~*Tips for Planning Y/your first Meeting*~

1. Meet in Public. Preferably in the daylight hours on Y/your first meeting. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 2. TRUST YOUR GUT! - If it feels too good to be true? It most likely is too good to be true. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 3. So you may love ropes..but don't get tied up the first go round. You may find yourself left permantely hurt or worse. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 4. You can Never be too cautious! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 5. Don't be afraid to do a background check, ask to call His parents/co-workers or siblings. If He objects..Forget Him. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 6. Talk to Someone in the BDSM community He claims to know and verify His experience! (There a lot of Big talkers out there!) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 7. Safe Calls - Plan on having a friend phone you two or even three times. A good Dominant will admire your safety precautions. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 8. Go with a friend who will take His I.D with her back to a hotel room or home to keep while you are with Him. If he objects ..Leave.

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