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Above all else
He/She cherishes His/Her slave, in the knowledge that the gift she/he gives
Him/Her is the greatest gift of all.
He/She is demanding
and takes full advantage of the power given to Him/Her, but knows how to
share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.
He/She is in control
of Himself/Herself first and foremost, so that He/She may control others.
As a stern
and demanding Master/Mistress, He/S he can cause His/Her slave to cry real
tears. As the consummate lover, He/She will then kiss the tears away, without
stepping out of character.
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In times of trouble, a Master/Mistress will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive Friend and Partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between T/two caring individuals. He/She is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He/She would never ask a slave to put Him/Her before his/her career, or family, just to satisfy His/Her own pleasure.
To win His/Her slave's
mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, He/She knows He/She must first win
her/his trust. He/She will show His/Her slave humour, kindness, and warmth.
He/She must always show hin/her that His/Her guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable
and deserving of her/his attention, that this is a Man/Woman
she/he can learn
from, and trust Her/His direction.
She/He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, She/He will fight for Her/His sub/slave/lady/man's honour. He/She proves to her/him that She/He is someone she/he can lean on, and depend on.
When it comes time to teach His/Her slave her/his lessons of obedience, He/She is a strong and unyielding professor. He/She will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from His/Her student. Never does He/She use discipline without a good reason. When He/She does it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand. He/She is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her/his wants and needs. He/She is patient, taking time to learn his/her limits, and knowing that as her/his trust of Him/Her grows so will they. She/He never has to demand ritual behaviour by/him/her. he/she responds to Him/Her out of the want of pleasing Him/Her .Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He/She understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to Him/Her.
She/He is secure enough to laugh at Himself/Herself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. His/Her tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love. He/She understands that E/each partner gains most from pleasuring the O/other. And B/both of them know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold