Another way to really get to know someone - especially someone who spends as much time on the Internet as I do - is to learn their favorite sites:    Star Trek  Sci-Fi Link Station Earth: Final Conflict  Official Babylon5 Web Page Voltayre's Encyclopedia Xenobiologica Xena Warrior Princess (I know, I know, but hey, come on - Greco/ancient mythos coupled with martial arts and the three B's: black hair, blue eyes and breastplates!!!)