Natural Consequences:  Is Misunderstood.


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express-   v.  1.  speak, utter, state
  2.  squeeze out
adj.  3.  fast, speedy, nonstop

Cause

natural-adj.  1.  normal, ordinary, legitimate, regular
  2.  natal, native, inbred, hereditary

Effect

consequence-n.  effect, result, outcome

Effected Cause

motive-n.  cause, reason, purpose, spur, incentive, stimulus

How To

direction-v  1.  way, course, bearing
  2.  control, guidance

To Get Rid of Stressed Love

release-v.  1.  liberate, loose, free, extricate, relinquish
  2.  quit, let go
n.  3.  liberation, discharge, freedom

To Get Free or Ease Pain

relief-n.  1.  help, assistance, aid, support
  2.  comfort, ease


How do we tend feelings?

emotion-n.  A strong feeling, such as happiness, love, anger, or grief

feeling-feel-v.  1.  To touch something with your finger or to experience something touching
       you.
  2.  To have a certain emotion or sensation.
  3.  To think or have an opinion.
  4.  To seem to be; verb feeling; felt-noun

1.  Can love be felt by feeling anger?  Yes_____ No_____
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2.  Can you feel love by feeling happiness?  How?
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3.  Can love feel like grief?  When?
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4.  Could you feel love by feeling resentment?  Why or why not?
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5.  Where do you think feelings come from?
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Yes, feelings stir emotion:

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Write down all emotion(s)

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1.  Do you think that you stress?_____

2.  Do you think that you express love?_____

3.  Do you tend stress?_____

4.  Do you stress life?_____

5.  Do you express life?_____

6.  Do you find effective stress relief?_____

7.  Do you find relief from life?_____

tend-v.  1.  watch, gaurd, protect
  2.  incline, lean, verge


What is natural?

1.  To live and release direction and motivaiton;  Or:  To live and relieve direction and motivation?
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2.  To live and relieve stress;  Or:  To live and release stress?
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3.  To live and relieve life;  Or:  To live and release life?
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4.  Do you know what compromise means?  Guess!
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5.  What do you think a natural compromise would be?
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Here's a Birth Riddle to Grow on!

          I came into this world backward.  I then began to grow up in a backward world.  The first time I saw the position I was in it made me look at the reality of myself, and the world around me.  So, naturally I began to cry after taking my first trip down Memory Lane, and then my first breath.  Okay, so I lost sight.  Huh?  What ever!
          The second time I saw the position I was in, it made me see the reality of myself, and see the world as backward.  I decided that I would not turn around again.  So, I began to try and hold my head up.  I fell and fell, then stumbled and bobbed, and began again, (after catching my breath of course).  Naturally, I began to cry again after taking my second trip down Memory Lane.  This time the first thing I did, was close my eyes and begin to scream!  Again I lost my breath and lost sight.  I then felt fear and anxiety, causing me to suffer from the insecure world and the insecure me and...Hold your breath...
          The third time I opened my eyes, I was beginning to see a little clearer, not quite in focus but, workable.  This was when I realized that there was no turning back!  So I began to hold my head up high, causing me lose my breath from the helplessness that I felt!  I let out a few tiny pleas for help.  Then, I began to lose focus of Memory Lane, because it was time for dinner and Mom wasn't a very experienced cook.  Not only that, I suddenly felt wet all over and really empty inside.  But, experienced or not, Mom has a way of making me feel dry and full, and this helps me focus on life.

HINT:  For a clear understanding; This riddle requires pure natural thinking; Use of very little reasoning; Consider it closely to get an impressionable interpretation (No logic required).  I can not turn back or around but, I can learn to turn over.  What is Memory Lane?

To recognize; is to realize

To let go of your Memory Lane, is not to adapt but, to change!


The possibilities of the human mind are endless:

          If you were born into the same world as everyone else, then you too, had a life in a day.  Don't choose to have this same day throughout your life.  Don't even prefer the same day!  Do you desire to have simply; A day in a life, or a life in a day?  Are you still packing your first day around with you?  If your answer is yes, you should change your first day, for a lifetime!


Here's a Grown Riddle to Birth on!

          I came into the world backward.  I then grew up in a backward world.  The first time I saw the position I was in, I looked at reality, then ran to hide.
          The second time I saw the reality, and the backward conceptions and the backward interpretaions, I decided that I would not turn around again and go backward in this backward world.  I wanted to go forward in a backward world!
          The third time, I said, " I won't go back to the way I saw and heard to interpret things the way I did before."  (This would be the same as walking backward.)
          To go forward is not to rationalize by justifying but, to realize miracles and accept them and to treasure them as they are (unjustified and rational).  Hold the miracle of reality, by sharing your thoughts and keeping the realizations going consistantly, continuously forward!  This will enable you to realize and reognize the wonderful miracle of life.


Go forward by staying ahead and looking back and forth:

We were born to grow and learn.
We were born to live, to love, and to reflect.

Remember to be born.

Remember to achieve.

Remember to listen.

Remember to learn.

Remember to live.

Remember to love.

1.  Is life pleasant if you have one pleasant day a week?

2.  Is life happy because you have one happy moment in a day?

3.  Is life content with one happy moment, one happy thought, or one pleasant day in a week?


Jumping the truth is blinding:

1.  What is the content of life?
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2.  Does life contain happiness, pleasantries and contentment?  How and when?
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3.  Do you think life's contents are contained?  Why or why not?
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4.  What is satisfaction in life?
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5.  What is satisfactory in life?
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6.  Is it enough to simply satisfy others during life?  Why or why not?
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Do not compromise life; compromise proudly:

compromise-v.  1.  To agree to accept something that is not really what you wanted.
n.  2.  An agreement that is reached after people with opposing views each give
       up some of their demands.

compromise-v.  1.  adjust, agree, settle, come to an understanding
  2.  endanger, imperil, jeopardize; Fred's career was compromised by his poor
       English.

1.  Do people compromise with the world?  Yes_____ No_____

2.  Do people try to compromise with others?  Yes_____ No_____

3.  Do people compromise with stress?  Yes_____ No_____

4.  Do people compromise with life?  Yes_____ No_____

How is this possible?


Never compromise your compromises!

1.  How do you think people compromise with the world?
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2.  How do you think people compromise other people?
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3.  How do you think stress could be compromised?
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4.  Do you think people compromise life?  Why or why not?
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5.  How and why should people compromise for or with the world?  Others?  Life?  Love?  Happiness?  Stress?
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6.  How does the word compromise change in meaning when used with the words; with, for and because?
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Never compromise yourself.
(respect, integrity, intelligence)
Never Proudly Compromise!


Ask what, then ask why, to find out how:

          Stress management repuires not only constructive thinking but, imagination as well.  Imagination is a thought in process.  To stretch the imagination, is the same as opening the mind.  "An open mind is a clear, creative mind."
          At this time, we suggest, that you take a week or two off.  During your time off, think about what you have taught yourself.  It will prove useful to keep a journal to record understanding that you may arrive at during this time.  While you are taking this break, pay close attention to your automatic (responsive) thought.  Notice how people (coworkers-workers,family members, and even the clerk at the grocery store) present themselves.  Even more important, notice how your own automatic thinking effects your presintations.  This includes the handling of confrontations.  Hence; Cause and Effect.
          The questions previously presented, are questions that people, ordinarily, don't care or simply wouldn't bother to ask themselves.  They do this mostly out of fear and denial.  However, some people have probably never considered such silliness!  Possibly this is the reason that riddle of life has never been completely solved.


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