The Language of Flowers

They speak not of torment

nor blackness, nor sin.

Quietly as Angels

Do the flowers come in.

from "Flowers in the Ward" by Shaw Neilson

The Victorians used the Language of Flowers to send thoughts and sentiments discreetly. When a woman received the flowers, she had the opportunity to accept or reject the sentiment expressed when she wore the flowers on her afternoon calls. Simply worn, with the blossom facing upwards, the sentiment was accepted. But worn with the blossom facing downwards, the prospective suitor knew his feelings were not returned. Often the flowers were carried in a Tussie-Mussie mixed with other flowers to send a return Message. Brides often chose their bouquets to send messages consistent of the ideals of marriage.

 

The Flowers

Alyssum

WorthBeyond Beauty

Amaryllis

Pride

Ambrosia

Love Returned

Anemone

Foresaken

Apple Blossom

Preference

Azalea

Temperance

Bluebell

Constancy

Buttercup

Childishness

Camellia

Perfected Loveliness

Carnation

Alas for my poor heart

Chrysanthemum

I love

Columbine

Folly

Cornflower

Delicacy

Daffodil

Regard

Daisy

Innocence

Dandelion

Oracle

Forget-me-not

True Love

Foxglove

Insincerity

Fuschia

Taste

Geranium

Melancholy

Hollyhock

Female Ambition

Honeysuckle

The bond of love. Devoted love.

Hyacinth

Sorrow

Iris

Message

Ivy

Fidelity

Jasmine

Grace and Elegance

Jonquil

Desire; Affection returned.

Lavendar

Distrust

Lilac

First Emotion of Love

Lily

Purity

Lily of the Valley

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