In loving memory of J.R. "Hat" Hattaway
Your kindness, love, friendship, and influence are immortal.
Copyright September 1997
by Patricia Speer
 
A man so kind
Who never minded the company of two so young.
Your home-a haven of happiness
Your affection-a world of good
For two so young.
You gave to us so freely.
You could always see the brightness and potential in me.
You made me feel so extraordinary
in a world that seemed so ordinary.
You saw beauty and life
 in a girl caught up in familial strife.
You lent us your wife,
 who had an eternal array of stories to entertain
during those endless childhood days.
  Oh-how we all loved to laugh!
So much of the world I discovered
 in your presence as we traveled so often to the sea
enjoying the pleasures of an exalted existence.
Ours was a relationship singular:
 Neither our uncle nor our father-
  You were our friend and chosen family.
   Your love provided an awkward tomboy and her sister sanctuary.
An open mind and heart
 For 20 years you shared-
Showing us love and achievement.
Can you only know what that meant
 to one so young?
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