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FSVP - What's that? |
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Family Support for Victims of Paedophiles - that's who! Ah yes - paedophiles - I've read about them in the news. They're child molesters aren't they? NO, THEY ARE NOT ORDINARY CHILD MOLESTERS! That's what we're here to tell you. It's why families need support separate from the victims because they, themselves are all victims. In fact, before the potential child victim is ever sexually abused the family becomes the focus of a very careful "grooming" process. "All the world's a stage: and all the men and women merely players" wrote Shakespeare. A paedophile, however, isn't the player - he is the director. The director of players who, generally, don't know that they are even being carefully manipulated and used against the child victim from the very beginning. Paedophile Activity - sound more like new child's kindergarten game than the most insidious carefully planned crime ever perpetrated on a young child. But that's what paedophile activity is - a CRIME. A very carefully planned crime: right down to the thought processes which become a necessity for the paedophile to do what he needs to do to satisfy his sexual fantasies. The grooming process is also a self-grooming process. The abused often become the abusers. You've probably heard that said many times. It is not an acceptable excuse. People do have a choice TO BE an abuser OR NOT TO BE an abuser (another Shakespeare line!). This why we placed on our web site the initial "poor me" thought processes which can lead to the adult version of the same self-grooming process. This is just a small part of the information that FSVP has placed at your disposal as part of its community education program. |
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When "Why?" (confusion) turns into "Why?" (pain), then turns into "Why"? (anger) there is a very real risk of taking the law into your own hands. You are not above the law. That's very important to understand. The alleged abuser has every right to protect him/herself - don't forget that a person has the right to presumed innocent until proven guilty, and it's a long way between a child's disclosure, the police investigation, charges being laid, the committal process, the trial and sentencing. You place your children at risk by not seeking help and advice in how to handle the mix of feelings that the betrayal of someone you loved can evoke. And there is no betrayal than that of sexually abusing a child over a long period of time. As parents of children who have been sexually abused by paedophiles try and come to grips with the roller-coaster ride of emotional ups and downs, there is the very real concern that they might go into "overload" if they continue to try and grapple with the problem on their own. Give us a call. Even if you are interstate it's only a $3 in the evening and it could damage your case if the abuser obtains a restraining order against you: because you can rest assured that the paedophile will try his very best to make you break that order - it's part of the way the way a paedophile operates! That's why the phone service is in place. It isn't INSTEAD OF, it's AS WELL AS all the other help that is available within the community in which you live. When you ring, you will be talking with people who understand this particular phenomenon - paedophile activity is not your average hit and run child molestation. When a paedophile seeks out your child and infiltrates your family they are in it for the long haul. You will have all sorts of questions, not the least of which is doubt as to whether or not your child is telling the truth when the sexual abuse appears to have been happening over a long period ... maybe months .... or more often than not, even years. The professional papers which the Australian Institute of Criminology kindly allowed us to reproduce on Pedorid, explains many of these questions, because it is these very questions which are of concern to juries when coming to a decision as to whether a case against a pedophile has been proven beyond "reasonable doubt": how can a child both love and hate the abuser at the same time? It is very common to find defence lawyers argue that a child "consented" and that, over a long period of time was even "complicit" in allowing the abuse to continue by remaining silent.....but now I'm getting into another area of FSVP's involvement and concern - LOBBYING. What FSVP in the Australian Capital Territory placed on record in its submission to the ACT Law Reform Committee was the need to place the rights of children on record in plain English to all juries. At the moment the rights of children to protection are "assumed" to such a degree that those very rights no longer exist. Paedophiles know the law - they have to - they break it consistently from the moment their deviant fantasies become reality and they sexually abuse their first victim. The law is not dynamic in the area of child sexual abuse and those with the ability to educate and to encourage public aware are not doing so. As you can see, I've gone from "education" to "advocacy" and this leads us to the need for "lobbying". It's all inter-connected. |
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Lobbying on the issue of child sexual abuse and against paedophiles, is a bit like being a Union Delegate with a Log of Claims! Not all will be successful and many will be seen to be unrealistic! FSVP (ACT) Inc lodged a submission (it's "log of claims") to the Act Law Reform Committee last year. Of all the submissions, I believe ours was the only one that dealt solely with the issue of Child Sexual Assault. I think the word "assault" is misleading because it implies violence. Violence is seldom used by paedophiles, rather they use lies, threats, intimidation and a whole host of "triggers" that let the child know what will happen if he or she "tells". Therefore, in the main, I use the word abuse because it covers both physical and mental abuse used by paedophiles on their child victims. Lobbying for recognition of a problem. Lobbying for changes. All the hard slog hours put into a lengthy submission such as ours avail us nothing if we don't have public support. This web site has been placed on the Internet as a means of encouraging public awareness and engaging public support for better child protection. We may have the best laws in Australia here in the Australian Capital Territory, but we have the lowest rate of convictions for paedophiles. Cases which were considered "Dead Certs" ended with the alleged abuser being given a Not Guilty verdict and allowed back into our community. So, whom do we lobby and why and where and when. "When" - that's easy - you just don't pick a time - you just keep on fighting to be heard on the issue of child rights and child sexual abuse. "Why" - that' easy too because the laws simply are not enough to secure convictions. When a man who has a history of unpaid parking fines can be sent to jail, and a man who has a history of sexually abusing young children is released on a not guilty verdict, then we clearly have something wrong with our system of justice. Again, multiple victims/class action, enabling co-counsel to assist the Deputy Crown Prosecutor (generally overloaded with cases)...there are many areas where improvements can be made without treading on anyone's toes or without assailing anyone's rights. "Where" - locally and nationally. Each State and Territory has its own laws but if those laws are in conflict with Commonwealth law, then commonwealth law takes precedence. In other words, simply put, the law of the land over-rides any inconsistency which might appear in the law of a State or Territory. In many areas of law and order, especially and most recently the Gun Laws, consensus and agreement is encouraged at the highest level. So, why, in the area of child protection is there such a major problem? Every State and Territory should be encouraging an all out offensive against child pornography and child paedophiles. Lobbying for change in some areas is especially difficult. "Who" do you lobby? Local politicians. Those in the area of Health, Education and the Attorney General. These are the main areas that deal with the community issues. When, as in Sydney, you have a released child killer being placed in accommodation directly opposite a primary school....what you get is a major "housing" problem, so the area to be targeted in terms of lobbying depends greatly on the issue(s) themselves. |
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But lobbying is about "battles" on the home front. What about the WAR against community apathy and denial..... |
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Isn't that a bit drastic? I thought so too, when I first wrote it, but then I remembered that what we are fighting FOR is child rights and what we are fighting AGAINST is the crime that is Paedophile Activity as well as raising Australian communities out of their apathy and denial. How did you feel when Bell received his sentence as the paedophile he was proven to be? Did you think that the System works when put to the test? How wrong you are and how easily you can be lulled into believing that the fight against paedophile activity can be won by placing one perpetrator behind bars. You may rest assured that for every paedophile serving time in prison, there are hundreds, if not thousands, who are at this very minute either searching for their next victim, assaulting the existing one, or are in the process of covering their tracks the previous child victim having lost its sexual appeal and possible disclosure being imminent.
IS A DECLARATION OF WAR AGAINST PAEDOPHILES! |
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This was the call to arms in 1984. It was sounded again in 1987 at the Paedophilia: Policy & Prevention Conference by Dr Bill Glaser and again, in the introduction of the Conference publication by Adam Graycar, Executive Director of the Australian Institute of Criminology: |
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How many children must suffer the indignity of sexual abuse at the hands of adults whilst those in positions of power can only come up with lowering the age of consent to 12! This does not come anywhere close to solving the problem, and neither does establishing CRIMTRAC when the data already collected can be corrupted by that from Western Australia because of that State's refusal to co-operate in co-ordinating an offensive against paedophile activity which stretches across the country. If we're worried about illegal immigrants and boat people infiltrating through remote coastal areas and getting lost in our larger cities' metropolis, believe me, we have much more reason to be concerned about the rapid growth of powerful paedophile and child pornography networks. |
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I am a grandmother of nearly 55. It's difficult for us "oldies" to understand all this because we don't want to think it can happen to our children or our grandchildren. Believe me, it can happen to anyone. The only way to ensure that you have diminished the risk to your family as far as you are able to do so, is to arm yourself with the knowledge of what Paedophile Activity is and how to recognise the possible signs of child sexual abuse. |
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You can duplicate this over and over again, but the result is the same - word spreads faster, discussion is broader and the Government might be able to encourage Australian communities everywhere to understand that what we are facing is a crime wave of unprecedented evil and unparalleled size. I fail to see why the country's greatest resource - it's people - are constantly sold short. This crime of Paedophile Activity has not sprung up overnight: it has evolved over many decades and, encouraged by the boom years of the 1980s and fast-moving technology together with ever-diminishing distance because of the Internet, still remains (generally) unrecognised and unchecked. We, the Australian people, are being asked to accept multiculturalism, gay and lesbian rights, women's rights and lots more - so why not the rights of paedophiles to molest our children free from the fear of punishment through the courts? Ridiculous, you say? It's not nearly as improbable as you think it is. For as long as Australians close their eyes and ears to what is going on because it is "distasteful" to think that young children are being sought out for planned sexual abuse, their families carefully groomed and their trust gained and violated within the span of a decade (more or less, depending on how deep in denial the family is in regard to the matter of sex education which affects the length of time it takes for a child to disclose the abuse), only to find that having gone through the gruelling process of disclosure, police investigation and trial, that a jury releases the accused abuser back into our community on "technicalities" and laws which sever and dismember the known and, often, predictable behaviour patterns of paedophiles and place on the Statutes the two most directly opposite yet most clearly related crimes - "Possession of Pornography" and the "Act of sexually abusing a minor" - what chance do families and children have of being protected? All the interconnecting information which explains the careful infiltration of the family, the opportunity carefully sought, where the motive began already with the possession of pornography - all these are ignored or deemed "inadmissible evidence" WHY? Why are Australians allowing this kind of thing to keep on keeping on? Is this our Australian tradition - apathy? I don't believe it is. We need to get more than Stranger Danger into our schools and our community health clinics. We need to be able to get out to the far corners of this wonderful land of ours a paedophilia public awareness campaign that people can relate to. Who better to put such a campaign together than those who have been the secondary victims of the crime of Paedophile Activity - the families. That's what this web site is about...it's a small step in what we, the families of victims of paedophiles believe is the right direction. |
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