Is He Cheating on Me?
Trinity,
Lately I've been getting the feeling that my boyfriend, of 5 months, is cheating on me.
I've been picking up little signs like him picking up the phone on the first ring and staying
out late at night. I'm afraid to confront him about it, I don't want him to think I don't trust him.
What should I do?
-- Suspicious Lover
Suspicious Lover,
Ooo Girl, I feel where you're coming from.It's not easy dealing with these kinds of
things. But I got you covered. You need to go ahead and ask him about it.
Don't come right out and say "I think you cheatin' on me and I wanna know
why !" I doesn't work like that. Kindly bring it to his attention that you've been
noticing these little things. Most likely whether he's cheating on you or not
the answer will be " no ". But asking him about it will let him know
that you're not stupid and you're on to him (If in fact he IS cheating). It might
hurt his feelings a little bit , because he may feel that you don't
trust him. But reassure him that you DO want to trust him, you just
need to be sure that the fire is still there. As for picking up the phone on the
first ring, try this: When he picks up the phone look at him as if you want to know if
it's for you. If he does more stuttering than talking, you need to move on to Plan B.
Plan B: The next time he does it, pick up the phone at the same time. If the other end is
quiet or a chic says she has the " wrong number " you need to *69 the number and write it down.
If this happens twice and it's the SAME number you need to tell you're boyfriend to pack
up his things and CALL TYRONE !!!
--- Trinity
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