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It is hard to believe that all guys think about is cars, money and sex. No matter who the guy thinks he is, those three things are always on his mind. When any guy is asked, "what is on your mind" the guy will always say it is not one of the three things listed above. It is difficult to understand why guys think this way; it could be because they are all pig-headed perverts.
When two guys are talking together, usually joking around, one of them will bring up sex into the conversation, somehow. I cannot understand why it is so important for guys to joke about sex all the time. As far as most guys are concerned when a special occasion comes up, guys expect to have sex due to the special occasion. Whether it is an anniversary, Christmas, New Years, Valentine's Day, prom/graduation, or a birthday guys expect to have sex on those days. It seems that guys only really have a one-tracked mind. I say that this can't be normal. What really doesn't make sense is that even a guy that is a virgin will expect that he will have sex on those days too. It is expected that the date/girl-friend/wife is to do this as a present for the guy. It seems that guys are extremely pig-headed because of this.
I personally do not see a reason for a guy to think this way. I understand why guys think this way; it is because guys are pig-headed perverts with a one-track mind. However, I do not see a real reason for guys to think this way. Most guys are possessive to women because the guys feel that they need to have the power, in a relationship. It is wrong, but it still happens. When a guy feels that he doesn't have the power in the relationship, the guy will start to become violent at times. This is an unhealthy fact about any guy, when he has lost power he becomes dangerous. When guys start to act this way, it makes a bad name for the rest.
I believe that the reason that guys joke around about sex, as much as they do, is because they aren't getting any. When a guy jokes to another guy it seems that they are serious, however it doesn't appear to be them bragging. It seems that the guys are sharing wishes with each other. Older guys seem to joke around with the younger guys more. It doesn't seem likely that the older guys are getting any, so they seem to need to joke around with the younger ones to act like the older guys are better than the younger guys. The problem is whether the older guy realizes how lame he seems to the younger guy when doing that.
When a bunch of guys are together, it is necessary to be able to out-do everyone else in the group. So having sex is one way that guys think that out-doing everyone else is available. These guys also believe that it gives them "bragging rights" when they have sex. It is wrong to treat sex the way that guys do, to them it is one big competition to see who can get it the most. It shows how immature guys really are. It shows that guys are pigheaded-perverts that should be taught a lesson on what life is really about. It is sad that guys think this way, and there is no hope for any of them. When any guy acts like this, it makes all guys look bad. The worst of it is that there is about 99% of the guys will act like this. It is sad to be able to say that. This is true especially for the married men. They will act the same type of childish ways that other guys are, when they are around each other.
It shows that men are the true children of the world. They are so childish that it is difficult to see any guy not being that way. Some guys are able to "put up a good front" around women when they are out with other people, however it is all an act. Unless the guy is one of 1% of guys that are serious about the way they act around other people when a woman is around, the guy is just acting nice to make it look like he is mature. It is difficult to be able to see if a guy is serious or not because some of the guys may have had a lot of practice at it. Some guys it is easy to see because when the woman leaves the guy for a brief couple of minutes, the guy will go to his friends are start doing some "bragging rights" with them. The guy may be lying to his friends about the "date" (or whatever it may be) however it shows how immature that guy would be.
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