pondering
mon ami

? ... ahh ... love. do you know how many people gets involve through internet alone? i don't know but my guess is that there's numerous of people that have gone throught that experience. me, for example. i've been in n out of it. imagine... through the net? wtf! "are you crazy?" you might ask. it's not just me but there's a great deal of people who have been tricked off of their feelings. when two people talk it's supposed to be just talking. but when you feel this certain connection with that person you suddenly get involved. i don't know how to explain it but it's true. i don't have much proof but i know it happens. why the internet? well for a person who has no life it's a different kind of world. for a person who likes to sit down n find out wut the other person would say about how his/her day went, it's becomes a daily routine. for some it's just a way to get their mails. for some, it's just a way killing time. but for some it's a new reality....many people say that trust is the only thing that's the major concern in a relationship. i don't think so. i think don't think that "trust" alone is the key to a succesfull relationship. you could say it's one of the important aspects of a succesfull relationship. for example you also need honesty. "why don't u believe me? don't you trust me?" of course there's the trust. but wut if that person is lying to you n you gave them all of your trust. isn't that unfair? Loyalty. "do you wanna hook up?" asks on person to a girl. "yes, i do." but on the contrary she does. Open mindedness. a guy sees her girlfriend flirting with some other guy in a room. the guy reacts. obviously the girl would say. "don't be jealous, we're just friends." Respect. don't be denying a person when someone asks you if you're commited. it's just a big stab in the back. if you don't want to admit then you should've not gone with that person in the first place dammit! it just pisses me off when you get denied by someone you think that's committed to you. fuck! .... i don't know if i'm right but these things but somehow i've learn that when you fall in love be sure that that person deserves all of you: your TRUST, LOYALTY, RESPECT, HONESTY..etc.,etc... don't be dissin him/her. because if you do. you might not know wut you're missing. sometimes, well most of the times, you don't know wut you're missing until it's gone. as the song goes. i hope you get my point. thank you.



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