I�m 41, white, 6�1, 200, brown hair, blue eyes, hairy chest/back, masculine, but not butch, cleancut, cleanshaven. I�m more the dominant type, but that doesn�t mean I�m looking for a submissive or a slave. I am just an average, ordinary, regular kind of guy. I don�t lead a glamorous or exciting life. I have owned my own business for the past couple of years and it seems to be a constant struggle to keep it alive. So obviously, I�m not in it for the money (though I would certainly enjoy it generating some profits) but I do enjoy it despite the pain in the rear it tends to be. I am pretty settled and have simple pleasures. From a personality standpoint, I�m very laid back guy, somewhat conservative guy. I have no attitude, I�m not pretentious and I have very definite opinions on many things though I don�t feel the need to articulate them to everyone I meet. I�m not involved in the gay scene and don�t visit the bars anymore (and it�s been long enough I�d bet money you�ve never seen me there). No great loss in that as I never felt as though I fit in at the bar anyway. As far as my being out, yes, my family knows though it�s not a favorite discussion topic with them and some people at work know. I don�t feel the need to advertise this fact, though I will tell someone the truth if they feel the need to ask. I�m not the type of guy people even expect would be gay. It�s been humorous to see the reactions of several people who did ask and found out the truth. Some still think I�m joking with them about it. Being �out� is not important to me. I�m not an activist for the gay cause. I�m not a gay regular guy, but instead, just a regular guy that happens to be gay. If the distinction is lost on you, then we probably won�t be very compatible. About the only thing gay about me is sexual and that is one of the qualities, which is attractive to me in another guy.

To briefly touch on sexual enjoyments, I like a lot of romance/foreplay. Love to kiss and cuddle together, oral pleasures, and I�m top if things get to that. However, anal sex is not something I�m overly interested in these days. Sure, I enjoy it sometimes, just not something I want to do everytime we were together. I prefer all the other so much more. Mostly, I desire someone more a friend/companion, someone to spend time with, to do things with like have lunch or dinner together, cook at home sometimes, go out to a ballgame (which I haven�t done in ages), spend a Saturday or Sunday with driving around with the sunroof open just being together, walking around downtown, exploring the city, etc. Find new hobbies together, introduce me to some of yours, help me find my lost hobbies, just being able to do things with someone else instead of alone. I�m a sincere honest guy looking for similar qualities in someone else.

From talking with guys online in the past, I�m not well endowed by gay standards, so if this is important to you, I suggest you skip to the next ad. This is not meant to be a sexual ad, but so many guys I have met in the past are so into size, I felt it necessary to weed those people out. If that�s what you like, I have no problem with that, I just don�t care to waste my time or yours, with something I cannot change. BTW, I am cut. That�s all I�m going to say on that subject, so if it�s that important to you, you�ll just have to get to know me well enough to find out. On another subject, I do smoke, though am considerate about it. Just so you know.