Torn Asunder an its operatives DOES NOT in any way endorse the use of ANY "mutual consent" registry other than the ISRR and FARR. There are already too many secrets and lies in adoption without adding to them. Adoption reunion should be left entirely in the hands of the individuals involved without the interference of middle men or registry owners. Far too many matches are going unrecognized and information is often time unobtainable from these registries. If you are serious about your search put your information on open registries where you and your birth family are free to call the shots.