opening of the vagina. Though it's exact position varies from woman to woman, it has been shown that all women have a g-spot, although not all women experience pleasure when it is stimulated. In fact, in some women, direct stimulation of the g-spot causes the urge to urinate. For those who find pleasure in g-spot stimulation (the majority of women), it can be the cause of intensely pleasurable orgasms. To locate your g-spot, try lying on your stomach with your hips pointed up in the air. Slowly guide one or two fingers inside the vagina and begin to explore the vaginal walls by pressing down lightly with your fingertips. When you locate the small bump, lightly stroke it over and over with your fingertips. Don't be surprised if you ejaculate a little clear fluid during orgasm - this is normal as g-spot stimulation has been directly linked to female ejaculation.

Basic tools needed

3 candles (color corresponding to need.) the candles should be new and have not been used in any other rituals. if you wish you can use scented oils on the candles, I personally do not. you will also need incense and of course yourself.

to begin prepare as you would for any ritual: setting up your altar, casting a circle if you do so, meditation, and so on. I begin with taking a ritual bath, I light Jasmine incense (Jasmine only because I like the scent you can use any type that has a calming effect on you). while bathing it is very important to visualize your need and to concentrate on it, see it in your mind as already being achieved. whether it be for money or health see it as a finished task in your mind. if you are working as a couple you can take the bath together, or take seperate baths but both of you must still visualize your needs (and keep in mind not to begin the sex yet

I will start with the solitary ritual first, after taking the ritual bath proceed to your ritual room and place your candles on your altar. take each candle seperately in your talented hand and again visualize your need allowing your energy to flow into each candle. It can be helpful to visualize a flow of energy in your mind going into each candle. after all the candles have been charged place them on the altar, distribution does not matter. at this point you can pray to the God and Goddess and ask them to guide your spell. as you light each candle see in your mind your need, see it coming to you as the flame grows and becomes strong. after all the candles are lit sit or lay on the floor whichever way is more comfortable.

now heres the tricky part, talking about masturbation is always going to bring someone to giggle. but here is it a serious magickal tool not to be used lightly. to begin the "Sex" part of the ritual use whatever method of masturbation you like, this is not the time or place for sexual hang-ups. do whatever you like.

while in the process of masturbating it is vital that you visualize your need in your mind, as the intensity of the feeling grows see your need moving closer to you and closer to fulfullment.

also I recommend that you NOT rush this, if your prone to masturbate quickly you must supress the urge and try to "hold back". the longer you can hold off the orgasm the more energy you build. as you continue sense the energy build up within you, focus or visualize it being directed toward your goal or need. as orgasm approaches, feel the energy in your body about to explode. hold that feeling as long as you can and when it becomes uncontainable release it. as you orgasm , in your mind see the energy leaving your body and moving into the universe, feel the flow of energy making your goal happen. sense the energy working all around you. after orgasm, I recommend that you lay back and with your eyes closed continue to visualize your need or goal being achieved, then after you have "recovered" ground excess energy. thank the Lord and Lady for their presence and do your usual closing of the ritual and clean up.

The Ritual Bath

Is one of the most intimate parts of the process of Magickal Sex. The bath should be hot and scented with bath salts of your choosing. This bath is not necessarily to purify you or your partner but rather to gently cleanse and relax. For this purpose, good choices for salts are, lavender, strawberry, lotus, jasmine, amber, patchouli and/or rose. Your tastes will vary, try whatever you like. If enhancements are to be used, take them now. Light candles and incense before getting into the tub, light the incense about five minutes before getting in so that it's scent will fill the room before you come in. Turn on music of your choice, as we said, relaxation tapes, nature sounds tapes, anything soft and soothing. But NOT the radio. Use a tape or a CD of your choice, the DJ's voice can get annoying not to mention the commercials!

Let's get this out of the way now before we go any further...the actual act of intercourse and sexual acts do not take place before the appropriate time! There is no sex in the bath tub!

If you're flying solo, immerse yourself in the water, allow it float over you and completely envelope you. Wash your entire body starting with the head and working your way steadily to your feet, with long slow strokes of the sponge or cloth. Stay in the water as long as you like and just sit back and relax. For those of you with a partner you will wash EACH OTHER beginning with the head and working steadily and slowly down to the toes. You will wash each and every body part but you will not do so in a sexual manner. Light touches in non-erogenous zones, soft words, cuddles and light kisses are always appropriate. The purpose of this exercise is to begin to reconnect with each other (that goes for magickal sex and ritual sex...never perform ritual sex with someone you are unfamiliar with) on an emotional and physical level. To become reacquainted with each others bodies, to find out what touches the other likes and which they do not. Stay in the water as long as you like, do not rush this or any other aspect of this activity. You must relax and take your time in order to fully enjoy it. When you (or both of you) feel it is time to get out of the tub, do so. Dry yourself (with a parter dry each other) off with a large soft towel and proceed to the next area.

Now on to couples, most of the beginning of the ritual is the same as the solitary: taking the ritual bath, setting up your altar, casting the circle ect ect. after taking the ritual bath, I recommend drying each other off as this will help to heighten the mood and keep you from getting your carpet all wet {G}. proceed to your ritual room and both kneel in front of the altar. each taking one candle in their talented hand. close your eyes and visualize your need or goal. charge the candle as mentioned before, feeling the energy from your body entering the candle and place them back on the altar. the female should take the 3rd candle and hold it to her chest. she should see in her mind a light coming from her heart going into the candle, she should "feel" the light leaving her body and charging the candle with her love and energy. after the candle is charged the male takes the candle and places it to his chest and does the same, charging the candle as the female did. once the candle is fully charged it it placed in between the other 2.

the female begins by lighting her candle and then the male lights his, they each take their candles and together light the 3rd. this is a good time to make a prayer to the God and Goddess. once the candles are lit, lay back in a position that is most comfortable. I am not going to get into technique here as how your love making goes is your own business and it matters not "how" you do it. it is vital that while your ritual love making is going on that you keep your goal foremost in your mind, as the energy is growing in your bodies. you should concentrate (as much as possible) on your goal and seeing it come to fruition. as orgasm approaches, feel the energy inside your bodies growing until it feels as if its going to burst. hold that feeling as long as possible and when it becomes uncontainable, release it.

as you orgasm, in your mind see the energy leaving your bodies and entering the universe. feel the power flowing from you and see your goal or need being achieved. after orgasm, I recommend laying in each others arms and praying to the Lord and Lady, thanking them for their presence and guidence.

after your are both rested finish the ritual with your usual clean up, but allow the candles to continue to burn themselves out.

NOTE: you should try for simultaneous orgasm if possible, if this doesn't happen don't fret. if the male orgasms before the female, he should continue to stimulate the female until she orgasms. if the male goes flaccid he can stimualte the female either orally, manually or using any other methods the female enjoys.

Sex Magick,

Should be done only with someone you trust explicitly,

That is should only be practiced with someone you have worked magick with before and know their energies,You should make sure the person your doing sex magic with knows your doing sex magick,

Not just thinking they are having sex