from "Flowers in the Ward" by Shaw Neilson |
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The Victorians used the Language of Flowers to send thoughts and sentiments discreetly. When a woman received the flowers, she had the opportunity to accept or reject the sentiment expressed when she wore the flowers on her afternoon calls. Simply worn, with the blossom facing upwards, the sentiment was accepted. But worn with the blossom facing downwards, the prospective suitor knew his feelings were not returned. Often the flowers were carried in a Tussie-Mussie mixed with other flowers to send a return Message. Brides often chose their bouquets to send messages consistent of the ideals of marriage.
Alyssum |
WorthBeyond Beauty |
Amaryllis |
Pride |
Ambrosia |
Love Returned |
Anemone |
Foresaken |
Apple Blossom |
Preference |
Azalea |
Temperance |
Bluebell |
Constancy |
Buttercup |
Childishness |
Camellia |
Perfected Loveliness |
Carnation |
Alas for my poor heart |
Chrysanthemum |
I love |
Columbine |
Folly |
Cornflower |
Delicacy |
Daffodil |
Regard |
Daisy |
Innocence |
Dandelion |
Oracle |
Forget-me-not |
True Love |
Foxglove |
Insincerity |
Fuschia |
Taste |
Geranium |
Melancholy |
Hollyhock |
Female Ambition |
Honeysuckle |
The bond of love. Devoted love. |
Hyacinth |
Sorrow |
Iris |
Message |
Ivy |
Fidelity |
Jasmine |
Grace and Elegance |
Jonquil |
Desire; Affection returned. |
Lavendar |
Distrust |
Lilac |
First Emotion of Love |
Lily |
Purity |
Lily of the Valley |
Return of Happiness |