Everyone has that
one special friend that he or she would be willing to do almost anything
for. Fred had Barney,Yogi had Boo Boo, and of course, Scooby had
Shaggy, the one person Scooby would give up a Scooby Snack for. Me?
I'm lucky enough to know Sam Baeza.
I first met Sam several
years ago while we were working together at the Holiday Inn. Never
in my life had I seen anyone quite like him. He's a fairly tall,
muscular man, with broad shoulders and coal black hair. Looking at
him, you can easily tell that he's Hispanic; Mexican to be specific.
In his coffee brown eyes lives a constant look of confusion. It's
never easy to tell what he's thinking about, but you know it's something.
And whatever it is, it must be something interesting enough to create that
thoughtful expression that's always on his face. It's almost as if
he's trying to solve a complicated Algebra equation in his mind.
It's often comical, how he's always deep in thought, with a far away look
in his eyes; almost like he's lost. It's obvious that the wheels
in his brain are perpetually turning, and one can't help but be intrigued.
The first thing that I noticed about his personality, was his incredible
sense of humor. He was always funny, even when he wasn't trying to
be. Since the day I met him, all I ever had to do was look at him,
and I'd just laugh. He seems to have that affect on a lot of people.
I do not know a single person who knows Sam and doesn't just love him to
death. He is the most loyal, sincere, and interesting person; the
rarest, yet most important qualities you'll ever find. I knew in
an instant that I was going to enjoy his company. And I was right.
We soon became good friends.
The better I got
to know Sam, the better I liked him. He's the type of person who
is loyal to his friends, and is treated loyally in return. And even
though his mannerisms are somewhat shy, Sam is no doubt one of the most
creative people I've known. Even his bedroom is a remarkable display
of his creativity. Graffiti covers one whole wall from top to bottom.
Every word written on it means something. As does every picture.
Anyone is welcome to contribute. Along another wall rests a large
glass tank containing the lizards. On his cluttered desk you would
find objects kept from meaningful past experiences, perhaps a photograph
or note. And the rest of the walls are covered in samples of Sam's
extraordinary artwork.
I quickly became
aware of the fact that Sam likes to have fun with all of his friends.
And boy did he like to party! So much, in fact, that he would typically
have small "social gatherings" at his house, while his parents, who were
none the wiser, were at work. It became clear that he was one of
those unique persons who could do anything he wanted to do, no matter what
the odds. He's the kind of person whom you look at and say, how does
he do it? For example, at one of these gatherings, someone suggested
the idea of a game of Quarters. Sam is never one to turn down a challenge,
so immediately he was in. Now if you are unfamiliar with the game
Quarters, the idea is to bounce a quarter off of the table and land it
inside of a shot glass, positioned in the center of the table. It's
basically a skill game, so if you don't have much skill, the game can quickly
become boring and extremely frustrating. As was the case that particular
night. No one could seem to win. I remember glancing around
the table and seeing the looks of anxiousness turn to disgust as every
attempt to pitch the quarter successfully into the wretched shot glass
failed. Finally, it was Sam's turn again. He snatched the quarter
off of the table and threw his arms up in the air declaring, "Okay, this
is it! It's all over now! I won!" And with that, he didn't
even hesitate as he carelessly chucked the coin onto the table. Everyone
around the table looked on in complete awe as the quarter clinked against
the rim of the glass, then fell directly inside. Sam just smiled
smugly as we all gasped incredulously, then burst into hysterical laughter.
Only Sam Baeza could have done it like that. I knew at that moment
that he had something rare and special about him: He could make things
happen.
That's just the type
of person he is. And I think that is why I'm so intrigued by him;
he's always against the odds. His ambition to accomplish a goal completely
overpowers anything that threatens to stop him. That's not to say
that he has always had things go his way. That is most definitely
the farthest from the truth. But still, he has always managed to
land on high ground. And because of that, I admire Sam more than
any other friend. There's just something respectable about someone
who gets a lot of bad breaks, but still maintains his dignity, rather than
complain and feel sorry for himself. I think that in that way, Sam
is a much stronger person. And by being his friend and learning from
him, I believe that I am a stronger person as well.
Take this past year,
for example. The year of 1999 was supposed to be the greatest year
of our lives; We were seniors in highschool, our class was set to graduate
as the last class of not only the century, but of the millenium as well,
senior trips were planned among friends, vacations were set for summer,
and our school's graduating athletes were preparing for their final seasons.
I knew how much Sam was looking forward to this year; everybody was.
But all of the joy of 1999 ended for Sam before it even started.
After realizing his talent for playing football, Sam joined the Highschool
football team and became a starting player. His time on the team
was short lived, however, as a serious knee injury requiring surgery kept
him off of the field for the remainder of the season. Not only was
football vetoed for Sam, but also his other sports, track, was also out
of the question. If that weren't enough, towards the end of our school
year, Sam was expelled from school and told that he couldn't graduate with
the rest of his class. All because of a pathetic misunderstanding!
And to top all of that off, Sam lost two of his grandparents shortly after
the graduation he was forbidden to attend.
I'm not quite sure
how Sam handled this so well. While his disbelief and disappointment
were apparent, he never once felt sorry for himself. Nor did he tolerate
anyone else feeling sorry for him. After all that he'd been through,
Sam managed to keep his dignity and grace. I look at him in complete
awe. Just by having him as my friend, I know that I would have that
same strength if ever I needed it. It is amazing how much I have
learned from Sam, by him simply being himself. I do know that having
Sam as my friend is like an adventure. Even after years of getting
to know him, I still never know what to expect. I always look at
him in wonder. I wonder, what is he thinking? I wonder how
does he do it? I wonder what will he do next? I don't know
the answers to any of those questions, but I can't wait to find out.
His friendship is one I wouldn't trade for anything in the world, not even
a Scooby Snack.
Krista Rae Deppeschmidt
1999