No one can make you feel... unhappy, angry, or anything else. They might contribute to how you feel but only you can decide how to react to a situation. So next time make others feel bad that they hurt you by what they said or did, by doing something good in return. You will not only be at peace with yourself but might curb a bad situation in a marriage or maybe even create a friend out of a foe, and we all need more friends. I am still trying to acheive this goal; but have found that kind words turn wrath a lot easier than knowing you are right. And truthfully we all know we are right, especially in an arguement.
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