THE BIG ISSUE IN THE NORTH- September 2000
NICE AND EASY DOES IT
Boyzone's Stephen Gately is the epitome of squeaky-clean and he does it very well indeed.
By ANDREW LOSOWSKY
Stephen Gately is nice. There's no other word to describe him.
Everyone around him is nice. Even the pit-bull terrier, running around the
photographic studio where we meet, is nice. To get near Stephen is to
enter another world.
He shot to fame with Boyzone, five nice lads from Dublin whose first
four albums all shot in at number one, the first band to do so since those
other nice lads, the Beatles. A film of the 'fab five' is even being
written. But, after seven years together, they wanted a break and decided to
spend 2000 working on solo projects. One of them presented a children's TV
show. One went to drive rally cars. But for Ronan Keating and Stephen Gately
- arguably the two most squeaky clean band members - Boyzone's temporary
separation has let them try their hand at pop music solo.
I exchange a firm handshake with Gately as I enter a large room in
North London and wait patiently for a photo shoot to end. The shoot is
fascinating. As the photographer dances around him, you can't help
noticing Gately knows exactly what he s doing. With admirable poise and
patience, he makes the camera his own, smiling into the lens in a variety of
expressions. The photographer never had it so easy.
When the shoot ends, Gately strolls over for the interview. He looks
right at me when he talks and seems genuinely interested in every question.
He is the consummate professional without ever being impersonal. Make no
mistake, Gately is damn good at what he does. From his perfect complexion to
his new beige shoes. Only a slightly damp mark under the arms of his jumper and
the occasional belch as he swigs cola, ripple the image of perfection.
Anyone under 18 could answer my first question, but I thought we'd
start with an easy one:
Why does Gately think Boyzone have been so phenomenally successful?
"I think it's the normality of us. With us what you see is what you get.
There aren't any graces about us, we're just five normal guys. Some of
us have kids. Some of us are married, one of us is gay. People see
realism there."
Ah yes, the gay issue. A reporter in the Far East recently arranged to
interview Gately, only to be told by an over-eager record company
executive that he could talk about anything except the gay issue. The reporter
was, not surprisingly, upset. After all, Gately's coming out in June 1999
was the biggest thing to happen in the music industry in years. It was
groundbreaking in the way it had almost no repercussions for the band
and, for non-Boyzone fanatics, it's the most interesting thing about him.
Thankfully, I have been given no such restrictions but it doesn't make
talking about someone else's sexuality any easier.
We briefly discuss his new single and the album he's working on ("I
love pop music, but wanted to try something more up-tempo than just ballads"),
before we touch on his personal life. I mention his relationship with Eloy de
Jong, a Dutch singer in a boy-band of his own. Gately doesn't seem surprised
but is none too impressed either.
"Look, I've done the whole thing about who I'm with and so everybody
knows. There's no point in making an issue about my sexual preference, unless
you do for the other lads in Boyzone as well. If you're not doing it with
them, you're not doing it with me."
I don't feel good about asking but natural curiosity makes me pursue
the issue a little further. Gately almost - but not quite - succeeds in
stifling his frustration. However, the smile hardens a little. I ask
if he would mind answering a couple of more general questions on the subject.
"Well, now that depends. If I don't like them, I'll tell you to fuck
off."
He says it very softly, never breaking the smile. I continue digging
regardless but exchange my spade for a teaspoon.
When did he first know he was in love with Eloy who he has lived in Amsterdam with for 18 months?
"Six years ago but we never got together until two years ago. I don't
know if we'll get married," he continues. "I wouldn't say 'no', I wouldn't
say 'yes'. We haven't actually sat down and had a good chat about it.
There have been rumours in the press about that, and about kids, but if it
happens, it happens. It's my choice, and when I do it I'll let you
know."
So, does he feel that a star's sexuality now has no bearing on his or
her career?
"I dunno. It was fantastic how the response was. But so what, you
know? People can say whatever they want. As long as I'm happy in my life,
that's the thing. It's nobody's business, and nobody had to know. Somebody
was going to sell the story and I think that to hurt another person and to
try and ruin their life is the lowest way to make money."
Though he's not overly secretive about his private life, he's not
surprisingly happier to talk about less personal issues.
"I like living in Holland because it's really laid back. People just
say 'hi' and keep on walking. But in Ireland it's different, they grab you
and say 'sign this, sign this'. I don't mind doing it but the only place I
won't is when I'm in my home. If anyone comes to my house and asks for
my autograph, the answer's always 'no'. I don't care who they are, it's
my own private space.
"I'm a very private person really. I don't go to celebrity bashes, and
I don't go clubbing - I hate clubbing. I'd rather go to a bar or
restaurant where I can sit down and chat with my mates."
In June, Gately released his first solo single, A New Beginning/Bright
Eyes, a double-A side featuring a cover version of Art Garfunkel's gooey hit.
It went straight in at Number Three, while his debut solo album made
Number Nine.
Still if he wasn't in Boyzone, Gately harbours another ambition: to be
in the movies.
"I'd love to play a baddie in a film. Actually, what I'm aiming for is
a cameo in the new Harry Potter film. The books are fantastic. And
Andrew Lloyd-Webber offered me the lead role in his new musical. I was
tempted but at the same time I was too involved in my album. But he obviously
thinks I'm capable of doing it - he doesn't really pick people unless he
believes in them."
With no pressure to stick to the money-spinning formula that is
boy-band pop (Gately acknowledges he's "financially secure, that's for sure"), he
can afford to take a few risks.
With William from the record company making discreet signals that our
time is running out, I wonder where Gately is rushing off to now?
"We've got a few more photo shoots, then tonight I'm going back to
Amsterdam. I'm going to sit down, open a bottle of wine and watch four
episodes of Friends. That's going to be nice."
With Gately, it could hardly be anything else.
'I Believe', is released on 25 September on Polydor Associated Labels.
For more details go to http://www.stephengately.com/.
INSIDE STORY ...
- Awards ...
All Ireland Disco Dancing
Champion aged 16, Irish
Personality of the Year and
Smash Hits Hero of the Year
(both 1999)
- First found fame ...
Apart from 10 seconds in The Commitments,
fame hit when Boyzone released their first
single Love Me For a Reason in 1994.
It reached Number Two in the UK charts
- Linked to ...
Before his homosexuality was made
public, Gately was romantically linked
to Baby Spice and Mandy Smith. He is
now happily settled with Dutch boyfriend
Eloy.
- Famous family ...
Fourth out of five children, Gately was
brought up in Dublin. "I come from a
poor family, so I know what its like to
have none of this"
- Once said ...
"Everyone was great about me coming out.
Elton John sent flowers, George Michael rang,
even Billy Connolly said 'Who gives a shit?'
There's been no homophobia at all, except the
odd slagging in the street."
"One girl got my name tattooed on her arm,
I was like, 'What are you doing, girl? That's
going to be there forever'."