Guys Vs. Love
As far as i've recently seen, guys seem to have the need for love more than women (in some respects). Unfortunately with this
need, it seems that guys have lost the meaning and the sense of "love". Some guys feel that they "need" someone to love; so because of this,
they seek out someone one after the other. Since they no longer know the true sense of love, (so it seems), they overuse and/or misuse the the word
"love". Instead of meaning it when they say it; it appears as though it has become a habit. ("There are no good habits, there are no bad habits; habits are meaningless.")
When something becomes a habit it no longer has the same meaning (if any meaning). It is one of the most unfortunate things when something such as love becomes a habit.
Fortunately this does not apply to every guy. There are many exceptions, some good and others bad. Starting with some bad; some males seem to not even begin to know
what love is, and they probably never knew. Those of that "type" (just mentioned) have either been deprived of love or have been shown the wrong type or wrong way to love (that is my guess).
The deprivity and/or ignorance of this love causes these deprived people to be "absent-minded" about what they want, or how/what to feel (regarding love and/or loving someone). Because of this,
they seem to misuse or overuse the world "love" because they do not know the "right" way to use it. The people that these "type" of guys say "I love you" to may feel like they don't mean anything to their
boyfriend; when in this case, they are most likely right. Another "type" is one in which the guy misinterprets the meaning of loving and/or loving someone. In this "type" it seems that the guy
has not lost the meaning of loving someone but has made the word less meaningfull, he has, in a way, demoted love, so to speak. I think i have seen it go so far as a guy saying "I love you" about as meaningful
and/or emotional as a "hello" (and said as often too). And of course there are many other bad meanings to love but i'll end in with a good meaning. There are fortunate ones (guys) that know what love is,
they know how/when to give it, they know how/when to show it, and they know how/when to use love. The couple of reasons i have seen why these people know the meaning of love (and not misuse it or not know or misinterpret it)
is because; they have either not ever had the chance or opportunity to love someone or are saving all of their love for one special person. Perhaps there are those that just know. There are very few of those (last one mentioned) guys but
i know for a fact they do exist.