In this homophobic world that we live in, the constant
arguing if gay couples should be allowed to adopt often comes up.
But in reality, how does a persons sexual preference categorize
them as having good or bad parental skills? The answer to this question
is, it does not.
Those in our society that are highly against gay couples adopting
children, would most likely argue that this would be bringing a
child into an unfit home. Another criticism may be that
a child needs a male and female figure in their life. Where would
the scientific proof be found that children grow up unhealthy in
a same sex parental household?
Millions of children are left in this world without
loving homes to become a part of. When a court decides to reject
a gay couple from adopting due to the sole purpose that they are
a homosexual couple, this is not only hurting the couple. The court
is rejecting yet another child from growing up in a loving home.
People often say that if a child is to grow up in
a homosexual household, they themselves will turn out to be a homosexual
as well. Again, where is the scientific proof? There is none. There
are plenty of straight children that come out of homosexual households.
Homosexuality needs to stop being treated as a disease,
and not being recognized as a trait of a human being. A child will
not catch homosexuality by living in a homosexual household.
However, the child may catch something called acceptance.
By experiencing different ways of life, these children can grow
up to learn to accept people for who they are. Not for their sexual
preference.
Adopting children should not be determined by the
sex of someones partner, but by the responsibility, and character
of that person. By rejecting these gay couples to be able to adopt,
more problems are being created. More hatred begins to spark, which
eventually leads to violence.
If we are ever planning on accomplishing world peace,
we must begin to accept others for who they are as people. All responsible,
loving individuals deserve the right to adopt a child. Even individuals
with different sexual preferences deserve this right.
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