Another side hobbie that my father loves is photography. He does weddings, birthday parties, and even family reunions. I was always his "side partner" because he would use me to shoot when testing his lens position and focusing.
Now that I'm older my father and I have grown even closer. Since my parents are divorced I usually see my dad once a week. When I do see him we usually cook out, wash our cars, or just talk. One thing I believe is that once people age they see how important life is and how easily it can be taken from you. However, I don't hold a grudge towards my father for not being as family oriented as my mother because he has finally come across to see what family is about. There's no question in my mind how important me and my brother are to him. Just that special look that he has in his eyes when we're all together is enough.