And the kinky sex is great, too!

Its true! The kinky sex IS great! If you're interested in learning more about various activities; some specifically related to D/s and BDSM, some not, I've compiled some resources that should be helpful. We're all learning new things all the time, that's what makes things stay fun!

Oral Sex: Deep Surrender

Fisting: Red Right

Anal Sex: Anal Sex

Enemas: alt.sex.enema FAQ

Caning: Guide To Sensuous Caning

Spanking: The Gentlemanly Art of Spanking the Woman You Love

Bondage: Shichise - The Art of Japanese Bondage

The list really is almost endless of things to do; nonphysical activities such as verbal humiliation, verbal punishments, standing in the corner, etc., can all be erotic to some people, when done the right way. The best advice I could give is to experiment, find out what "works" for you and your partner. And...as always...keep it SAFE, SANE, AND CONSENTUAL!