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The
View From Here By Brad Mellesmoen, Vancouver |
WHY AM I
HERE? a free association rambling
You are a child of the
Universe No
less than the moon and the stars You have a right to be here -The
Desiderata
"My
advice is keep your problems deep inside, eat a lot of red meat
and hope for a quick, painless heart attack" -my redneck friend Jim
At the interesting age of 35, you begin to wonder a
few things. Why am I here? What is my purpose? Why doesn't a merciful "God" get
off his throne and drop a few miserable drops of rain on those starving African children?
Why did they change the name of "Two Guys A Girl and a Pizza Place" to just
"Two Guys And A Girl"? These are the questions that keep me up late at night,
hanging naked from my bedroom window screaming at a moon that taunts me with it's ever
evolving shape (it's a sliver, no it's full, now it's half--it's enough to give Oprah
Winfrey a complex).
Let's face it, there are no answers. Whether we are
here because of some cosmic twist of fate or because some cosmic "other" force
that judges us based on whether we're good or bad, it matters not a whit. We're in it for
the long haul and have no choice but to make it work, whatever it takes. Presently, I am
single, technically middle-age, making a barely passable living and happier than I've been
in a very long time. And, that has to do with just letting things go. I've had
relationship problems, legal problems, family problems, drinking problems, self-image
problems and one by one, they are released. They cannot haunt me anymore, cannot follow me
wherever I go, because I've put them in their place. And, I did it all thanks to my
newfound respect for crack cocaine. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, it's awesome and
(contrary to rumor), totally harmless. Especially if you do it all the time. It's curbed
my appetite, helped me drop weight, given me a focus for my meager savings and introduced
me to a whole new subculture that I, otherwise, would never have known. Last month, I even
had the opportunity to visit a methadone clinic. How many of us get to say that? Yes,
crack cocaine is my friend, my companion, my secret lover that I can't deny anymore. And,
I think it's my calling to get the message out there. Finally, the answer to "Why am
I here?".
I wrote a book about it, which (sadly) you will
never read, because the advance I got my from my publisher went right to my dealer for
more crack cocaine. Oh yeah, I also had to sell my computer to buy more and am writing
this free hand to be transcribed later by my parole officer (who has also introduced me to
some amazing new connections, all for a very low fee). Is it just me, or shouldn't parents
stop worrying so much about this issue and just let their kids get into it, too? If you're
worried that they're never home, believe me, once they're hooked, they'll probably never
leave! By the way, my middle-school speaking tour begins in late November and I'm quite
excited about it. The season and all. I had little flyers made up for the teachers to hand
out "It's A Crack Cocaine Christmas". There's nothing better than waking up on
our favorite holiday, looking at all those presents under the tree and thinking your hair
is on fire. So many adventures. A few weeks back, me and some friends (under the
supervision of Dr. DJ-Kool Kitty), got together in my apartment (free from the constraints
of furniture--sold to buy more crack cocaine), slit our wrists and sprayed the walls with
our blood. Laugh if you will, but I read in Architectural Digest that John Tesh and Connie
Selleca did the same thing in their Beverly Hills manse.
Sure, there are some drawbacks (like the time
I vomited all over the group of CBC new anchors that were in for dinner at my restaurant),
but who am I to quibble. After all, there are no answers to the universe, nothing concrete
anyway. So, I'm taking my own advice. I'm making the best of it. I'm in it for the long
haul. I remember walking along Wreck Beach one day with my hypodermic needle and a juicy
new speedball. I asked the crack cocaine why there was only set of footprints in the sand,
and it said to me (in it's rich baritone): "That's when I carried you..." And, I
understood. Ahh... Anyway, my hand is getting shaky so I'd better stop there. After all,
this afternoon I'm going gun shopping. Ta! |
East London Line By Kevin
Letterman, London |
LOVE FOR CELL (or: On My Dislike
of Mobile Phones) I wonder if the Grandma
Walton hated it when John Boy brought home one of the first phones, claiming it was the
wave of the future. Would she have thought it rude to answer it during dinner? Surely she
would have inspected it inch by inch, searching for the numerical symbol of the beast.
Then along came the answering machine, so we wouldnt miss those all important calls
when we were out. Technology can be great, but havent we come to the point of
thinking were so important we absolutely have to be reached at all times?
My boyfriend and I decided to have a nice, quiet
evening out for dinner some weeks ago. During our tete a tete, his mobile rang and he
instinctively reached for it. Scolding is a nice way of describing how I reacted.
"But its Sarah.." he wined. "I have to know how she got on with that
guy she shagged last night!" He couldnt grasp why I thought it was rude to
interrupt our dinner. Is it abnormal for me to want the undivided attention and affection
of my loved one? After I stabbed the lone olive in his martini glass with about 12 tiny
plastic swords, he lowered himself to merely checking for messages every 20 minutes.
Greater London has a population of about 14 million.
I know this because I have to shove most of them out of my way each morning as I tread my
way to work. Thats about all the human interaction I need, thank you very much. Now,
not only do I have to deal with this maze of rats scurrying around trying to find their
way everywhere, I have to listen to the incessant ringing of mobile phones. Its a
concrete jungle, where the real birds are comatose, having been replaced by electronic
chirping. Ive been to a lot of the worlds cities and I must tell you I have
never seen as many cell phones as there are in London.
There are two reasons people buy cell phones. 1.
Convenience 2. Status Symbol. Unfortunately, the majority fall into the latter category. I
suppose its the cheaper alternative to penis extension surgery. Now, all can wave
their magic phones around as some kind of Freudian replacement for whats lacking.
Nowhere is this more apparent than amongst the gay community. Youre nobody until you
have a mobile phone.
Soon, and my psychic advisor confirms this, it will
be in vogue NOT to own a cell phone. Sadly, whilst I await the glorious day when yours
truly will be trendy again, Im surrounded by the medias chronic need to sell
the devil phone. You have to keep up with the latest styles you know. As with toothpaste,
which seems to have a new improved ingredient weekly (baking soda, whitener, breath
freshener, micro-cleaning granules, crack filler and liquid sandpaper
), mobile
phones change like the British weather system. As with most technology, they are getting
smaller and coming in all colors of the rainbow. My personal favorite is the hands
free unit, or the Turrets Pack, as I like to call it. You
dont have to take it out of your pocket now. You just plug in your earphones and
walk around town talking into the air, looking like a complete twat. Of course, no one
will know youve set it to vibration mode, so youll look even more diseased
when people dont hear it ring.
Its simple. Most of the time, I dont
want to be contacted by the pesky human race. Im not a recluse by any stretch, but I
simply dont elevate myself up to that urgent pillar that screams "Heres
my mobile number, call me and well do the cocktail thing". Granted, I do own a
PC and answering machine, but I possess the will to turn those things off and dont
have to carry them around with me for eternity, waiting for my buddies to ring and let me
know which hair salon theyre sipping cappuccino at
.and thats The East
London Line.
Editors Note: Kevin has since parted ways with
his partner, after lengthy peace talks which led to the following conclusion: "Kevin,
I just dont feel that you give me enough attention". The party in question emailed
him mere days later with words stinking of eternal love and the possibility of
retribution
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Auntie Linda's Deeper Thoughts |
ABBA DABBA DOO
What is it with you fags and ABBA? Now, Auntie Linda
loves her music just as much as the next sweet transvestite, but I certainly DO NOT
worship the ground that Julio Iglesias walks on!
On my last trip out, doing the rounds of the London
gay club curcuit (as Im often invited to host only the most fabulous nights
),
it came to my attention that 20 years on, ABBA still has the dance floors shaking. They
still create that same buzz in the land of the fairies. The club in question had the most
up-to-date sounds, fresh from the UK and world charts, but when Waterloo piped
out, you couldnt keep from spilling your martini for the stampede-like rush. What is
this phenomenon, and why has it remained stuck in the gay culture in particular?
In my column this month, Ive chosen to ask
International ABBA Information Specialist and Used Briefs Recycling Engineer Brad
Mellesmoen for his expressions on the matter. Once Brad agreed to the interview, I was
whisked away to his private office on the Vancouver harbor. Before I knew it, the martinis
were in full swing and our discussion began.
LINDA: Well Bradley, thank you so much for giving us
your time to do this ABBA special. I know how busy you are with your briefs and all.
BRAD: The only thing I have to say Linda, is that
ABBA was and still is THE pop group of all time.
LINDA: Well, thank you Brad. That's all we
have time for today I'm afraid.
EXCERPT FROM BLUE BABY BY KEVIN
SPENCE
Finally, after minutes of useless
pitter-patter and the creation of tense, void air between us, he grabbed me and kissed me.
Shopping bags mingled with clothes, flying across the room to knock over an odd assortment
of kitchy, empty cologne bottles I had left on the windowsill (Dont ask, its a
kind of fag thing) (Come to think of it, I was arranging colored bottles in my room to a
scratchy 45 of Dancing Queen at least ten years before I realized my sexuality.)
THE GAY SUBTEXT OF DANCING QUEEN
A line-by-line dissection of the song
Friday night and the lights are low, looking out for
a place to go, where they play the rock music
Where are most scene queens on a Friday night? What
sort of lighting is there?
Anybody could be that guy
Hmmm.
Night is young and the musics high..
At least the night is young, unfortunately,
youre the one whos usually high.
Chorus: You are the dancing queen, young and sweet,
only 17..
You think youre a star on that disco floor,
dont you? We all do. Well, just look around you the next time youre out
clubbing. First of all, while we were once young, sweet and 17, the odds are that those of
us still melancholic over this tune are about 30-40 and BITTER. Secondly, they dont
call them disco floors anymore sweetie.
Dancing queen, feel the beat of the tambourine, you
can dance, you can jive, having the time of your life
Its not the tambourine we want to feel. Our
dancing probably looks like a cross between shoveling snow and the results of that awful
square dancing class we had to take in grade 9 Phys. Ed.
OTHER GAY SUBTEXT FOUND IN ABBA SONG TITLES:
Gimme, Gimme, Gimme
(a man after midnight?
Please
)
The Winner Takes It All (and constantly rubs it into
your tear ducts via his boy du jour)
Does Your Mother Know? (Does she know that in spite
of the fact that youre merely 14, you spend your nights selling your body at the
local cruising ground, so that you can afford those designer rubber pants and an upper
class drug habit?)
Voulez-Vous? (do you need to ask?)
Mama Mia (here I go again
I just have to remain
in this co-dependent state, addicted to your masochistic love, your alcoholism, your
cocaine addiction, your alleged three-ways with two other people Ive never
met
)
I Have A Dream (dont we all
)
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Down Under by Rita Maree,
Australian Correspondent |
Ummm
..shall
we talk about the weather
Its a beautiful day. You notice
this phenomenon in London because it doesnt happen very often. Picture yourself
walking down the street, any street. You notice coming toward you an old acquaintance.
Although that is all the information you can muster regarding this person, you certainly
know that he knows you because he just ran into someone while watching you approach. There
is a smile, huge, and baring all teeth.
A big hello bellows out of his cavelike
mouth and even worse, he calls you by name.
You mimic his salutation of course, in
the hope that he will extend some kind of hint as to his identity. But to no avail, thus
resulting in one of those terribly heavy pauses that tend to overtake a conversation,
killing it off like a big cat on the African planes would his dinner. Seconds go by ever
so slowly, you look left and right and everywhere except "there", trying to buy
a little time perhaps. Then you look up and are saved. The weather! The glorious beautiful
weather!
"Nice weather we are having?",
you grin right back, smug with the fact that you managed to achieve conversational
initiation.
The air clears and muscles relax
there is much to talk about because there are at least 4 seasons in one day in London and
at least 5 minutes may be spent discussing each in turn, thus buying a little time.
Amidst this comfortable banter he drops
the much awaited hint. Oh yes its that Jack fellow you met in one of the many bars you
went to last Saturday, smile, and "wasnt it cold this morning". You knew
this because he was handing you a personal business card proclaiming ownership of the
premises in question and verbally enquiring as to your plans this coming Saturday.
"Well, dont forget to wear your woolly jumper
tonight
Jack" reading the card out loud was out of the
question so you take that chance. He smiled again and agreed, exaggerating a shiver, and
suddenly the road ahead becomes wide and clear. The sun shines, the birds sing, and you
feel . . . . . relieved?
Further down the footpath you glance down
at the card in your hand. It reads "Nicolas Dwight"
The point is, when all else fails, like
it sometimes does, the ever changing weather that we all take for granted, unconditionally
saves the moment. If it was constantly sunny, many would fail miserably when that
conversational pause arrives to challenge us. Be assured, I am certainly not encouraging
you to join the hoards of people that dot the parks like ants on a chunk of meat, if and
when the sun does come out. Only, look up occasionally and thank mother nature for her
hard work, she knows what she is doing. |
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