Hippie's Words Of Wisdom

Well up until about 10 minutes ago I was stumped as to what I was going to
write about...but thanks to a wonderful little show just put on in the
tiki... I have a subject.

K..here goes people. Head Games.

Why do people insist on playing them? Who really benefits from the? Not the
person playing them and certainly not the person who is the victim of them.

This is my question for those that play the games...

Does it make you feel like a better person to know that you have driven
someone to the point of tears with your little games? Do you feel better
when you go to sleep at night and can think about them sitting at home
wondering what they did to deserve it?... Or better yet does it give you
some warped and demented sense of power ?

And how about those of you that sign in under one name and do something and
then come in under another name to view your handy work?.. What is up with
that?

Are you not capable of facing up to what you did? Or is it that you want to
actually see what you have done for yourself, you don't want to have to hear
it from someone else?

You know why I think you play head games....

Because I think you are scared that if people see you for what you really
are, they won't like you . You think that playing these little games is
going to get you somewhere and that in the end the jokes on them because it
wasn't really you all along it was just who you were pretending to be.

Tell you what...you want to play....go back to kindergarten.
You want to pretend...get an imaginary friend.

But if you want to make friends...the kind that are there for you no matter
what, the ones who will get up at 2:30 in the morning and come get you
because you are too damn drunk to drive yourself home, the ones who will
give you their last $20 dollars because you are broke and they weren't going
to use it any way, and the ones who just send you a card out of the blue and
say thanks for being you...if you want to have friends like that be
yourself.

Other wise....you'll never be more than a figment in your own imagination.

And when it comes to the head games...well the ultimate loser in it all is
you.
You lose out on having someone there for you that really wanted to be your
friend.

A friend:

(A)ccepts you as you are
(B)elieves in "you"
(C)alls you just to say "HI"
(D) Doesn't give up on you
(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the
unfinished parts)
(F)orgives your mistakes
(G)ives unconditionally
(H)elps you
(I)nvites you over
(J)ust "be" with you
(K)eeps you close at heart
(L)oves you for who you are
(M)akes a difference in your life
(N)ever Judges
(O)ffers support
(P)icks you up
(Q)uiets your fears
(R)aises your spirits
(S)ays nice things about you
(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(U)nderstands you
(V)alues you
(W)alks beside you
(x) explains things you don't understand
(Y)ells when you won't listen and
(Z)aps you back to reality

"Flexible people don't get bent out of shape."
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sent in by bs,...........huggles gf i couldnt have said it better