Enough is enough. If you are depressed, at least stop for a moment or three to figure out why. Everyone gets depressed at one point or another in their lives...The same goes for being unhappy, cranky, angry, mean or whatever...so keep it in perspective. If you really dislike something in your life...change it.  And please do so in a constructive and adult manner. Don't hate others...that's not the point here...The point is the situtation or behavior or attitude. You can change it...in some way or fashion...You cannot change another person or the life they have chosen...but you can change you and your life. Control yourself...killing someone else or causing bodily harm is not the way to change something. Even rude remarks or verbal assaults are not right either. Quit trying to be someone you are not. If you don't like your job..get up off your tuffet and look for something else...even if it pays less.... If you are in a bad marriage...ask yourself why and work on it or if need be...get a divorce.  If you get a divorce, pay child support...even if it means you have to live on less...If you don't like kids don't have them.  There's no law that says you have to multiply.  Don't blame anyone else but yourself for your lifestyle and your choices. If your car payments are snowing you under... get rid of the car. Stop living beyond your means. If you have no life...stop and ask yourself...what's wrong with this picture? Do you really need others to tell you? You don't have to be rude. You don't have to be cruel. You don't have to yell and scream or throw your weight around. I am not impressed by those who think that they are above me and attempt to prove it at every turn. I am also not impressed by those who claim to be powerless to change anything in their lives. If you are an alcoholic...deal with it...No one forced you to pick up the can or bottle. If you have gambled away everything...deal with it. No one forced you to place that bet or drop that quarter into the slot. If you eat acid and snort cocaine...deal with it. No one forced you to do nose candy or eat a tab. If you get nailed for embezzlement...deal with it. No one forced you to slide those bucks into your hand. If you get caught sleeping around...deal with it. No one forced you to play rumpty bumpty with someone else. If you beat the wife or kids or... in this day and age...husbands, pets and the elderly...deal with it. No one forced you to lift that hand or  kick with your foot. If you are arrested for rape or murder or whatever after having done the crime...deal with it.  No one forced you to unzip your pants, pull that trigger, wield that knife or ball bat. Quit lying to yourself and deal with it. You did it and no one else. Accept the consequences and start yourself on a new path.  Get real...It's your life and your Karma. Quit feeling sorry for yourself.  Quit passing the blame and face the facts. You can do something. You can get a life. Do volunteer work. Read. Get a hobby. Turn off the TV. Commune with nature. Shovel snow. Whatever. Use your brain. Don't feel you have to buy everything under the sun. Figure it out...it's your life. Figure out who you are. Are you who you want to be or are you what someone else thinks you should be?