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Love, love should exist in each and everyone of us. Some of us may not experience it before but for those who had, they will find it something difficult to resist and be taken out of their daily life. Each and everyone of us like to be love and care by somebody, it is a kind of sense of belonging whether to our family or our significant other. Love should be something that come right from a pure and sincere heart. However, one shall not play with love and feelings and it tends to backfire and also hurt the one that had loved you.


Love could seem so perfect when it comes to movies, with the "happily ever after " ending. However in reality, there is no such thing such as "happily ever after" endings in our lovelife as life tends to go on but the movie just stop there from the moment we finished watching it. No one ever knows what will happen to them after the movie had ended and people will make assumption that they do live happily ever after. People who are in love tend to have one problem coming after another, and it will go on and on without a break until the day that we find love is a hate for us.


In reality, things do not seem to work out the fantasy way. Fantasy is just an ideal image from our mind that we hope for in our present life. In fantasy, we will be brought to a world fill with happiness and there are no worries at all for us, as the saying "HAKUNA MATATA" goes. Unfortunately in reality, things seem to have it ups and downs, twists and turns all the time. One moment we were so happy and the next we are down on the earth feeling sad about something, and this cycle will continuosly take part in our lifetime. This is why so many people are having problems in their lovelife.


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Love is the most sensitive topic among all of us and we tend to be very vulnerable to love. It is actually a very confusing cycle,as you know, when we got love.....we will be very happy and live a happy life ahead, while on the other hand, when we have got nothing in love, we will feel sad and depressed. Then, we will ask ourselves "Why is this happening to me???". As you see, people tend to take love very seriously, first place in the list ; besides career, friendship and family. We have forgotten one major point and that is, love do not control our life, our life is totally under us to control, so we could not let it conquer us, whether our body or our soul.


Before I end this, I know how all of you feel when you have lose something you love. Me myself also had gone through all of this but life still must go on, if we do not take the initiatives to get back up, we will be left behind. Whatever that has happened could not be brought back, hence, why don't we forget all about it and plan some better alternatives for the days that will come. Enjoy your life to the fullest when you can or else you might end up regreting it. Before I stop, I hope all of you that had visited here have a great success in your days to come whether in love or anything else.


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