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in her hand and, shaping
her lips to an 'O', lays them
lightly to its tip,
moving her head in tiny circles,
this first step is called
"Nimitta" (Touching).
Next, grasping its head in
her hand,
she clamps her lips tightly
about the shaft,
first on one side then the
other,
taking great care that her
teeth don't hurt you:
this is "Parshvatoddashta"
(Biting at the Sides).
Now she takes the head of
your penis
gently between her lips,
by turns pressing, kissing
it tenderly
and pulling at its soft skin:
this is "Bahiha-samdansha"
(the Outer Pincers).
If next she allows the head
to slide
completely into her mouth
and presses the shaft firmly
between her lips,
holding a moment before pulling
away,
it is "Antaha-samdansha" (the
Inner Pincers).
When, taking your penis in
her hand
and making her lips very round,
she presses fierce kisses
along its whole length,
sucking as she would at your
lower lip,
it is called "Chumbitaka"
(Kissing).
If, while kissing, she lets
her tongue
flick all over your penis
and then, pointing it, strikes
repeatedly
at the sensitive glans-tip,
it becomes "Parimrshtaka"
(Striking at the Tip).
And now, fired by passion,
she takes
your penis deep into her mouth,
pulling upon it and sucking
as vigorously
as though she were stripping
clean a mango-stone:
this is "Amrachushita" (Sucking
a Mango).
When she senses that your
orgasm
is imminent she swallows up
the whole penis,
sucking and working upon it
with lips and tongue until
you spend:
this is "Sangara" (Swallowed
Whole).
With delicate fingertips,
pinch the arched lips of her
house of love
very very slowly together,
and kiss them as though you
kissed her lower lip:
this is "Adhara-sphuritam"
(the Quivering Kiss).
Now spread, indeed cleave
asunder,
that archway with your nose
and let your tongue
gently probe her "yoni" (vagina),
with your nose, lips and chin
slowly circling:
it becomes "Jihva-bhramanaka"
(the Circling Tongue).
Let your tongue rest for a
moment
in the archway to the flower-bowed
Lord's temple
before entering to worship
vigorously,
causing her seed to flow:
this is "Jihva-mardita" (the
Tongue Massage).
Next, fasten your lips to
hers
and take deep kisses
from this lovely one, your
beloved,
nibbling at her and sucking
hard at her clitoris:
this is called "Chushita"
(Sucked).
Cup, lift her young buttocks,
let your tongue-tip probe
her navel, slither down
to rotate skilfully in the
archway
of the love-god's dwelling
and lap her love-water:
this is "Uchchushita" (Sucked
Up).
Stirring the root of her thighs,
which her own hands
are gripping and holding widely
apart,
your fluted tongue drinks
at her sacred spring:
this is "Kshobhaka" (Stirring).
Place your darling on a couch,
set her feet to your shoulders,
clasp her waist,
suck hard and let your tongue
stir
her overflowing love-temple:
this is called "Bahuchushita"
(Sucked Hard).
If the pair of you lie side
by side,
facing opposite ways,
and kiss each other's secret
parts
using the fifteen techniques
described above,
it is known as "Kakila" (the
Crow).
There is a spot inside the vagina that is extremely
sensitive to deep pressure. It is felt through the anterior or front wall
of the vagina about five centimetres from the entrance.
The spot is called the G spot or Grafenberg spot
after the first modern physician to describe it.
When properly stimulated, the G spot swells and
leads to orgasm in many women.
It is probable that every woman has a G spot.
The researchers found one in every woman they examined. "It is the homologue
of the male prostate," they said.
At the moment of orgasm, many women ejaculate
a liquid through the urethra that is chemically similar to male ejaculate
but contains no sperm.
As a result of stimulation of the G spot, women
often have a series of orgasms.
For many women, it is difficult to properly stimulate
the G spot in the missionary position. Other positions such as the one
with the woman sitting astride on top or the one with male entry into the
vagina from the rear ("doggie style") work better.
Because they believe they are urinating, many
women are embarrassed about ejaculating. Their partners, thinking urination
has taken place, often belittle them, which is one reason many women have
learned to suppress orgasm.
The strength of a woman's pubococcygeus (PC) muscles
is directly related to her ability to reach orgasm through intercourse.
Women can learn to strengthen their PC muscles
or to relax them if they are too tense.
There are three main types of orgasm in women
: The vulval orgasm triggered by the clitoris; the uterine orgasm triggered
by intercourse; and a combination of the two. (Ref: Singer.)
Many of the audience were sceptical. This was
something that went against everything they knew or, indeed, had experienced
themselves. In the previous two decades of sex research, Masters and Johnson
had held full sway. Married couple Dr William Masters and Ms Johnson had
experimented with large numbers of volunteers in their sex laboratory,
wiring them for responses in breathing, heart beat, and other bodily functions
during intercourse and masturbation. After closely observing the experiments,
which they filmed, and questioning the subjects, they declared that the
so-called vaginal orgasm was a myth.
"The clitoris is the only source of orgasm in
the female," they said, adding that stimulation of the skin, breast, nipples,
ear-lobes, and mouth increased sexual response.
The films taken by Masters and Johnson, their
papers, their figures recording breathing rates, blood pressure, heart
beat, vaginal lubrication and other physical responses had convinced almost
everyone they were right.
At the end of the 1980 conference, gynaecologist
Dr Martin Weisberg of Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia
said the new information was "bull."
"I spend half my waking hours examining, cutting
apart, putting together, removing, or rearranging female reproductive organs.
There is no female prostate and women don't ejaculate," he said. Afterwards,
Perry and Whipple produced a woman whose vagina was being stimulated manually
by her partner so that Weisberg could examine her stimulated G spot. He
changed his mind.
"The vulva and vagina were normal with no abnormal
masses or spots," he said. "The urethra was normal. Everything was normal.
She had her partner stimulate her by inserting two fingers into the vagina
and stroking along the urethra lengthwise. To my amazement the area began
to swell. It eventually became a firm oval area, one by two centimetres
in size, distinctly different from the rest of the vagina. In a few moments,
the subject seemed to perform a Valsalva manoeuvre (bearing down as if
starting to defecate), and seconds later several cc's of milky fluid shot
out of the urethra. The material was clearly not urine. In fact, if the
chemical analysis in the paper (given him by Perry and Whipple) is correct,
its composition is closest to prostatic fluid."
After checking with some of his own patients,
Weisberg was finally convinced that women can and really do ejaculate.
There is no doubt that the G spot is present
in most if not all females. It needs proper stimulation before it is noticeable
by touch. Even a woman herself is not aware of her G spot until sensitivity
in it is well developed over time and stimulated again properly during
intercourse. The G spot is composed of erectile tissue, like that in a
penis, into which blood rushes when it is sexually stimulated. Digital
stimulation and masturbation using a vibrator also work to develop the
spot.
First rub your penis with wasp stings
and massage it with sweet oil.
When it swells, let it dangle for ten nights
through a hole in your bed,
going to sleep each night on your stomach.
After this period use a cool ointment
to remove the pain and swelling.
By this method men ... of insatiable
sexual appetite, manage to keep
their penises enlarged throughout their lives.
By applying an ointment made from
crushed barleria leaves
to her "yoni", the elephant (large) woman
can spend at least one night
discovering the delights of being a doe ("small"
woman).
Likewise the doe can use honey
mixed with powdered roots
of lotus, madder, "sal" (tree of aromatic gum),
the blue lotus and the mongoose plant
to accomodate a stallion for one night.
POSITION 1 : The missionary position
The 'missionary' position is probably the most widely used of all positions. The man has nearly total control during intercourse. The woman can only move her legs to change the angle and depth of penetration. This position offers easy eye contact, kissing, deep penetration, and a high level of clitoral stimulation . The man lies on top of the woman and he guides or she guides his erect penis into the vagina. In this position he can control his thrusting, slowing down or speeding up to control when he orgasms. She can spread her legs or wrap them around his buttocks for some control over his thrusting. Another and most pleasurable option for the woman who likes a great deal of clitoral stimulation, is for the man once he has penetrated to move his body forward a little. This brings his pubic area over on top of hers. Instead of the man thrusting in and out, the partners almost 'grind' their pubic areas together. In this position many men will last a little longer and many women will have an intense orgasm from the direct clitoral stimulation. Couples can vary this position by having the man kneel or stand at the side of the bed and then push up into his partner. The couple can adjust the angle of penetration by using a cushion or pillow.The woman can pull her knees close to her chest and put her feet on the man's shoulders. This allows extremely deep penetration.
POSITION 2 : Rear Entry (Doggie Style)
Rear entry positions can be particularly stimulating for both men and women because they stimulate different areas of the vagina and penis. These positions can be pleasurable for those women with a sensitive G-spot because they create the greatest stimulation for this area.
or the 'doggie', the woman kneels on her hands and knees on the bed or floor and her partner kneels behind her and inserts his penis. Men also enjoy the feel of a woman's bottom against their thighs and these positions allow him to caress his partner's vaginal area, breasts and buttocks while enjoying deep penetration. By dropping down onto her elbows or raising her torso the woman can change the angle of her pelvis and vary the sensation. The woman can lie face down on the bed with her legs open. Her partner then lies on top of her with his penis in position. A woman can also stand or kneel beside the bed while her partner enters her from behind. In this position the man can easily reach forward and caress her breasts and clitoris
POSITION 3 : SIDE BY SIDE
Side-by-side positions offer a high level of intimacy as they allow a great deal of body contact. The positions are gentle and romantic and can allow for prolonged intercourse. In the 'spoons' position the partners lie on their sides with the man behind the woman. The woman pulls her knees up and lifts one slightly to allow easy penetration. In this position the man is free to caress his partner's breasts and genitals. The partners can lie facing each other with the woman's legs wrapped around her partners waist. This position leaves the couple free to caress and kiss and by changing the position of their thighs, vary the angle and depth of penetration. If the woman lies on her back with her thighs over the thighs of her partner, he can enter her while at the same time caressing her breasts and genitals.
POSITION 4 : Woman on the Top
The woman on top positions allow the woman to more actively control the sensations, both for herself and her partner. The man has limited mobility and the woman has control over the angle and the depth of penetration. She can also control the speed of the thrusting to suit her own pattern of arousal. These positions are comfortable for women with large partners or where the woman is pregnant. One option is a simple variation of the missionary position. The woman lies on top of the man and guides his penis into her vagina. The couple can vary the position of their legs to vary the sensations. In another woman-on-top positions, the woman can sit up. This gives her a full view of her partner, and gives her partner full view of her breasts and genitals which can be extremely arousing . By taking all of her own weight she can control the penetration to her liking. Her partner can caress her breasts and clitoris. The woman can face away from her partner. In this position he can see and stimulate her buttocks and anus and she can stimulate her clitoris while at the same time controlling the thrusting
POSITION 5 : Sitting Position
These
positions allow a high
level of intimacy because they allow the couple
to embrace. They do not allow for a great deal of movement and are suited
to couples seeking a slow intimate session of lovemaking. Sitting positions
can be performed with the man and the women facing one another or with
the woman's back to her partner. All sitting positions allow the woman
to control the movement and vary the stimulation according to her needs.
Sitting positions offer deep penetration which is highly stimulating for
many women.
POSITION 6 : KNEELING
Kneeling positions are simply variations of other positions, but can add variety and interest to a couple's sex life.
f the woman is lying back on a chair or bed the man can kneel between her legs and enter her from this position. This gives the man a good view of the woman's breasts and vagina and he can easily stimulate the nipples and clitoris from this position.
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