Name: C.Y.Lee

Birthday: Feb. 4th, 78.

Nationality: Chinese (Hong Kong)

E-Mail: [email protected]

UIN of ICQ: 5076542

Lanuages: Chinese (Cantonese and Mandarin), English, Spanish

Hobbies: singing, listening to music, Karaoke, writing (poems and letters), reading (Chinese novels and magazines), taking pictures, dancing, ice-skating, bowling, shopping, meeting friends, chatting (AOL), talking on the phone, finding idols (while in Hong Kong)... etc. (just about anything but sports. =P HEE! HEE!)

Idols: Love: Sammi Cheng, Kelly Chen, Daniel Chan (Tung Tung), Miriam Yeung, A-Mei Cheung. Like: Zoe Ki, Amanda Lee, Namie Amuro, MAX, Gigi Leung, Karen Tong, Josie Ho, Jordan Chan, Liz Kong, Edmend Leung, Leon Lai, Eric Suen, Faye Wong, Aaron Kwok, Ekin Cheng... etc. (too many to go on...)

Most Favorites: Country: Hong Kong Food: Japanese food (sushi) Colors: baby pink, brown, black, white, grey blue Shopping Places: Mong Kok, Causeway Bay, Taikoo, T.S.T., Wan Chai Magazine: "non-no" Animal: Monkey Flower: Forget-Me-Not Sanrio: Minna No Tabo, XO, Hello Kitty (the baby pink one), Chococat, Pochacco, Winkipinki Teletubbies: Laa-Laa, Po Movie: "The Storm Riders" Book: The Bible

My Opinion On: Life: Is about others and I, and not I and others. Time: Once it's gone, it's the past, and it will NEVER come back; so treasure every moment you have. Love: It's the sweetest thing in the world, but it also hurts the most. Friendship: Treat others the way you want them to treat you, but never expect anything back. People: Honestly? 95% on personality, 5% on looks. Problem: A problem is dead until YOU make it alive. Lieing: It's the biggest crime of all.

My Little Thoughts:
Emotions:
* If you are going to hide it, hide it good.
* We don't need a reason to smile.
* Even if you are feeling blue, smile for others. =)
* Don't think TOO much, or you will only get sick in the heart.
Friendships:
* Tell a friend that you believe in him/her.
* Give friends a hug once in awhile.
* Sometimes caring is in words, sometimes in silence.
* Be a friend, and not make a friend.
* Let friends know that you care.
* When you give them 100% of your heart, don't expect that they will do the same; do things for friends without expecting anything in return.
Life:
* It's really really short... Just hold on to what you have.
* You never know what you might lose the next day; treasure others while they are still there.
* Always keep an open mind.
* Be mature enough to know you still have a lot to learn.
* There is no such rule that anyone has to be nice to you.
* 10% is what happens in life, 90% is your action toward it.
* "You don't win by beating someone else. We defined winning as doing your very best. That way, everyone is a winner." ~Mike T.
Love:
* Love with your heart, and not with your eyes.
* Memories are all one should ask for, move on when love is gone.
* Why start anything when you know there is no ending?
People:
* A lot of us are not as simple as how we seem to be.
* Don't judge a book by its cover.
* I am a nobody when it comes to the world as a whole.
Words:
* It doesn't matter what others say; but how YOU take it in.
* There is no such word as "un-say".
* The tone of voice speaks louder than the words.
* Don't just listen to what I am saying, but as well as what I am NOT saying.
* "Speak honestly, be brief, and listen from the heart." ~Ojai
* "Thought comes before speech." ~Lakota
From Hugh Prather: of his book "Notes to Myself"...
* "But it's morning. Within my hands is another day. Another day to listen and love and walk and glory. I am here for another day. I think of those who aren't."
* "The rainbow is more beautiful than the pot at the end of it, because the rainbow is now. And the pot never turns out to be quite what I expected."
* "'Next time I will...' 'From now on I will...' ---What makes me think I am wiser today than I will be tomorrow?"
* "The key to motivation is to look at how far I have come rather than how far I have to go."
* "I live from one tentative conclusion to the next, thinking each one is final. They only thing I know for sure is that I'm confused."
* "My trouble is I analyze life instead of live it."
* "I don't need a 'reason' to be happy. I don't have to consult the future to know how happy I am now."
* "At first I thought that to 'be myself' meant simply to act the way I feel. I would ask myself a question such as, 'What do I want to say to this person?' and very often the answer was surprisingly negative. It seemed that my negative feelings were always the ones I noticed first, possibly because I feared having to act them out. However, as I continued practicing I saw that below these were more positive feelings---if I was still long enough to look deeply. The more I attempted to 'be me' the more 'me's' I found there were. Now I understand that to be myself means consciously choosing which level of my feelings I am going to respond to and recognizing that, whatever I am feeling, I am always free to think carefully rather than carelessly about myself and those around me."
* "If I feel disapproval of someone, if I find myself ignoring or turning away from someone in a group, I am probably avoiding in myself what this person represents that I believe is true about me."
* "I don't exist to like, but I do exist to love. Contrary to liking, love demands nothing in return."