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I have always said everything happens for a reason, that we have a choice in our destiny. We have to go through one place to get to another
My choices this time were what do I do with my life, how do I deal with the things that have happened, the things I have done I wasn't the only victim (was I a victim at all ???). What do I take from the experience with Darran.
Some of the things I have learned over the past few years Are
Friends And Family are and always should be the most important thing in your life, other than health
To Love and to be loved is the greatest gift in existence
Love yourself, if you can't love yourself how can anyone else love you
Don't bottle things up they should be dealt with as soon as they arise
Gut feelings are usually right its like a sixth sense, if you have them act on them! Find out if there right or wrong
I am what I am, if you can't like me for what or who I am your really not worth knowing at all!
Sometimes the people you least expect to be there for you will be there for you with open arms!
Learn by your mistakes embrace whatever life throws your way good or bad
Talk about worries, Fears or Issues don't let a mountain arise from a mole hill
Be proud of your looks, change only if there's something you want to change, something your unhappy about!. I have always had a thing about my weight so I am doing something about it … not for anyone else but me, if people don't like me for what I am I am not losing out on anything!
Don't wish you were the person you most admire It's a waste of the person that you are!
Don't carry hate, it eats you away like cancer, and will affect future relationships.
Leave the emotional baggage behind you
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