* Understanding one's needs * Accepting one's flaws, all of them * Thinking of others before yourself sometimes * Being courteous enough to let them know you are okay * Accepting responsibility for your own actions rather then placing blame * Saying "sorry" when you really are * Knowing when the other needs your shoulder rather then your words * Forgiving * Showing you care a little more each day * Taking pride in the little things they do * Accepting their criticisms with open ears * Thinking in terms of 'us' and 'we' rather then 'I' or 'me' * Never being afraid to tell the truth * Never being afraid to hear the truth * Trusting your other when you are away * Knowing that the only reliable source is the person in question * Thinking before you speak * Wanting them for who they are, not who they could be * Being there for them when they need you, anytime they need you * Sharing each success together * Seeing when your other is hurt without a word * Offering a hand (both physically and figuratively) * Not being hurt if your offer of help is refused * Knowing when your other wants to be left alone * Knowing when your other should be left alone * Knowing when your other needs company * Honestly concerning yourself about how their day was * Keeping promises * Being together for the synergy of the relationship * Trusting them enough to know that if they need you they will get you * Laying all your cards out on the table * Knowing when to lose the argument and when to stand your ground * Benefit of the doubt * Not being afraid to cry * Being yourself * Doing things without having to be asked * Surprises * Romance * Compassion * Making love * Expressing one's love * Acceptance of one's love * For better or worse * Spending time together just to spend time * Knowing what you can change and accepting the rest * Counting your blessings * Do unto others as you would have them do unto you * Making each moment last * Treating each day as though it were it your last * Not being afraid to say "I love you" * Knowing that each fight should not be the end of the world * Accepting one's friends * Making space * Letting down your guard * Being willing to give freely * Sharing your dreams/fantasies * Being open to others fantasies/dreams even if they do not match your own * Being open to other's goals * Sharing all thing * Withholding judgement without all the facts * Knowing when to walk away rather then fighting * Turning the other cheek * No means no * Knowing when to be cautious and when to let loose * Whispering * Finding the good in any situation * Humor * Biting your tongue * Hoping for the best, expecting the worst * Knowing when/how to keep a secret * Seeing the inner beauty * Complimenting * Saying "Thank you" when you are embarrassed to accept a compliment * Letting them know you are thinking of them * Standing by their side * Being their equal/Letting them be your equal

* Embarrassing your other * Keeping secrets * Checking up on your other * Sarcasm in place of support * Needless criticism * Forgetfulness * Bring up past issues * Arguing for the sake of arguing * Taking out frustrations * Refusing to listen if what the other says does not match your ideas * Selfishness * Being together in the relationship for the needs/desires * Trying to change the other * Nit picking * Making you self feel better by making others feel worse * Ignoring what others have done for you * Letting your pride get in the way * One night stands * Doing unto others before they do unto you * Assuming that your other is lying to you * Assuming that your other is cheating on you * Criticizing one's flaws * Letting them needlessly worry * Blaming everyone but yourself * Never apologizing when your actions/words hurt * Only focusing on the big picture * Lying * Being hard to communicate with * Having a 'shell' or 'wall' * Believing the rumors without question * Blurting out what's on your mind without thinking of the other's feelings * Being distant * Keeping things bottled up * Not being receptive to non-verbal cues * Hanging on your other * Being clingy * Stinginess * Trying only tog et what you need * Not concerning yourself with their needs * Never admitting you are wrong * Fear of commitment * Fear of opening up * Being together just to not be alone * Cheating on your other * Revenge * Thinking about yourself ONLY * Being someone you are not * Being late without phoning * Greed * Laziness * F*****g * Sneaking around * Hiding your feelings * "The kiss of Death" * Applying undue pressure * Not making time for your other * Interfering * Prying * Nosiness * Snooping * Wasting resources (time, money, feelings) * Regrets * Behaving in such a way that each moment might be your last * Hate * Saying "I love you" just to get what you want * Confusing lust and love * Walking all over other peoples hearts * Only wanting to hear what others think about you * Not giving what you get * Planing for your own future without taking into account others * Hoarding knowledge * Interrupting * Mocking others * Name calling * Forcing thoughts or opinions * Bigotry * Favoritism * Bias * Prejudging * Exploitation * Ongoing recklessness * Physical or mental abuse * Looking for the bad in everything * Assuming * Letting you expectations get you down * Leading someone on * Tattle telling * Judging by looks (or other traits) * Not accepting/believing a compliment * Letting your tempter get the best of you * Yelling