Some Issues
&
Thoughts
(ok  so I happen to like that song from seal  and I have it on
my 3 pages...)
I have quite a few, guess that makes me somewhat
opinionated.  Or maybe just very informed.
First
 If you're a woman reading this and you're
in an abusive relationship.
GET OUT.
You're fooling yourself and your children
if you think it's going to change.
If he's promised never to hit you
again guess what?  He's going to
and next time he may hurt you very badly.
If you have children, they deserve better
than that.  Your daughter(s) will grow up thinking
it's ok to be hit.  Your boy(s) will grow up thinking
it's ok to hit.  It takes a lifetime to undo that
kind of thinking.
Abuse doesn't just arrive like a nightmare one
day, there's many warning signs.
1) belittles or puts you down
2) gives you a weekly allowance.
(we do that with our children not adults)
3) makes you stay at home  not allowed to
work.
4) accuses you of all kinds of things
when you are out of the house.
I think you get the general idea.
Second.
If you have a child that needs help in an emotional
psychological sense, get it for them.  I have a special
needs child, and I was in denial for a long time.
Getting him the help he needed is not only a
parental duty but obligation to the child.
They too have to live in this world, and you need to
prepare them for that.
Third
Our world has changed so much over the past
few years and it's a shame that we all just can't
live in some kind of harmony.
Learning how to live in a less chaotic society
means that we ourselves need to take time to
"smell the roses".
So do something nice for just you.
Life is supposed to be enjoyed, yet most
people are way too busy for that.
When we as human beings find inner peace
perhaps then we can start with the rest of
the world.
I read a book a few years ago now , called
The Celestine Prophecy
This book enlightened me and gave me
peace that I didn't have before.
Like any book, some parts I liked while
others I didn't.  It's worth it to read.
I went around for 3 days after saying
"wow that made sense."
Well I guess that's up to you.
That's it for now I'll probably add more soon.
May peace and harmony be yours.
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Darla
 
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