These games are for you guys who have no intention of EVER being romantic for her.
BUT,if you'd like to try, and would like some help writing that special note, try this.. Cyrano
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Man 
"A demitasse would fit his head like a sombrero."
Too many men seem to think that being romantic blemishes their "Macho" image. I don't believe that. To put it with a bit of humor, if a man is sure of his "image" so to speak, he can boldly walk into any store and buy a box of lady napkins, and never think twice about it.
Here, I may get a bit critical, and I make no apologies to any of my colleagues for my remarks or thoughts. If you get upset at this, more than likely you're guilty of it.
I dedicate this page to all us, sometimes, Neadrathol. And I am not ashamed to admit it. We are all self made men, but only the successful ones will admit to it. And here is a hard look at some of my associates. If you feel your woman is a sloppy, fat, ugly beast now, what made you fall in love with her? Have you looked at yourself lately? If you come home sloppy drunk, sit down in front of the TV the minute you get home with a six-pack of beer, and demand dinner, what do you expect? I know, I've heard that one. "I've been working hard all day to make a living." Have you tried taking care of a house, with all the things which need to be done to keep the "operation" running smoothly? If that's what you think of her, she's BEEN showing you what she thinks of you for some time. And then you wonder why woman stereotypes us as Neanderthal.
And then there are those of who for whom it's job and career, career and job, eat, sleep and drink job. And some place in between when you have a spare minute, you expect her to be ready for romance, and excellent love making. Women cannot turn it on and off like a light bulb. Hot or Not. It doesn't work like that. To expect her to turn it on between your job and the hunting/fishing trip, or football game is not romance, nor making love. You guys go through all that trouble to learn as much as you can about the game you hunt, the hot fishing spots, or your favorite team and the opposition, but know NOTHING about the woman you say you love. If you don't understand it, you don't get the best. I work predominately in a male environment, so I hear, and have heard more tales over these years, first hand.
Hey, taking her to McDonalds once a month is NOT romantic. Taking your lady to the bowling alley for a beer with one straw is also not acceptable.
And most of all, learn PATIENCE. If she's taking her time in the "powder room",
or wants to sift through every garment in the store, or, go back to the same store three times in the same hour, patience, she's doing it for you. For you to get impatient, will definitely spoil any possibility for a romantic evening.
"for what is the beloved? She is that which I myself am not. In the act of love, I am pure male, and she is pure female. She is she and I am I, and clasped together with her, I know how perfectly she is not me, how perfectly I am not her, how utterly we are two, the light and the darkness, and how infinitely and eternally not to be comprehended by either of us is the surpassing one we make." ~D. H. Lawrence
"Whether the pretty woman grants or withholds her favors, she always likes to be asked for them." Ovid
Words of wisdom from the past: from the Chinese, 2nd and 3rd century AD, the Taoist attitude to sex: " All debility of man must be attributed to the faulty ways of loving....Woman is stronger in thought and constitution than man, as water is stronger than fire".
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