"LOLITA COMPLEX" and "ENJO-KOSAI" | ||||||
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Since 31/1/97
Rev.98/01/10
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First, I think that the phenomena "lolita complex" or "paedophilia" is rather universal. These words themselves come from European languages and there are no proper Japanese words for it ... therefore we say "rori-kon" which is Japanese pronunciation of "lolita complex". Love for young girls was not traditionally so popular. As I explain later, I believe that recent "rori-kon" affairs of the Japanese men occurred under special circumstances. On the other hand, it is true that young, immature and childish behaviour
and looks are preferred in the informal circumstances. Japanese exactly
play the role they are expected to play while they are in the business
or other formal activities. However, they try to balance the lack of human
relations by becoming childish in the informal occasions, such as drink
sessions after business hour, comical shows in TV and so on. There is also
a tendency that women with cute looking and immature behaviour are preferred.
Further, as the Japanese economy develops the possibility has expanded
for women to get jobs and live a life without the bond to unwished husband.
They become more and more independent and assertive vis-a-vis men and concerning
sex life. The value of virginity has largely lost its importance.
Now, after background briefings, I have to address the question why there is "rori-kon" and "enjo kosai". I believe that the men who are "rori-kon" or ready to pay some hundreds
of dollars to teenage girls are those who feel lonely. They are week
men, not able to have normal relations with adult female.
The counterparts of such poor guys - young chicks - are much more problematic. General background is the overall relaxation of moral discipline of the society. Nowadays, it is reported, 70% of high school girls have already sexual experiences. Substantially higher figure compared to their parents' generation! However, I don't think that this figure itself is a problem. The more women become independent and enjoy their life, the later they tend to get married and the more they have chance for pre-marriage sex experience. The real problem, if any, would be that they don't choose partners out of love or affection, but just for the sake of relatively small money. I think those girls are also in a sense week people. They are usually in groups with other girls. It seems to me that young girls are really afraid of being ousted from the groups they belong to. They wish to be in. Therefore, as for fashion, food and other aspects of their life, they imitate each other so that they can feel they are members of the same group. Under such circumstances, once a girl earns easy money by having sexual
relations with an adult male, she would buy European brand bags, invite
her friends to a hamburger party, be respected by friends and fasten her
position in the group. European brands such as Gucci are popular among
adult females but expensive for schoolgirls if they would buy them by part-time
job at McDonald or so... part-time job is anyhow forbidden by their schools...but
purchasable if they accept "assistance" from old and poor but rich men.
Once European brand goods become symbol of the group it is easy to expect
that every girl of the group wants them and there is only one way to get
them.
I hope that those
girls, if any, will discover the importance of love in their relations
with male partners. Fortunately enough, as far as I know the situation,
these phenomena have not resulted in violation. I haven't heard that the
girls involved in such affairs were killed or heavily violated. Maybe there
are not many cases of "enjo-kosai".
The best recept to contain such phenomena is that the mass media do not pick up the cases and label them "enjo-kosai". Really, the media exploit those poor girls in order to sell their ridiculous programmes or weekly magazines. If they don't report, nobody is bothered by such phenomena and many latecomer girls might not have come up with the idea to imitate the case. |
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