some teens:DATING!!!
This is a picture of my girlfriend, Jenny, and myself.
We met at a local party on one cool winter Saturday night. Everything couldn't have been better. I was just sitting there and she happened ot have something I wanted. So I asked for it and she gave it to me. Then she wanted it back and I offered her a place on my lap. From then on, we have been going out. And we have never been happier. The night before that party, I went on a double-date that sucked. The girl that was my date was a total bizotch to me. She was all bossy and shit and she was pissing me off. So, I was told by a friend of mine to just wait for someone to come to me. And finially, it happened. Jenny and I have been going out for a week now, but are very happy with each other. I never though it would happen, but just when you leats expect it, it happens.
My advice to anyone who is single and looking for a girl or guy, just wait it out. That's really all you can do. Don't be pushy, or in a hurry. That's what a girl wants in a guy, and vice versa. Is someone who can take their time.
Look, I know
how hard it is to get that special someone. I went through it too many
times to count with one girl last sumer, and it was not fun at all. Having
my heart stomped on every time I turned around. Dating can be a real problem
to some people because they can't handle the stress and the pressure. Trust
me, I know. I know what it's like to have one girl totally destroy your
life. But meeting that special someone has to be a drawn out process. You
can't just say "I'm goin' cruisin' for chicks and I'm gonna get laid right
away cuz I'm such a STUD!!!" This kind of attitude will get you no where.
And this applies to girls too. Nobody's perfect. Just from looking at that
pic of Jen and I, I'm sure all of you can tell that we are not perfect,
but we make a happy couple.
Things can happen out of the ordinary when dating. Like on the first meet, the strangest stuff can happen. Like, just by chance, you can meet somebody that likes the same stuff you do, wears the same pattern clothes you where, just automatically clicks with you. Then, you can meet somebody that you have the totally different opinions about, but when that happens, you kinda know that it wasn't meant to be. I'm not saying all opposite-opinion realtionships don't work at all, but it may be a good idea to find somebody that clicks with you, like bread and butter. Jenny and I like the same bands, like partying, like chilling, and really don't care what we do together as long as we're together. And that's the big issue, for guys, they most of the time want to control what they want to do. Girls do this too, but not as much as guys. Guys are much worse. But, and this is to the guys, they should always ask what the girl wants to do before making any plans.
Now, I think we all know, or at least should know, I'm not a counsler, but just believe me because I probably went through the same bull that you did. Otherwise you wouldn't be reading this. I'm not trying to tell anybody what to do, I'm just being a helping hand to the police officers who encounter suicide victims due to teen pressure caused by DATING!!! I was pretty close to it a while back, and now, I am wishing that I would have met Jenny eariler. We were two total strangers, just chilling and drinking, and having a good time. Then we met and became one. Which to me was pretty cool because I had never been to a party that made me feel so important to someone else. Plus we took a chance on each other, not knowing what either of us was like, and we just happen to click. I never though things would be so smooth for us after that night, but we have been doing pretty good. We have had our fights! But, which relationship doesn't? But we now understand what pisses each other off, and we avoid it completely!
Oh, something that should be brought up, SEX! I know most of you have had it at least once in your life. But when it comes time to show your true emotions to her, better count on having those feelings last for a long time! And, if you have just started going out, don't PUSH it on her. It will only make her/him think your in the relationship for sex, and why would you want her/him to think that?
