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The "will" of a person is the most important thing that a person has. It determines the pain level of the person and the amount of emotional control of the person too. A person with a high emotional control has a high "will" level. That type of person will be able to withstand a lot more pain than a person that has low emotional control. This same person may have a low pain resistance, so the person will be able to deal with a verbal assault and not a physical one. A person with a high pain resistance and a low emotional control has the ability to handle a physical assault better than a verbal one.
Many people have emotional control, but cannot hold the emotions out of sight of the public. To shutdown the emotional levels will take a lot of "will power" to do so. A person that is able to do this will have the ability to withstand things like the death of a spouse, family member or a friend, better than a normal person. This type of person will also seem to be a "heartless" person in many people's eyes. If a person controls their emotions to a greater extent than what is necessary in life, the person will find that having a relationship will be unnecessary. So doing something like that too much can cause a person to not need the girlfriend/boyfriend option that every requires to continue to the next generation. The emotions of the person would be non-existent so the need for that type of relationship will become unnecessary. This can be a highly unhealthy thing to do.
The cause of most emotional breakdowns is due to the person having a low "will power". The "will power" to avoid emotional breakdowns will need to be really high. If the person resists from using emotions, all/most of the time, the person (in theory) will have very little emotional breakdowns (if any). This has advantages & disadvantages for every person that does something like this. An advantage is that for any given time there will be less stress & less stressful situations, so the person will not need to use any "stress leave" reasons for work. A disadvantage that appears many times is that the person's mental-state may collapse. If the person is not use to dong the emotional control, the person may not have the mental control to sustain the emotional block that he/she has been doing. This in-turn may cause the person to have an emotional break, which may be seen as a mental-breakdown by some people. This is not something to attempt as "something to try" because you may not be able to withstand the negative effects that this does.
The cause of a person's lack of "will power" is usually due to the lack of experience of control that the person has. If the person has the experience, the person will have the necessary "will power" to overcome most things. The problem is that to have the necessary experience you do need to practice doing things to limit your mind, however it is highly advised not to attempt the emotional control that is described above. There is a high chance that you will have great problems with it, and may not be able to recover from the negative effects/results from doing that type of emotional control.
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