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Hello, have you ever heard the phrase "Life is what happens when you've made other plans..." It certainly describes my experience, at least up to this point. While my life is incredibly good right now, the process of getting here has been "incredibly rocky" more often than not. I find that the things that make me happy fall into two main categories: 1. Creating beautiful things, and making existing things beautiful; i.e, the process of creative design - solving challenging projects, with simple, elegant answers. I enjoy woodworking, classic autos, music, gardening, and fixing up my home and the surrounding land. Fortunately for me, my day-job in software fits this description too. 2. Sharing pleasurable activities with a beautiful woman who feels the same way I do. This includes dinners out, and quiet evenings in. Weekends working on my '63 classic car, and then driving it out into the country for a picnic and "gambol" in the woods ;-) I love the theater, movies, concerts, comedy clubs - whatever is fun for both of us. All of these activities surrounded by (and often interrupted by ;-) that magical force of intimacy, sparked by strong mutual attraction and fueled by a pair of active libidos. So here's what I've learned that I'd like to find in my perfect friend and lover. The following paragraph describes an "ideal", and is NOT intended to offend or exclude. I would be very surprised (and happy!) to find someone who meets all of these criteria 100%, but I'd be delighted to correspond with anyone who is similar to my dream. I'm fully aware that "chemistry" is the cumulative result of many intangible perceptions, and that it can't be predicted or quantified. We all know it when we feel it, but usually that only happens when we meet someone in person. So please, read this as the description of the dead-center bulls-eye on a fairly large target. If my web site intrigues you, and you're "on the target somewhere", don't be shy about writing back. I managed to get over my shyness in putting these pages up, and who knows? Something wonderful could happen ;-) My fantasy lover will be between 30 and 42 years old, 5'0" - 5'6", 90 - 125 lbs., and truly beautiful in her own special way. She *needs* physical intimacy as much as I do. (I'm not being redundant - just being clear and honest. Physical compatibility isn't the *only* thing you need in a good relationship, but for me it is one of the absolutely *necessary* ingredients.) She may be an artist, student, musician, writer, or a gardener, collector, whatever; but there is something in her life that she cares about deeply (in addition to her search for me ;-) She is strong, but gentle. Wise and accepting. Loving and funny... Sounds perfect, doesn't she? Well, I execute my designs in the real world, so I am aware that the women I meet (like my creations) may deviate from the "ideal specifications" - but I strive for beauty, and I can hope... I have no racial prejudices. I am attracted to women who are beautiful - inside and out. I'm open to the idea of meeting someone from another country, though it would be "easier" to find her close to home. I live near Seattle, Washington, USA, so maybe... Redmond? Oregon? Canada? Sweden? Virgin Islands? Philippines?, Thailand? Russia? I don't know where you are. I do know that the world is getting smaller, and if the right woman for me is out there - I will do whatever it takes to find her and bring her home. If that means travel and dealing with the INS - so be it. I will do whatever it takes. What about me? I'm in my 40's but look and act more like 30-something. Yes, some of it is undoubtedly immaturity ;-) but most of it is good genes and staying in good shape. I'm 6'0" (183 cm), 175 lbs. (79 kg), black hair, hazel eyes, and yes - handsome. I'll be happy to exchange pictures with you. My worst trait is that I work too many hours. I have a great job at a great company, but it is pretty demanding. I need a woman who can understand that the rewards of a great job sometimes demand a few extra hours. I don't smoke or gamble (just "gambol" ;-) I drink a little socially (wine), but never to excess. I'm financially secure, and becoming more so. I have a beautiful home - in the process of becoming more beautiful. It's quiet and private - nestled up against a greenbelt. It has a running brook behind it, and is just a short walk from a beautiful lake. It's a great place to meditate, as well as a great place to create. Interestingly, there is a Buddist temple very close by, which is a wonderful place to go and sit and think and talk to the people who worship there. I'd like a committed monogamous relationship, but I've learned that is something that grows over time, if the chemistry and emotions and people are right for each other. Trust is earned, not granted. Attraction is often immediate, but love must grow. I'm ready to enjoy the attraction, and nurture the love. Why should a pretty young thing choose an "older man" like me? Because I have a lot to offer. I'll thoroughly appreciate and value her, as well as adore and enjoy her. I'll do almost anything to please her, and I have substantial experience and not-inconsiderable skill at doing that. I can provide for her very well, though I am definitely not into "high-maintenance women". I am quite accepting of someone's past and background. I'm much more concerned with the person she is now, who she wants to become, and what of herself she wants to give and share; than with the situations life has thrown at her while she "made her other plans". I think I'd actually prefer someone who has seen some of the difficult experiences life can surprise you with, and has learned to appreciate the difference a good relationship with a strong, dependable, loving man can make. I can share the lessons I've learned, and be a gentle guide and mentor. I'll also be a student of the things she has to teach me. If some or all of this "rings true" with you, the first step is to write to me. I will respond to all serious letters. Please include a complete description. A picture would be much appreciated, and I'll include one of me when I reply. You'll never know what might have been, if you don't try to make it happen. That's what I'm doing with this ad - trying - striving - reaching for that perfect relationship with the perfect woman, for me. Thanks for reading this. I don't usually ramble on so long (unless I care strongly about the subject ;-) I'm looking forward to hearing from you! Safe Oasis | ||||||||||||||
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