First posted on February 24, 2000. 

BDSM Short Negotiation Form
(Online Email Version)

      
      For your convenience I've writen this Short Negotiation Form which you can fill out on your computer and send via email. It is meant as an aid in negotiation, one of several steps before playing with someone new, not as a replacement for the entire process. Face to face discusion is still essential. (An Online Submissive BDSM Play Partner Checklist is also posted on this site.)
      Don't send this form to anyone without opening a dialog and getting their agreement to accept your negotiation form. Sending this unsolicited is inappropriate.
      Unfortunately I've gotten complaints from America Online users that these forms have crashed their AOL browsers. I don't know of anyway to correct that problem except to install another browser such as Netscape Navigator or Internet Explorer (which would improve the browsing experience of other sites as well.)
      Please send me a note if you use this service and let me know if it's useful. Also please share any suggestions or constructive criticisms you might have.
      
-- Master C
 

  1. Who
      TO: Enter the email address you wish this form to be sent. I suggest you address the form to yourself so that you can review your answers and add any additional comments before sending it on to your negotiation partner.


      Your name:

      Your email address: (e.g.: [email protected])

      What is your age?


      What is your gender?

          Male   Female   Transgendered / Other

      Players


      Roles


      Observers


      What (For a list of possible activities see the Submissive BDSM Checklist.) To send a more detailed list of possible activities, complete the BDSM Play Partner Checklist (Email Form.)

        What activities would you like to do?


        What activities would you willing to do?


        What activities would you not do?


        Any activities you've omitted at this time should be considered "off limits" until further negotiation. (In other words, the Dominant shouldn't assume he has permission to do something just because it's hasn't been included in any of the submissive's answers.)

        Sex?


        Bondage?


        Pain?


        Marks?
        None Not visible under workaday clothing Not visible under a bikini

        Humiliation?
        None Private Play Party Public

        Language?


    1. When?

        Play time


        Follow up time


    2. Where?



    3. How?

        Medical conditions and considerations


        Safe Words


    4. Requests / Suggetions / Other



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