By: Brittany Solomon
Welcome to this month's version of ' Guy Talk '
February's Theme Is:
Get Him Now !!
(Without looking or feeling Desperate)
We've got what to do and what not to do to get that man that you've
been diggin' !!!
Do's & Don'ts of Snagging That Perfect Man
Question: Are you the Sherlock Holmes type who'll do anything to find about that new guy
who works in the cubicle next to you?
Do: Look for natural, less obvious ways to bump into him.
Don't: Trail him like an FBI agent
Do: Learn about this man by actually talking to HIM not your coworkers.
Don't: Think that knowing more about him than anyone else increases your chances of winning his heart.
Do: Consider the possibilities. Hey, after catching him he might not be as thrilling as you imagined him to be.
Don't: Blow off other plans just to trail him, not wise at all !
Question: Are you sweatin' that guy that you see at the club every Saturday,
but you think he'll have a hard time noticing you when he's surrounded by groupies 24/7?
Do: Enjoy the fantasies that you have about him, it's a good way to learn about what you look for in a relationship.
Don't: Don't say or do things that are out of your character just to make him dig you.
Do: Figure out what it is you like about him. His Looks? Talents? Smarts? Then focus on your own power points.
Don't: Think that if he's perfect on the outside he's Mr. Perfect.
Do: Check out the other men in the club, you might be so Stud Struck that you're overlooking a complete god.
Don't: Fool yourself into thinking that if you hooked up he'd be all yours, chances are his groupies wouldn't just fade away.
Question: Is it natural for you to fall for your guy friends,
and you're taking this relaxed road to potential romance to make it simple to stay true to yourself?
Do: Schedule some quality, alone time with him. Let him open his eyes and see you as more than a friend.
Don't: Don't flip out if he talks to you about other girls, after all at this point you are "just friends"
Do: Take it slow. The best pace for a relationship to grow into something solid.
Don't: Miss out on other guys while you're waiting for him to realize that you're his match.
Do: Drop subtle hints that you're interested in being his wifey.
Don't: Limit yourself to making romance only with your circle of friends, if it gets nasty when it's over you might end up with no friends at all.
Question: Are you the type who can barely make eye contact with that guy
that you've been diggin' for so long?
Do: Respect your quiet personality, it's what makes you a sweet catch.
Don't: Think that you are not worthy of this man even though you haven't really dated much
Do: Take tiny risks such as smiling and saying hi
Don't: Underestimate the power of your girlfriend. Confide in one that won't spill it to him.
Do: Know that opening up and possibly rejected is better than wondering, " What if ....?"
Don't: Be harsh on yourself, if you trip out sometimes when he's around he might find these moments extremely attractive.
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